Girls, how do you react when you see an attractive guy?

[Anonymous]

When do we watch horror movie we can (our sense) acknowledge that it's a horror movie and horror scene. But there is something behind our appreciation/acknowledgement. We do get some involuntary biological response when do we see it. It's not just like "yeah! it's a horror scene"

We call it fear, fright.

What does fear, fright feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it? Attraction, infatuation, fascination?


* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

We say "I am hungry"

* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

Many other feelings are straight forward. All people feel it in the same way and it's all same.

BUT,

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

When both guys and girls say this is horror scene it means both of them got the same response but in this area when both say "he/she is attractive" does it mean both of them got the same response?
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For instance what body cues will you give him or what are the things you will do?

Since they are completely different settings I'll give two situations, you are at a coffee shop and you see a guy who you think is attractive. The second, you are at a Bar/Party and you see a guy who you think is attractive.

And since we are on the subject how do you act around a guy who you actually like, meaning past the just physically attractive phase.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Honestly I just think he looks attractive, appreciate the view and just move on, since I'm in a relationship currently. But when I first met my boyfriend my instinct was to get his attention, so I struck up a brief back-and-forth with him, smiled, etc. It left enough of an impression on him that he came back up to me later and asked for my number.

As for how I act towards a guy I'm into? Much the same as I act with most people, just a little more vulnerable in some cases and more interested in his life and his well being. I also am pretty forward when it comes to how I feel and flirt so there's that as well. It isn't ever really a secret when I like a guy as I often just tell them.

[Asker]

(Honestly I just think he looks attractive, appreciate the view and just move on)

When do we watch horror movie we can (our sense) acknowledge that it's a horror movie and horror scene. But there is something behind our appreciation/acknowledgement. We do get some involuntary biological response when do we see it. It's not just like "yeah! it's a horror scene"

We call it fear, fright.
In the same way, when do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it?
* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

[RJGraveyTrain]

I think you’re over thinking it dude

[RJGraveyTrain]

If it’s a guy we feel attraction. If it’s a girl we can simply acknowledge that she’s attractive. It’s pretty simple.

[Asker]

I am not over thinking. Just want to know how do you (women) recognize attraction.
Thanks.

[RJGraveyTrain]

The same way everyone else does? Attraction is just a chemical reaction really, I assume most women experience different physical triggers that vary from person to person. I can really only describe it as a sort of excitement.

[Asker]

Do most women experience physical triggers (sort of excitement) when do they see attractive guys in the street, shopping malls, movies etc? Or they experience to only when they see their lover?

Do they experience it every time with the same person?

[RJGraveyTrain]

I think that depends on the individual

[Asker]

You don't know about your friends and your surroundings?

[RJGraveyTrain]

I've never asked any of my friends what their physical reaction to seeing a hot guy was, no. Most of the time they just announce it. For me it's an overall chills sensation, it's a very warm and magnetic feeling - but it's intensified when it's someone I actually care about.

[Kat4251]

I think you're reading into that to much I just stare and think "damn! He must be in bed." Then someone gets my attention soooo there's no huge thing it just "he's hot" end of story most girl generally want the guys to make the first move so nothing really happens

[Asker]

When do we watch horror movie we can (our sense) acknowledge that it's a horror movie and horror scene. But there is something behind our appreciation/acknowledgement. We do get some involuntary biological response when do we see it. It's not just like "yeah! it's a horror scene"

We call it fear, fright.
In the same way, when do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it?
* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

[ambiek]

I just feel really drawn to them. I tend to get shy and probably look at them a lot. Next stage is that I often get my words jumbled when I do talk to them. But yeah, the biggest thing is I just keep eyeing them.. unintentionally, it just happens.

[Asker]

When do we watch horror movie we can (our sense) acknowledge that it's a horror movie and horror scene. But there is something behind our appreciation/acknowledgement. We do get some involuntary biological response when do we see it. It's not just like "yeah! it's a horror scene"

We call it fear, fright.
In the same way, when do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it?
* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

[bekkesmash]

Mate women aren't straight, in fact most are closer to being lesbian than straight.

