I wish guys would approach me and start a conversation?

[Anonymous]

Okay so.. In school, I'm not "popular" or anything (which is fine with me). I'm not shy, but I'm not obnoxious either. I smile often, I'm nice to everyone, I don't gossip, and I don't act like a slut. I'm not mean to guys either. I'm confident enough to say that I know I'm not ugly. I've had two serious boyfriends before, but they turned out to be jerks. That was freshman year. It's been about 3 years and I'm about to be a senior. All I'm waiting for is a nice guy that will come up to me and want to get to know me. I'm sick of always being the one that's single. Why hasn't that happened yet? Is it true that guys get intimidated by the "type" that I seem to be?

[Jollex]

You're never going to achieve anything in life by just waiting for it to happen to you. This applies to every aspect of your life including relationships. Instead of waiting for a guy to talk to you, go start up a conversation with a guy you like.

[JUST13]

Could be... what "type" exactly are you?

Look all I know is... if guys do not come up to you... you go to them. I bet you are a really nice person once people get to know you, so try to show people who you really are.

[Asker]

Lol thank you. I really want to introduce myself if I see a guy that I think is cute or friendly, but I always think guys see that as weird or something. But I know it can be just as difficult for guys too so, I'll try that.

[Sherlock]

Guys not approaching you doesn't mean they're not interested. I'm a bit shy I guess, so I suggest if you see a guy you're attracted to, why not go and start a friendly conversation with them?