Your poll answers your question I think? The second part of your question is a little more tricky, I think you would have to like each other or that could not work? You can cuddle without being intimate though. Case in point, I have a lady friend who is more inclined towards other ladies, yet when she felt down or sick or needed some comfort for whatever reason, we would sleep together. We shared a house when we were studying. No sex, but to this day, very close friends. A cuddle is fine. It says you mean a lot to me.
Of course. What's not to love? Who wouldn't want to cuddle up to a nice girl and hold her close?
Hate cuddling at night. I've had sleepovers with the boyfriend and the man seems to need to be touching me every second. But he's super warm and I much rather be alone on my side with the cold. But you can't escape him lol he wakes up instantly when I stop touching him and comes and wants to cuddle.
It's like, we did the cuddles and now we're doing the sleeping and the sleeping is different than the cuddles.
Exactly!
Unfortunately for me = yes.
I personally HATE cuddling which forever makes THEM angry.
Men also hate that I won't stay the night.
Much rage ensues... as always.
ie: Serial dater right here.
My guy like me to spoon him;)
He's my personal pillow/heater
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Cuddling is good, although only with whom I'm in a relationship with, and I'd like getting to be touchy-feely in some places and others. I think that's kinda hot.
I love cuddling. I prefer to cuddle. I would cuddle with a close female friend but only if I was single. If I was in a relationship I would only cuddle with my girlfriend. Cuddling with a girl gets me horny, aroused and so sexually excited that she would get a nice surprise fast. That nice surprise is she would suddenly feel a hard boner poking its way against her and if I was super close to the girl I would really let my boner get as massive and poke her as much as it wanted to while I looked her in the eyes and gave her a very naughty sexual smirk/smile.
Absolutely! Unless the guy is a sociopathic "player" using you purely for sex. (Probably because some girl broke his heart and now uses women with emotional disattachment to take back the revenge on women in the same way they feel they were used).. Men (the vast majority) are similar to women (the vast majority) in terms of sharing the same types of emotions "love, anger, comfort (/emotional security), hate, etc". If the guy you are with doesn't like to cuddle, he is probably not someone you would like to further your relationship with. The guys who say they don't are just acting "Alpha", true "Alpha" males don't exist (as much as they would like to) in our current state of American society. LOL, men love cuddling just as much women do. duh.
Does Mr cuddles count?
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He's a person too don't hurt his feeling :'(
I Could go without it... lol
I would cuddle with any girl tbh, but it would only mean something special if we liked eachother and were dating. And yes, i love to cuddle, but I don't know about other men. Its not something that i just 'put up with', i actually look forward to cuddling
Only cuddle with a girl if I get to know them really well. I always have an irrational phobia of some chick just grabbing my balls in anger and squeezing until I'm dead. I know that only happens to like 1/1000000 but those odds don't matter to the one dude that it happens to. Also I'm like a radiator so in the summer a girl would probably would want to be on the opposite side of the bed from me because they'll start to sweat...
that is the weirdest 'phobia' i've heard a person could have lol. i'm quite sure no girl would ever do that, unless she was some psychopath...
I know that's why I said it was irrational. But hey you usually never know someones a psycho until it's already too late. I've read some scary news stories... I don't actually let the fear affect how I am around others. Why live a life that's just filled with fear?(rhetorical question)
I like cuddling all the time but then sometimes I don't I like the space and my space at times But I'm not cuddling with some girl I'm laying up with she has to be my girlfriend of course I don't know any other girl I could cuddle up with my female friends might be weirded out by that lol
I love it. I feel like I am creating a safe, protective, loving environment for my girl, and something about that feels so manly to me.
I don't get these "do guys actually like to.." questions. Of course we do, stop acting like we're machines that only know how to eat and have sex. geez
great answer! ;)
Are you kidding its like on of the best parts! Whether its on the couch watching a movie or lying naked together and holding each other close sharing your body warmth and getting to know each other intimately. It is the best time to connect emotionally.
Either way its time well spent!
Depends on the guy. I like cuddling, but that's just all my female friends, and doesn't have to be in bed! Didn't used to be the case: I used to always get tense, and not know how to be comfortable with it, not that I didn't like it, I was just wary of touching how I maybe shouldn't by accident. My female friends trained me ;)
I even do this when I go to sleep
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Softyyyyyyy and cloudy.
Where does this legend that we don't like cuddling come from? Just because we don't like Hilary Clinton, or is it because women want to justify why they only sleep with rich guys?
cuddling is too feminine a word. we call it man holding.
No we'd much rather we conquering nations and punching saber-tooth tigers in the face BECAUSE WE ARE MEN.
Well, my experience with my ex's was that I wanted to sleep with her in my arms a few more Times than she liked it. It wasn't a problem but yes we love to cuddle when it's right. At other Times I prefered to sleep without contact and had to assure her that it wasn't anything against her. Just out of comfort, sometimes we don't want that.
I like cuddling, but it can make me horny having her pressed up against my body like that. So what starts off as something innocent, can be misunderstood as me just trying to get in her pants by pretending that I like cuddling. To avoid that from happening, I would just prefer not to cuddle at all, or only cuddle after sex.
Men usually only want to cuddle with the women they like. However it is women that apparently don't like cuddling as much.