[Asker]

I think so.

[Astoriana]

It's not that deep. I acknowledge that he's attractive and move on with my day. I am not in a constant state of existential crisis over how to handle my interactions with the opposite sex.

[Asker]

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

[Astoriana]

It's a very neutral acknowledgement. If you're having a strong visceral reaction to someone, it's likely because you have poor impulse control. Like a toddler or a psychopath.

[Asker]

It's not about impulse control. Most heterosexual people feel attraction when do they see their opposite sex, whether it's street, shopping malls or anywhere.

Only asexuals neutrally acknowledge their opposite sex because they don't experience sexual attraction.

[Astoriana]

No. Asexuals do not acknowledge attraction at all.

[Asker]

Yes. Asexuals do not acknowledge attraction at all. So you are asexual? because when do you see attractive guys you feel nothing except a neutral acknowledgement.

[Astoriana]

I’m not asexual. I just have more impulse control than a toddler. I am not going to go after every single attractive person I see. If I did, I wouldn’t have time to get anything done.

[Asker]

I am not talking about action. I am talking about attraction

Sexual attraction is an involuntary biological response like hunger. It's not a conscious decision, it's a subconscious feelings.

Are you weak in reading English? You don't understand the meaning of sentence?

You said, when do you see attractive guys you can acknowledge them neutrally in the same way you can acknowledge attractive women. But experience no attraction in the same way asexual can't acknowledge attraction.

[Astoriana]

I don’t become a blithering idiot and start slobbering all over them. I imagine that’s your response.

[Asker]

It's not my response it's normal heterosexual women's response but women with dick don't experience it.

[Astoriana]

It’s not my fault that you never learned impulse control. That makes you the weird one, not me. It’s weird that you want to fuck every single attractive person that you see. I imagine that you are riddled with STIs.

[Anonymous]

First Q: I usually just ignore the attraction bc chances are I’ll never see them again and I usually assume that they’re a lot older than me.

Second Q: I tent to try a little extra hard. Like wear less makeup around them to show that I’m comfortable around him, laugh a little too much at a joke, and dress a little nicer than normal.

[Asker]

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it? Attraction, infatuation, fascination?

* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

When both guys and girls say this is horror scene it means both of them got the same response but in this area when both say "he/she is attractive" does it mean both of them got the same response?

[blahblah33]

When I see a attractive guy I usually just try to look all cute haha

[Asker]

When do you see attractive guys and girls what's the difference do you feel?

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

I faint because I’ve never seen an attractive guy in real life. In those first 5 seconds I picture our whole lives together. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

You don't find random guys attractive? After an emotional connection you start to find that specific guy attractive?

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

I was being sarcastic. I don’t care when I see attractive guys.

[Astoriana]

😂😂😂

[Asker]

So, you are not attracted to attractive guys? Glad to know that you are asexual.

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

I see attractive guys and I know they’re good looking but I prefer women. I’m not Asexual I’m gay.

[Asker]

Ok. When do you see women what do you feel?

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

The same thing you feel when you see someone you’re attracted to.

[Asker]

I feel angry. Do you also feel angry?

[Astoriana]

Asker, it’s not normal to be angry because you’re attracted to someone. You ought to find a therapist, or, better yet, a reputable inpatient program so that you can deal with your rage and likely personality disorder.

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

No why would I feel angry?

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

@Astoriana exactly

[Asker]

Then what do you feel?

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

Well I feel curious

[Pink1996]

Its appreciation. Like wow thats a face that was carefully sculpted by God, gorgeous guy.😍

[Asker]

When do we watch horror movie we can (our sense) acknowledge that it's a horror movie and horror scene. But there is something behind our appreciation/acknowledgement. We do get some involuntary biological response when do we see it. It's not just like "yeah! it's a horror scene"

We call it fear, fright.
In the same way, when do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it?
* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

[BellePepper]

Is this your way of trying to not accept the fact that all men are gay or bi?

