Why do I always get white guys hitting on me in public?

[amoon2000]

I'm Asian and a person of color, living in a multicultural city. it seems everywhere I go men try and flirt with me in public. But it's especially white guys and sometimes black. Never other Asian men. It can be pretty aggressive and don't get me started on going to a club, it can be a disaster.

[_Maya_]

Perhaps most guys just find you attractive? Not sure what ethnicity has to do with it but guys are going to flirt with girls no matter where you are at. Definitely can understand the bar scene not being ideal. I bartend (part time) and see the relentless hitting on girls. That's just what happens in a club. Just stay away from that scene if it is that bad. As for why other Asian men don't hit on you... no clue. Not a whole lot of them where I live but the ones that I have seen around on campus for example tend to keep to themselves. Maybe they are just more reserved in general but not really sure how true that is.

[menina]

I've heard that many white guys have a fetish for Asian women. So maybe those who approach you have this fetish.

Being approached by guys who have a racial fetish is absolutely disgusting. And I totally understand why you want to get attention from Asian men. Just make sure that you reject them kindly, so they don't get angry.

[braveman1999]

I know a lot of white guys who like the physical features of Asian women: small, thin breasts, sweet face. It's like a fetish for them. I see a lot of couples like this lately. On the other hand, the black men I know tend to like white women with curves and big breasts. It's just attraction or curiosity, don't worry. If you see that you feel upset, it is as easy as commenting on it.

[Berethor]

Maybe because Asian woman and white man is pretty common interracial pairing.

https://weta.org/watch/shows/independent-lens/independent-lens-do-asian-women-have-white-fever

[CALIGVLA]

Short answer: Asian women are beautiful!

Long answer: Asian WOMEN ARE BEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAUTIFUL!

Lol!

I'm a white guy and I know several other white guys, we like Asian women, that's why we are always noticing them.

[Staximus]

I don't know about other countries but here in Southern California, clubs are where the lowest quality women and men go to meet each other. Nothing but a bunch of drunk man-whores and skeezers rubbing their crotches and asses on each other.

[FunkyMonkee]

From what little I can see, you look pretty. Big clue right there.

[amoon2000]

aw thanks, you can message me if you like

[FunkyMonkee]

thank you! I'm about to go to bed so, I'll get to you later. Take care!

[KrakenAttackin]

@amoon2000. Damn, that was easy.

[boobliker]

you look to be an open and chatty girl, and look nice to boot, so try to just brush them of as something stuck to your shoue

[amoon2000]

message me?

[boobliker]

How?

[collie22]

You must be a hottie I'm guessing. Your pretty so guys want to hit on you 😊

[dudeinohio]

You are very pretty. Any guy would want to. be with you.

[Twalli]

Being with Asian girl is a popular fetish for a lot of white guys.

[KrakenAttackin]

Ok, level 1 troll wanting men to message her.

[In_Trance]

Probably because you're always around white guys in public

[Ironco]

To each their own, go far what you like. You can always hit on whomever you would like.

[TadBehaya]

Maybe they've fetish for Asian women?

[amoon2000]

can you message me?

[TadBehaya]

Sure.

[HouseMoat]

Why does it matter?

[i_am_an_engineer]

You look pretty. That’s why

[FenixG45]

If it's a problem, them just say "No, Thank you"