Crush called me BFF. Do I have a chance?

[Anonymous]

me and my friend that I liked took a picture together. I have it as my default pic on facebook. anyhow she commented saying great pic BFF. SHE CALLED ME HER BFF. that's pretty much it. game over? I have no chance now huh? that's her nice way of saying I don't like you?

[misterbill71]

That's not the kiss of death... if she's ever said you are like a brother to her, THAT is the kiss of death. Otherwise the only way to know for sure is to ask her out. Just remember to be cool if she says no, to reassure her that you are still her friend, because if you get upset or act all hurt, it could ruin your friendship.

[FunnyHunnyBunny10]

She likes you, loool, but just as a friend. I don't think she is attracted/interested in you if she calls you her bff. Does she know you have a crush on her? Maybe talk to her and tell her how you feel. How long have you known her for?

[Asker]

I dnt think she does know. weve slept in the same bed together, and has told me she loves me. but I'm sure she meant it as a friend. I known her for 3 yrs. should I start ignoring her? should start showing that I like her? what should I do?

[FunnyHunnyBunny10]

Well, if she doesn't know, maybe you can tell her? I don't know.. umm, slept in the same bed and just friends? Did you two ever kiss/have sex? Do anything sexual at all? Like are you two normal friends that never do anything sexual what so ever with each other? Or are you two friends with benefits that have done sexual stuff together? I think if you like her, you still have a chance. You can ask her out on a date. Tell her how you feel and say that you like her as more than a friend..

[Asker]

Welllong story short I needed a place to crash after a party I was gonna sleep on the floor but she offered me to sleep in her bed w her. so I did. never have kissed/or sex. she held onto my arms when were walking sometimes and touchy flirty things but nothing serious. were not friends w benefits either. I'm really confused?

[FunnyHunnyBunny10]

The fact that she has been flirty with you and touchy, she definitely likes you as more than a friend. You should ask her out on a date. That's just my opinion. You don't have to take it. ;) Good luck!

[Asker]

One last quick ? so if she does like me cause I think she natrually a nice sweet flirty person. why did she call me her bff? that would be an obvious sign that she doesn't right? if you liked a guy would you do that?

[FunnyHunnyBunny10]

I NEVER flirt or do anything sexual with a guy who is just a casual friend. I do not treat him any different what so ever from how I treat my female friends. I treat my male and female friends NO different. I only flirt with a guy and do sexual things with him if I am dating him or if he is my boyfriend/husband. The fact that she flirted with you, I think that means she likes you as more than a friend, but that's just my opinion. I'm not in her head so I wouldn't know for sure.

[FunnyHunnyBunny10]

Like the fact that she offered you to sleep with her in her bed that night..... I would NEVER do that. I would never ask a male friend of mine to sleep with me in my bed. I would offer them to sleep in my bed and then I would sleep downstairs in the couch. She obviously treats her male friends differently from her female friends. I don't. I think she called you her BFF because she likes you like a best friend but also likes you more than a friend because she flirts with you. My opinion.

[bubbleboy]

Pff, don't give up yet. Ask her out anyway.

[snackeyg]

Not really. Ask her out anyway.