[RuthAnn1781]

Wow, are you 12? lol

[bekkesmash]

Trying again are we? the comments show, most women are not sexually attracted to the male body. Instead of your cognitive dissonance and the act of being deliberately obtuse, I dare you to address the argument, but I doubt you have the analytic tact to even keep up. I dare you... but you aren't smart or educated enough.

[BellePepper]

Don't lie on the internet OP. We know you don't find women attractive.

[bekkesmash]

As I thought, You aren't near smart enough.

[itsallover]

He's trying to convince us we're not straight so he can have all the men to himself. Conspiracy: confirmed.

[RuthAnn1781]

@itsallover Okay Alex Jones lol

[itsallover]

@RuthAnn1781 Don't let the government feed u liez!!11!!11!!

[bekkesmash]

The average women is not aroused by the male body without emotional attraction, not to anything gender specific to men, yet are aroused by lesbian porn. my god! the paragon of heterosexuality!

[RuthAnn1781]

@itsallover Lol, I try not to

[itsallover]

@bekkesmash Look, we know you like men, there's no point trying to sway us away from them, it's okay. You can have them.

[BellePepper]

@itsallover I think you're on to something!!! Why ELSE would he always try to dictate our sexuality to us? We're onto you OP!

[bekkesmash]

You got me, I love cock. But women love vagina.

[BellePepper]

@bekkesmash nuh uh! We're onto you! Stop trying to steal all the guys.

[bekkesmash]

Wish I could steal them all.

[BellePepper]

@bekkesmash Just start a whole harem

[Hooper23]

Think to my self is he a angel. Then realize i dont have a shot with him

[Anonymous]

Have heart palpitations and shortness of breath. Do clumsy things.

[Asker]

When do we watch horror movie we can (our sense) acknowledge that it's a horror movie and horror scene. But there is something behind our appreciation/acknowledgement. We do get some involuntary biological response when do we see it. It's not just like "yeah! it's a horror scene"

We call it fear, fright.
In the same way, when do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it?
* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

[Opinion Owner]

Huh? Lol. This is too long of a response for me. When I see an attractive person in shopping malls etc I just think "Oh, he's good looking" don't think much of it but say if i'm going out on a date with that person then I guess nerves kick in and I do clumsy things. Can't seem to talk properly and laugh excessively or something hahaha

[Asker]

But what is the difference do you feel when do you see an attractive lady and attractive guys?
When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

If you feel same then you would not mind date with that woman?

[Opinion Owner]

I just know I like dick better than vag.
I would just think she's pretty whereas guys i'd swoon over haha

[Asker]

Your previous comment...

""This is too long of a response for me. When I see an attractive person in shopping malls etc I just think "Oh, he's good looking" don't think much of it but say if i'm going out on a date..."

It means when do you see attractive guys in the shopping malls etc you just think "Oh, he's good looking".
You get the same though when do you see attractive women in the shopping malls etc.

Then what is the difference here? Do you appreciate men and women in the same way? Do you feel same when do you see them?

We don't feel same when do we see cat, dog and snake.
If we would feel same then we react to it in the same way.

Your answer make me confused. You said "I think he is attractive", when do you see attractive woman you thinks "she is attractive". Any difference here?

[splishsplash07]

I see the person, acknowledge that he or she is attractive, continue my day after perhaps paying them a compliment

[Asker]

When do you see attractive guys and girls what's the difference do you feel?

[splishsplash07]

Really none at all, I'm just acknowledging that they have a form of beauty, not feeling romance or true sexual desire and lust

[Asker]

Are you asexual?
Asexual = Who don't experience any sexual attraction when do they see attractive person. They can just acknowledge.

[bekkesmash]

Then how can you consider yourself straight?

[Asker]

@bekkesmash She is not straight. She is asexual dude.

[splishsplash07]

When did I say I'm asexual? Never. I'm actually an extremely dominant person and work involving sex which pays more than you can imagine. Just because I do not have sexual desire and lust for a person doesn't mean I don't find them attractive, let's say if I see an attractive person whom I'm having sexual relations with, then I'd easily let it take over and be in my sex of mind state. I don't let my hormones control me, and even if I see an attractive person and get slightly turned on, I push it aside and wait till the end of the day and my spare time until I can get off.

