Girls, How do you react when you see an attractive guy?

[1stblackx]

For instance what body cues will you give him or what are the things you will do?

Since they are completely different settings I'll give two situations, you are at a coffee shop and you see a guy who you think is attractive. The second, you are at a Bar/Party and you see a guy who you think is attractive.

And since we are on the subject how do you act around a guy who you actually like, meaning past the just physically attractive phase.

[honeymarie]

If I were at a coffee shop and feeling shy, I would look at him and then look away, assuming I don't want to make an idiot out of myself for nothing. However, if he showed an interest, I would return it back just a little for the same reasons as before, if finally he really showed that he liked me, then I would relax and like him back (really showing it means saying it or REALLY saying it with physical action; stroking my arm, very loving eye contact/also saying I am beautiful or complimenting something I am wearing) because otherwise I might just assume he's only being friendly.

If I were feeling confident, I would go over to where he was and put out a slight signal--maybe just an inviting stare. This is a very unlikely move as all guys are different and a girl wants to play it classy/safe

I don't go to bars but I imagine it would be the second one (unless he were with a bunch of his friends) then it would be the first cautious approach.

Now since I currently like a guy I will say I am very heavy eye contact, big, sweet smiles (not small ones) and yet because I don't know if he likes me, I don't want to come off as a stalker. I did wait outside for him twice but decided that was too much, so I just want to talk to him next opportunity. It's a cautious thing but I am going to be brave and go for it...somehow.

When it comes down to it, you will always just have to ask her because some signs can go either way. Moreover, it's not outer appearance ONLY that counts. I know at least three men (of different races, backgrounds, body types, etc) who are handsome and unique but I only like one because I see something *there* that is beneath the surface. That counts! If a girl only considers the outside, she is unstable and immature.

[typicalgal]

For the first situation I would prob make myself seen, since its typically not overly crowded I would find a reason to get up and walk past him, ie throw somthing away while giving eye contact to get the ball rolling. Once I lock eyes with him then I would prob throw my hair over one of my shoulders to let him see that I'm trying to show him that I want to look good for him even if I'm not really dressed up hair is the next best thing to advertise in a sense. And if I really like a guy I tend to be very quite at first but that tends to wear off fast. My smile is the next indication of attraction towards the guy, I smile real big but not cheesey fake. I tend to be reserved with what I say knowing that I always end up saying something completely stupid in the end. I get tense and kind of shy, I show signs of interest by asking what he does for a living in and outside of work. I don't look around at a lot of other people or things knowing that he has my full attention. Besides it rude in my case if your not 100% focused on the person that your interested in. I try to ask quirky or interesting questions to break the ice to see if we have the same sense of humor or personality traits.I.e what's your fav kind of tooth paste crest or colgate? But those are just some of the things that I would portray if I was truly attracted to some guy.

[sunshinegal1988]

Well in both situations I'd probably try to make eye contact with him and if he looks away and doesn't look back then I might back off. But if he looks away and then keeps looking back or looks right at me I'll smile. If he smiles back then I'll definitely approach him. Much easier to approach a guy in the bar/party atmosphere (partially because I might be a little intoxicated and laid back and partially because it's more socially acceptable) I'll talk to him, get a feel for who he is and if I'm liking what I see then I might just casually touch his arm. If we're sitting down I'll probably lean more towards him, maybe accidentally graze his leg with mine. Stuff like that.

[Kim449]

If I was sitting at a coffee shop and I guy walked in who I thought was good looking I would glance at him to see if he would look back then I would look away but if he looked again I would look back and smile but I would never approuch him because I would be scared I was going to make a fool of myself LOL.

If a guy came up to me that I liked or was good looking I get abit quite and shy but if I was to speak to him for awhile I would become myself, unless I'm at a bar and had a drink then I have the confidence hehehe I noe that's bad, but that's me I'm shy.

[Anonymous]

COFFEE SHOP ATTRACTIVE GUY: I will just look at him and maybe try to make eye contact. that's it. I'm OK looking but not really anything that makes the guys go crazy so if the attractive guy even finds me attractive then its up to him to do something, if not then I'm going about my business.

BAR/PARTY ATTRACTIVE GUY: smile at him make eye contact and go on about my business. like I said I'm not the hottest girl so he probably wouldn't be interested in me anyway so if he is its up to him to make a move, if not then oh well

HOW I ACT AROUND A GUY I LIKE: I smile at him, I may talk to him whenever I get the chance but I don't really go out of my way to talk to him unless we're friends, I try to be nice to him, I get a little shy, I laugh at his jokes, I act kinda girlly

[Anonymous]

The first thing I do is usually whisper and point it out to a friend. I don't give him any body cues until I've considered his personalities/actually have talked to him. I'm not the kind of girl to flirt without considering personality.

I act how I normally do around a guy I like. I act like myself and I don't act fake. But I do smile a lot more and make eye-contact :)

[Witchlight666]

Coffee shop: Probably look to see if a girl was with him then if he was alone, like wait until he looked a bit my way and smile and slowly look away. If he looks again I'd probably ask him if anyone was sitting with him and sit and hang out with him.

Bar/Party: See if he was with a girl again and then if he was alone, ask to dance or sit with him.

How I act: Butterflies. then like make sure our eyes meet a bunch of times, smile, look away, repeat... =DD

Hope it helps, sorry if it wasn't what you were looking for...

[rosalita]

i would take any chance I get to walk near him/be near him. I would try and make eye contact over and over, but I'm too shy to hold eye contact for more than a second or two.

i laugh more, smile more, turn towards him

[YobootyStank]

when it come to someone attractive making eye contact is hard LOL I don't know why maybe because they stare too hard its intimidating. and I guess smiling too because you just don't smile a lot to someone you think is butt ugly

[Miss_Intelligent]

Coffee Shop- Catch his eye, smile, make myself open for conversation (I'd prefer it if he made the first move)

Bar/Party- Catch his eye, smile, walk over and flirt.

Guy I like- Haaah, I usually get butterflies. But if the opportunity presents itself, I'd talk to him and try to get to know him more.

[lolbby16]

well lol its kinda weird but I will blush like no other and smile... I hate it but I've been told its really cute I'm shy but just until you get to know me if it gets that far then I will make you laugh and so on and so forth

[Anonymous]

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