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I enjoy cuddling with my woman the most but have liked cuddling with others as well. They even have groups and parties for that though I haven't been to one. It's about human interaction and feeling wanted.
Cuddling all night or just 15min max?
Cuz fuck cuddling all night. Sure, the guys that never managed to touch a girls would love the idea of cuddling all night, but trust me when it night and you just trying to sleep and she bothering you... wtf
I love cuddling, and sometimes I rather cuddle than do anything else. We guys also need that emotional connection with someone.
I wouldn't mind cuddling with a girl friend, but if she were my girlfriend, it would be way better of course.
I don't like it. I seriously need my personal space when I'm trying to sleep. I can't fall asleep knowing im feeling trapped or something. Don't get me wrong I dont mind it but just not when im trying to fall asleep.
Yes. This. Someone understands.
Yes i love to cuddle when I'm in a relationship with a girl
I love to cuddle, but I have to be pretty hands off with girls; I've not really gotten to a point where I could "sleep" with a girl. When I'm in a relationship, I'm really affectionate.
If a guy doesn't like to cuddle, I can't be with him. I'm not the most touchy feely person but at night asleep that kind of bonding is special to me.
If it is a girl we actually like the Yes, we like it. I would even say I love it. If it is a one night stand then No, I hate it.
I love being close to my girl!! In fact I have had some tell me that I pull them closer to me while im sleeping. ain't nothin better than waking up with a face full of someones hair LOL
What? Why shouldn't be true? Cuddling is my number one turn on and I can cuddle for hours without going any further than that. I never keep my distance with my partner in bed. I stick on her like glue and we warm each other body.
I cuddled with my cousin, and I will cuddle with my brother sometimes. But men will absolutely never admit this. Violence is a very real part of our culture, both structural and physical, and we must be on the psychological as well as material defense!
Yes, ofc. I honestly can't believe there are guys that actually said "could go without."
i miss cuddling
i am looking for a new gf but i can't find a girl who is worth it
my boyfriend likes to cuddle! I think a lot of guys like to cuddle as long as they have feelings for the girl.
When I'm in a relationship. .. I can't sleep well alone :/
always gonna be tucked up with ya partner ^_^
of course we love it. the suggestion that we don't is a bizarre stereotype
I love cuddling, my girlfriend doesn't really do it with me though because I'm "skinny".
I love a good cuddle! I especially like random hugs from my girl, makes me feel loved - soppy i know :p
I'm a man, I love sex, but more often than not I would rather just cuddle with my girlfriend than have sex with her.
Oh yeah !! i do.. but still, sometimes i just fall asleep like Hardee's Yellow star in bed hahahahahah
I love cuddling with my girlfriend. We'll hang out and one of the best parts about it is cuddling. Maybe I enjoy it more than others, but it's so nice and comforting.
Apparently it's no longer called a cuddle it's a snuggle but have still not worked out what the difference is. My girlfriend says I'm a bloke and don't have feelings so won't understand.
lol wth is that supposed to mean? How does whether or not you having feelings change the word of cuddling to snuggling? ... honestly I use them both interchangeably but it doesn't matter which one I use as long as it means the same thing to the both of us, which honestly I've never had a woman disagree with me in that fact that yes cuddling and snuggling are the same thing lol.
i love it, though i dont think i would cuddle with any girl
Yes we do, believe it or not under the macho man attitude there is a little child who wants to feel loved and secure.
i love to cuddle my girl in bed she says when she is cuddled she feels very secure safe and Makes her fall asleep very quicklyr
I like to keep my woman close to me like a cub haha
I always wish I could cuddle with my crush, but I've never really wished she would just fuck me.
You can obviously tell that guys like cuddling, for us it's almost like a protection thing, we're keeping you close and safe and that's what makes us feel good.
I do not believe these guys are truthful about saying yes on here, like most of the time. And that is whats wrong! GIVE REAL ANSWERS! I know most guys don't like to cuddle with girls, for example with me and allll my bros who have gfs.
Like cuddling, but wouldn't cuddle with a girl unless I liked her
cuddling leads to other things, which guys always like! lol
I love to cuddle before sex and after. Often it gets me aroused for another round of sex.
Why are girls voting on a poll aimed at guys? That's my question.
Some do some don't.
I have this acquaintance who is always all over me wanting to cuddle 24/7
Cuddle me :D, love snuggling cuddling :)
Even after sex i wanna cuddle haha
I like cuddling that will lead somewhere. I'm not to lovey dubby, unless I know there is something in it for me as well. Shallow I know but oh well
Cuddling is nice, but not while I'm trying to sleep.
And not with any girl, just the one I'm involved with.
If it's "cuddle" or "sex", I'd choose sex, but I'd also be like, "why not both?"
Yes it's true I like to cuddle though I fall asleep within 10-20 minutes of it lol. Then it's just you and then me off in dreamland lol.
nope. im like this after sex:
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I absolutely love cuddling. I wish I had a cuddle buddy a lot, but I haven't had anyone to cuddle with in quite some time.
Some do some don't. I'm not huge on cuddling but my boyfriend loves it wether he says it or not. I'm usually the one pulling away when I get uncomfortable and have had enough lol. Different with everyone
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