[Asker]

You said when do you see attractive guys and girls you can just acknowledge that he or she is attractive rather than nothing.

You don't experience any attraction physically or sexually when do you see attractive person. So what is it?

[splishsplash07]

If it's a random person out on the street, no attraction because I've learned to push anything aside because of my job. If it's my significant other, then I'd be attracted to them practically all day because I'm completely devoted and ready to please them

[Asker]

So when do you see unknown guys you feel indifferent?
You don't have any attraction towards attractive guys?

Physical attraction is an involuntary biological response.

If you are not capable to experience it you are not straight.

wiki.asexuality.org/Primary_vs._secondary_sexual_attraction_model

Attraction is not learned. It's instinct.

So, in the street seeing guys and girls same for you?

You turn into asexual when you are in street.

[bekkesmash]

Did you just sound proud about being a stipper or prostitute? Hahahhahah WTF? "and work involving sex which pays more than you can imagine" Your dad must be proud

[splishsplash07]

For your information I'm a professional fem domme, which involves pain and submissive related therapy and sex work for people who need it in their lives to relieve stress, build confidence, and give purpose

[bekkesmash]

So a prostitute then AHAHHA

[splishsplash07]

As for this question I'm done answering, you've gotten my opinion on more than one occasion. I do not have sexual urge or desire just because I find a person, just as a flower, or a scent, beautiful. I am pansexual, I love who I love and fuck who I fuck. That's all I have to say

[Asker]

WOW!!! Now you are pansexual, sometimes you are straight, sometimes you are bisexual, sometimes you are lesbian now you are pan

Oh dude. This is too much

[splishsplash07]

In all honesty their isn't a name for any sexuality, not once have I specified if I was straight, lesbian, bi, or pan until now. Don't assume. I just feel lust towards maybe a woman, maybe a man, maybe a non binary. I don't really care who I fall in love with, I just fall in love

[Asker]

I asked this question to normal heterosexual woman.

[harrypotter7]

I’m like, hey he’s cute. Then keep on doing whatever I was doing. There’s not a biological response to seeing an attractive man. At least not one that’s big enough to notice and describe.

[Asker]

If there no biological response to seeing an attractive man then what's the difference do you feel when do you see an attractive women and attractive men?

[bekkesmash]

*If there is

[harrypotter7]

What do you think it’s like? Do you think our hearts stop and we stop breathing and we forget how to walk just because an attractive man walks by? Seeing an attractive man does not physically change my state of being enough for me to notice.

[bekkesmash]

THAT JUST SHOWS HOW MUCH MORE MEN ARE ATTRACTED TO WOMEN THAN WOMEN ARE TO MEN. HOW CAN YOU BE STRAIGHT, IF SEEING A HOT MALE STRANGER IS THE SAME AS SEEING A HOT FEMALE STRANGER. YOU AREN'T STRAIGHT AS YOU AREN'T SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO GENDER SPECIFIC TRAITS. YOU ARE DEMISEXUAL WHICH IS WAY DIFFERENT TO BEING HETROSEXUAL. sorry about the caps, got too fat and didn't want to rewrite it.

[harrypotter7]

So now you’re trying to determine my sexuality just because when an attractive guy walks by I don’t fall all over myself? Tell me, what do you feel when you see an attractive man on the street versus an attractive woman?

[bekkesmash]

I want to have sex with the women, I think the man is aesthetically pleasing
, this is the same for 95% of men.

[Asker]

what's the difference do you feel when do you see an attractive women and attractive men? and if you notice men and women in the same way and feel same then what makes you straight/gay?

[bekkesmash]

As men are actually sexually attracted to the female body.

[Asker]

@bekkesmash Harry Potter is a male character. LOL

[harrypotter7]

For most women, you can’t physically feel your body changing in response to seeing an attractive guy. Guys brains work differently than girls. Read this and come back to me. www.google.com/.../the-triggers-sexual-desire-men-vs-women%3famp

[harrypotter7]

@asker omg you’re so funny!! That’s so weird because I thought Harry Potter was a woman omg thanks for enlightening me with that information.

