What do guys think when they cuddle? Do they cuddle just anyone?

[Anonymous]

We were sitting on his couch looking at pictures and he put his arm behind me but didn't actually touch me, it was resting on the couch behind me and eventually I put my head on his shoulder then he put his arm around me. Eventually we fell asleep for about an hour.

We're not really dating, just text allot, especially since we live 3 hours away.

So I was wondering if it means anything to guys to have a girl put her head on his shoulder or if it means anything when he puts his arm around you? Do guys let any girl do that? What do guys think when a girl does that ?

[StewartJohnson]

Yeah, I think he likes you for sure. I've been known to do the same thing. It's a shy guy thing. The guy wants you to know that he wants to put his arm around you but maybe he is shy about it or doesn't want to be too forthcoming with it. Look, when he did that to you and you put your head on his shoulder, he felt more comfortable and thus put his arm around you after that. Sometimes shy guys just need a kick in the ass to get more comfortable around a new girl and you did your job by helping him out by putting your head on his shoulder.

As far as cuddling goes, obviously it depends on the individual guy...some guys will do it just to get laid, others will do it because they genuinely like you. Sorry I can't really help you too much on your original title question.

[Anonymous]

Touch is nice, cuggles are nice and they can lead to other things, it shows you are comfy with each other, to be in each others personal space and if a girl does it great its nice

[Anonymous]

A guy wouldn't let any woman cuddle with them. They would have to be somewhat attracted to them.