can someone help me..
Black guys always seem to be hitting on me?
can someone help me..
I think if you are heavily into things like hip hop and rap its going to open or close certain doors. The way you dress, talk, and the things you're into can be very important to a guy, they're important to me. If you're certain there isn't some sort of cultural disconnect, then I'd question the signals you're sending to the guys that you like. Sometimes, a simple misconception is all it takes for things to go wrong from the start. Where I live I see white women having an incredible advantage - if they are at all pretty then every aggressive single male they know is going to compete like sharks for raw meat for them. I think it's most likely you that has the choice and you haven't realized it yet. I've seen a lot of girls make some serious mistakes that way, though.
I'm not sure what the term "body type' means exactly since you are not discussing obesity. I don't think there is any hottest body type, any most attractive woman, or most attractive type for black men as I've read in the answers - I've seen many equally attractive women with different qualities about them.
I notice attributes about women in the following order, and failure to pass any compatibility check results in a "not interested": 1. Overall attractiveness 2. Outward incompatibility issues 3. Mood (the expression on your face could be a negative sign 4. Willingness to engage in polite conversation 5. Baggage (once I learn more about someone)
Well, my answer will be a guess because I don't really know where your from, I don't know your attraction or I am not sure of what body type you have.
It might be because you could live in an area where there are a lot of black guys and as a result for the most part they are the majority of guys. It could also be because stereotypically they tend to engage with a females that haven't even shown a sign of interest but would initiate regardless. I'm really not sure because there are deffinitly a lot of white guys that could be this same way and if yoy have a thicker body type there are deffinitly white guys that find that attractive. it could be the vibes that your giving off
Well, I'm from a city so it is very diverse where I live, so all types of people. I have a thick athletic body and I'm short.. I really have been trying to figure out why.. I try not to give off any vibes but maybe its just the way I present myself, I'm not sure
Yeah that could be why, I really believe that peoples taste are influenced by stereotype look up the studies on 'automatic social behaviour' to sum it up, they found that peoples taste become moulded into what they are thought to like, stereotypically white guys like thinner girls while black guys like thicker, for those that are affected by stereotypes it holds true. personally I like thicker women in general and short is cute it might be possibly in your way you dress or vibes you give off
I am skinny I guess 102 5'3 and black guys are very attracted to me. I'm a fair redhead and I think opposites attract.White guys have been attracted to me too. I have thin legs and arms but a think waist with a wi;der butt! Not that there's anything wrong with that. Michael Jackson would have floated my boat. :) (me and every other girl in America) But oddly enough I prefer asians! So neither black or white. Don't worry about it. Everyone likes something different
if you are thick, have a big butt, dress in a "black" style, hang out with black people
oh I read the comments you left on another answer: its because you're short and thick probably. most black guys I know are really into thicker lower body. not necessarily fat, but just curvy and not skinny or thin
My stomach is thin... and no I don't dress in a "black" style at all or hang out with black people so you are wrong about that one
Thick is having a thin stomach. thick is when you have curves (boobs/butt) with a small waist I wasn't calling you fat
I never said you were and no there is no definition for thick it varies..
truthfully. Black guys love anything and everything lol which is not a bad thing, but it's just that. Some are in it for love, others not so much. Maybe you have a nice bum, or boobs, or things guys love lol,
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Do you have bootay? If it's round and has some shape and looks like an apple, then that helps a lot. Also, if your attitude is pretty chill and you don't look at black guys like they are all going to rob you or rape you, then that helps a lot as well. If you carry yourself as not prissy or stuck up snobbish and then you are comfortable talking with other races and you have a sweet face and a body with sexy curves and you have a casual style about the way you dress and you like to listen to hip hop and r&b and reggae and are confident and look like you are cool to chill with, then that's a has most of the makings of a girl that will attract the black radar LOL.
Because your fat and with a big ass. Us really really really good looking white guys want nothing to do with you and its common knowledge. They pick up on this and move in on you.
Wow, you're a f***ing asshole, I honestly hope someone punches you in the face.. I never ever said I was fat, I'm in shape and have an athletic body, I workout every single day.. I also never said that white guys never hit on me, I've had good looking white boyfriends before, I'm just saying a lot of black guys show a lot of interest in me.. Honestly go f*** yourself
Well If I could f*** myself I would, that's how good looking I am. You said for yourself, "blacks are usually the ones that hit on me", so I don't know where your going with this. Matter in fact, your question seems to be more of a statement. Whether you say your fat or not doesn't mean that your not fat. I can tell when I am talking to a porker, and your the queen.