[bekkesmash]

Mentally then? If you are straight, then what is the difference between when you see a hot women, to when you see a hot guy?

[Asker]

your article didn't say you can’t physically feel your body changing in response to seeing an attractive guy.

rather this article say,
female shows arousal to everything, for most women they are just aroused by anything

www.psychologytoday.com/.../sex-researchers-rethink-female-sexuality

www.salon.com/.../

Women's Brains Respond to Manly Men
www.livescience.com/...ains-respond-manly-men.html

Women become sexually aroused as quickly as men
www.newscientist.com/.../

Read this and come back to me.

[harrypotter7]

Did you read the article? Women and men are biologically different. I’m sure something happens but not enough for me to notice and be like, yes asker, when I see an attractive man a, b, and c all happen to my body and brain. Just because I can appreciate how a man looks and not want to have sex with him on the spot does not make me a lesbian or asexual or whatever else you want to try to tell me I am. It takes more than looks for me to want to have sex with somebody. It’s a combination of looks and personality for me to be attracted to somebody. Attraction is different than finding someone attractive.

[bekkesmash]

It makes you demisexual, which isn't heterosexuality, as you aren't sexually attracted to gender specific traits.

[harrypotter7]

@asker the article was about men so clearly you didn’t read it carefully. And it wasn’t for your purpose it was for @bekkesmash

[harrypotter7]

Because I don’t want to have sex with an attractive man on the spot I’m demisexual? If you’re not going to try and understand what I’m saying I’m done trying to have a conversation with you.

[Asker]

Did you read my article?
It's said women are aroused by anything even animals.

You said when do you see attractive guys you don't experience any attraction physically or sexually.

wiki.asexuality.org/Primary_vs._secondary_sexual_attraction_model

Read this.
wiki.asexuality.org/Primary_vs._secondary_sexual_attraction_model
Asexual and demisexual don't experience it.
Glad to know you are not straight.

Try to read more scientific articles.
If you think you are not capable to experience sexual attraction without emotional connection you are not straight.

[bekkesmash]

Have read it before, just describes a degree of affect and effect. That's an article, several peer previewed studies claim straight women don't exist pdfs.semanticscholar.org/.../...ff8f3421b2fe55.pdf the larger study isn't available for free, but you can read about it's findings, D Reiger flat our says "women are either bisexual or lesbian, but never straight.

[harrypotter7]

@asker I was done trying to respond to you a while ago and no I didn’t and won’t read your article 😘

[bekkesmash]

You aren't straight.

[Asker]

@harrypotter7 ok dude. then shave your penis.

[harrypotter7]

@bekkesmash read this it’s short www.google.com/.../...-dont-exist.html%3famphtml=y

[harrypotter7]

@asker very mature

[bekkesmash]

Don't have to read it, you have to agree that a women who is sexually aroused by naked women and lesbian porn is straight to disagree.

[bekkesmash]

O an the idiot who wrote the article didn't seem to know that only SEXUAL attraction defines SEXUAL orientation, she goes on about romantic attraction.

[harrypotter7]

Okay you don’t have to read it, just like I don’t have to read your comments. Was trying to have a logical debate and that cannot happen if you refuse to read stuff you disagree with. Goodbye

[bekkesmash]

So you think women who are aroused by lesbian porn are straight? The raw data says that are aroused by it, that's just a fact.

[harrypotter7]

You don’t read my article, I’m not going to continue this conversation. Goodbye.

[bekkesmash]

How the fuck did this bitch get a phd? In the section "We Like What We See A Lot" she doesn't see that it's cause and effect, just because something makes you that thing, doesn't you aren't that thing. That's so basic, and if she can't get that... like SERIOUSLY, that shows a lack of intellect.

[Astoriana]

@bekkesmash and the asker are the biggest sealions in the universe. They are purposely wasting your time, demanding that you explain everything to them without making the least bit of effort to understand your side. They do not discuss or debate anything in good faith. They just want to yell because no women have ever found them attractive, nor will any women ever find them attractive. Instead of working on improving themselves, they are convinced that straight women do not exist. What a logical pair.

