Any suggestions?
Should I wait for him to visit me first?
Any suggestions?
Well, since you're both older, I'd assume that you're more aware of what constitutes a good match. I totally appreciate your predicament though. Jobs, especially good ones, aren't easy to come by right now so we tend to not want to rock the boat and ask for time off or whatever.
If this is TRULY the case then I'd say you could consider visiting him but I'd keep it very platonic or he may feel as though you're throwing yourself at him.
One question. Has he mentioned you coming for a visit or made any suggestions like that? Men LIKE a challenge, they like to chase and to "win" the woman's heart. Don't be too easy. (I don't mean you have to be cold but just don't rush in...I'm sure you know.)
He hasn't mentioned me visiting. At first I was skeptical, since we had only a few days together when we met, so I was like, yeah right, and he told me he was going to prove it to me. He's the one who brings it up. I know we are both feeling it, so you're right, it will probably be much more rewarding and meaningful to him if he visits first. He's such a great guy, and I want to let him have that feeling that he is making me happy, and not push it. I appreciate your response!
Glad to help!
I'd say with Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years not too far off, another face to face is in your not too distant future.
:-)
(I'd be most obliged if you chose my response for best answer. )
I would wait until he came. I don't want to come across too strong. If a few months still pass and he hasn't came, then I would consider visiting him
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