Why do black guys tend to hit on me more than white ones?

[Anonymous]

I'm not racist or anything, it just makes me wonder. I don't date black guys and never have. I had a black girl tell me one time, that I look like I date them because of my body..? I just don't understand. help please!

[Anonymous]

I find it strange when anyone has to justify their preferences with the disclaimer, "I'm not racist" You shouldn't have to protect yourself that way, you just happen to be immune to the current trends. Yes white women and black men are the hot combination today, and obviously you feel the need to say you're not a racist because you're not one of the crowd. Of course it can't be avoided when everywhere you look there are people doing it; or there are ads; TV shows; movies etc. promoting it. Honestly I think you wouldn't be asking if there wasn't already some amount and type of pressure on you to conform. I also see all types of white women at almost any age doing this, not just the obese ones. I'm even seeing them speaking in ebonics now, and I wouldn't like that in a partner.

I, as a white man feel discriminated against when I hear a pretty white girl say "I only like black guys". I see this online a lot too on people's profiles "Sorry boys, I only date blacks" The hidden hypocrisy is that I have the right to my personal preferences (dating, music, lifestyle, etc..) without being condemned for them, and so do you.

[coolgurl09]

Most white girls don't have curves and if she does even just a noticiable butt a black guy will be attracted to that. Black guys love curves on a woman nomatter what ethnic group. You probably carry yourself a certain way or dress more urban there's something about you that gives off that impression. Try it you'll never want to go back..,haha

[Asker]

I'm not attracted to black guys. And it kinda freaks me out when they hit on me. its flattering and all but its jus not my cup of tea.

[lil_luv21]

Black guys have this idea of girls having big butts no waist to where white guys are happy either way. It's a weird thing but that's just how it is and always have been.

[Asker]

What do you mean by no waist?

[lil_luv21]

I mean by girls that can manage to fit in double 0 jeans, and still manage to have a big butt

[Asker]

Haha, well that's def not me.

[Anonymous]

i messed with a black dude couple months ago. there d***s. I'm sorry to say, I was friends with him, now I'm hardly friends with him at all!

[coolgurl09]

You can't generalized like that because he maybe just a d*** not ALL. White guys can be d**** as well.

[Asker]

All the ones I've ever met were nice.

[Opinion Owner]

He was nice at first. that what I'm saying

[Titi18]

its mayby because you have a big ass because that's all black guys care and look at.

[Asker]

Maybe.. I'v had people tell me that I have a "black girl" butt, but when I look in the mirror I see no ass at all.

[sweetdreamkandi]

If you look good have a big butt slim waist

the black guys will try to talk to you

i don't understand it either but its something

that black guys like and white guys dont

[AlanHB]

I dunno. Do more black guys live in your area?

[Asker]

I think its pretty much equal. I jus moved here, so there are more than I'm used to.

[AlanHB]

Maybe if you just moved to the area, the black guys are just more friendly to new people.

[Asker]

Idk.. they're always telling me I look good, and I have a nice butt. and trying to get my number. I've had like three in one week ask me out.

[Sexy-Senior-09]

Idk...

[Asker]

Haha..