[harrypotter7]

@Astoriana exactly. I’ve given up trying to have a conversation with both.

[Asker]

@harrypotter7 brother I read your article. But my articles say the different things. Which one it true? Why did you ignore my article?

[harrypotter7]

Fuck off I’m over this 😂

[Asker]

Ok brother. Glad to know your gender.

[harrypotter7]

You’re a child

[Asker]

Oh!! harry brother. You are my elder brother.

[harrypotter7]

You’re not even offending me and people are probably tired of getting notifications for this just because you can’t stop acting like a 6 year old. Have fun trolling ✌️

[itsallover]

To self: "That guy is attractive"
*continues day as normal*

[Asker]

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

If you get the same feelings than what makes you gay, straight or bi?

[itsallover]

There's a difference between being attracted TO someone and finding them attractive.

[Asker]

I know that.

But your comment : To self: "That guy is attractive"
*continues day as normal*

What does it mean?

You are attracted to him or just find him attractive?

[itsallover]

I can't really be attracted to someone I don't know, so at that point I'd just find him attractive.

[Asker]

So, when do you see attractive guys and girls you feel same and you look at guys and girls in the same way?

You don't experience any attraction when do you see attractive guys until knowing him?

Oh I see. I asked this question to heterosexual women not to demisexual women.

[itsallover]

I'm straight so I'll never be attracted TO a girl. I'm not demisexual either, I just don't instantly lose my inhibitions and want to have sex with every guy who I find attractive.

[Asker]

wiki.asexuality.org/Primary_vs._secondary_sexual_attraction_model

Read this.

Those who are unable to experience primary sexual attraction are not straight.

Primary Sexual Attraction: A sexual attraction to people based on instantly available information (such as their appearance or smell) which may or may not lead to arousal or sexual desire.

[itsallover]

Will I'm straight so you can shove that up your ass.

[itsallover]

Well*

[Asker]

Give me answer logically. Don't ignore my question.

You said you are unable to experience primary sexual attraction then how do you are straight?

I asked you a question gently but why you ignored it?

Are you ashamed about your sexuality?

Just tell me if you are incapable to experience primary sexual attraction then what makes you straight?

[itsallover]

'A sexual attraction to people based on instantly available information (such as their appearance or smell) which may or *may not* lead to arousal or sexual desire.'

There you go, it doesn't always have to lead to sexual desire. If I didn't experience it I would never find anyone attractive, but I do.

[Asker]

But why did you say,
(I can't really be attracted to someone I don't know)

asexuals also find others people attractive, you said you also find other girls attractive. LOL

You said you don't experience sexual attraction before knowing the person. That is the main point.

Why too many different statement?

[itsallover]

I don't see what's wrong with that statement. I said initially that there's a difference between being attracted to someone and finding them attractive. I can find men and women attractive but I only have to potential be attracted TO men (once I've gotten to know them better). Understood?

[Asker]

And It's said,

Those who are unable to experience primary sexual attraction are not straight.

Primary Sexual Attraction: A sexual attraction to people based on instantly available information (such as their appearance or smell) which may or may not lead to arousal or sexual desire.

If you are unable to experience primary sexual attraction.

[itsallover]

You don't know what the hell you're talking about.

[Asker]

You also don't know what the hell you are talking about.

The most ridiculous thing is you claim yourself as straight but you are incapable of experiencing primary sexual attraction.

[itsallover]

Can you not read?

[Asker]

(I can find men and women attractive but I only have to potential be attracted TO men (once I've gotten to know them better)

Yes! i can read but your statement is more delusional.

You said, I only have to potential be attracted TO men (once I've gotten to know them better)

It means before knowing the person you can't recognize sexual attraction.

I can read but may be you can't read.

I am talking about physical attraction. Emotional attraction builds after that, after knowing the person. it's called secondary attraction.

To experience secondary attraction you have to experience primary sexual attraction. You said you don't experience primary attraction.

Can you explain this?

[itsallover]

Oh my God, I'm done here lmao.

[Asker]

I can't recognize sexual attraction before knowing the person. I am straight.

Most ridiculous thing I've ever seen.