Dude you are a complete idiot It has nothin to do with weight I,m 108 at 5'2 I'm not anorexic but I'm deff not fat and I attact black guys in fact I prefer and love black guys more than white guys are any other race. Actually interacial couples are so more common now escpecially White chick and Black guys.
While it is true that a lot of black guys prefer bigger bums and curvier figures, don't think that means they wouldn't date a girl who didn't have those features. I've heard all kinds of reasons why some black guys like white girls. I'm not going into that right here but...I've heard a lot of reasons. lol I have white friends who have no ass and not many curves but date black and non-white latino guys. I've seen it all because unlike this guy, I'm not culturally deprived or ignorant.
Also I love how this guy speaking on behalf of every white person in the universe saying they don't like big butts or fat chicks. Oh I'm sorry that's right. He considers himself to be speaking on behalf of all the "really really really good looking white guys" of the universe. That's totally different. My bad. lol White people crack me up sometimes. ^__^
Wait what? How did I attack black guys? Explain! lol
First off, I just looked at your pictures, you are not as attractive as you make yourself sound and with that personality of yours that you got, makes you f***ing disgusting. Honestly, I hope someone punches you so hard in the face. I can guarantee you right now that you have 0 friends.. I'm most certainly not fat, and I don't give eight sh*ts if you believe that I am
Oh I see now. lol anyway...attraction is subjective. not everyone is going to think you are attractive. if you like girls with no butts or hips that's totally fine. not everyone is going to think theyre attractive either. a lot of guys like a soft curvy shape. a lot of guys dont. depends largely on culture, media, personal taste, what point in history you are living in, etc. I hope you don't go around claiming to be as intelligent as you think you are cute. lol
Dumbass
I seem to only attract black guys as well. I'm not sure why though because I have B cup boobs and a generally small butt and I know most of them prefer "bigger" girls but I'm not complaining:) Lol If you've never dated a black guy, you should try it.
Not sure what your body type is so hard to answer. If there are a lot of black men at your school or work location, it might just be a case of numbers.
I'm short and thick, I have muscular legs and a small stomach. And the black guys that hit on me aren't at my school, its usually older guys whenever I'm out or something.
Girl ! LOL Your not alone. Me too, I have a gay friend that is black , I asked him why black guys are so pushy & aggressive. He said its because they are so eager to brag that they have been with a white girl. He told me that with black guys its like it easy to get black girls ,but if you get a white girl you the sh*t then ! That's because us white girls RULE !
well I noticed that the other way around, black girls were all coming onto me. its all about where you put yourself, if you hang around 8 mile and navara you'll get flirted with one way. and if you hang out in the good neighborhoods then you'll get flirted on by other people. you see its where and with who you hang. what you wear. etc.
I recomend you give them a try! I do and it is great
I mean this in the least racist way possible, I'm not really attracted to black guys, I am to some but, It's an exception. I can't help that I am not attracted to them though.
Generally, if you have thick legs and a nice butt, black guys will be attracted to you. There's nothing wrong with being white chocolate.
this is hilarious. but I have to ask, what's wrong with black guys?
Could it be that they are men,men like talking to attractive girls?
lol same thing happens to me, I think some black guys are more open to girls with booty/boobs is all, nothing to be ashamed of
Okay, I'm a black dude, so you can either send me a picture or describe yourself (Physique and personality). What do you say?
To be honest with you, if it doesn't bother you, why question it, just enjoy the attention.
well would ya like it if Black guys ddnt look your way?
I never said that.. I'm just trying to figure out why they always hit on me
LOL.. just f***in witya
same here. I think its because they're more confident. I seldom get white guys talking to me.
Somebody else said it. Hit it right on the nailhead.
Black guys love white girls...especially if you have a big ass
Are you a red head? Do you have pale skin?
Are you... gifted in the butt department?
Freckles, maybe?
are you a fat white girl?
No I'm not fat... I'm athletic you dip
why don't you like black guys?
Can you see your ass from space?
I have a big ass, but trust me it's not out of this world huge
They like the big asses
A lot of guys like big asses though
Yeah, I'm thicker on the bottom, I have muscular legs and a big ass
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