You don't have enough logic to proof it that's why you are shirk.

Do you know what is logic?

[itsallover]

Fix up your grammar and reading comprehension skills and then come back to me.

[Asker]

Just explain this
(I can't really be attracted to someone I don't know. at that point I'd just find him attractive.)

Until know a person you don't experience any attraction physically or sexually. It means before knowing a person guys and girls are same for you.

You are not attracted to girls, you are not attracted to guys until knowing them.

Then what is heterosexuality if you don't experience sexual attraction until knowing the person?

If primary sexual attraction is absent then what makes you straight.

Really I do understand this logic.

[itsallover]

How is it my fault women find you ugly? Stop projecting your insecurities onto me by twisting my words.

[harrypotter7]

@itsallover this boy and his buddy @bekkesmash are just sad about woman not falling all over themselves in public when an attractive man simply walks by so they’re resorting to calling all women lesbians and asexual. They can’t understand that women and men are biologically different.

[itsallover]

@harrypotter7 They're pitiful.

[Asker]

@harrypotter7 if women and men are different then why women are aroused by women?

[Asker]

@itsallover again ignored? LOL
Finally understand the reason. You are shamed about your weird sexuality.

[itsallover]

I think it's weirder to try and convince women they're lesbian/bi just so you can have all the guys to yourself. We can share, it's alright ❤️

[harrypotter7]

Woman are actually a lot more secure about their sexuality not ashamed. I’d suggest taking some classes to better your understanding of women rather than going online and trying to explain how female attraction works to a bunch of women. You think you know more about our bodies than we do? That’s just sad. Where’s your PHD?

[Asker]

@harrypotter7 female attraction is not that different but if a guy pretend to be a women then female attraction cab be different.

Did you read my articles?

[harrypotter7]

@asker bye.

[RuthAnn1781]

I just think "wow, he's cute"

[Asker]

When do you see attractive woman what do you feel?
What's the difference do you feel when do you see attractive men and women?

[RuthAnn1781]

I think, "She's beautiful, I wish I looked like her." The difference is, when I see a cute guy, sometimes I want to have sex with him but with a girl. I don't want to have sex with them

[LadyJade007]

I'd just get attracted, that's all

[thenewgirlll]

I fall in love 3 times

[Asker]

What about rest of the part?

[Prima_Dana]

I just check him out and think "damn."

[Asker]

When do we watch horror movie we can (our sense) acknowledge that it's a horror movie and horror scene. But there is something behind our appreciation/acknowledgement. We do get some involuntary biological response when do we see it. It's not just like "yeah! it's a horror scene"

We call it fear, fright.
In the same way, when do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it?
* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

[_____cutepie2112____]

Check him out and think that he is so cute

[Asker]

When do we watch horror movie we can (our sense) acknowledge that it's a horror movie and horror scene. But there is something behind our appreciation/acknowledgement. We do get some involuntary biological response when do we see it. It's not just like "yeah! it's a horror scene"

We call it fear, fright.
In the same way, when do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it?
* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

[Helena26]

I get wet

[Asker]

When do we watch horror movie we can (our sense) acknowledge that it's a horror movie and horror scene. But there is something behind our appreciation/acknowledgement. We do get some involuntary biological response when do we see it. It's not just like "yeah! it's a horror scene"

We call it fear, fright.
In the same way, when do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it?
* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?

[Alli16]

I do a double take, stare, and turn when he turns.

[Asker]

When do we watch horror movie we can (our sense) acknowledge that it's a horror movie and horror scene. But there is something behind our appreciation/acknowledgement. We do get some involuntary biological response when do we see it. It's not just like "yeah! it's a horror scene"

We call it fear, fright.
In the same way, when do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) what do you feel? Is it just a neutral appreciation or you get some involuntary biological response in the same way we get it when we watch horror scene?

- What is it?
* What does it feel like? How do you represent this feelings using words?

When do you see an attractive GUY or GIRL (in the street, shopping malls or anywhere) both guys and girls use the same word "Attractive" and same the sentence "he/she is attractive"
But both guys and guys get exactly same feelings here?