I got his number =] Now what?

Question

So I messaged my crush on facebook using the excuse that my chat wasn't working. which is true :P and we've only had one convo in person, after class prior to this. He replied giving me his number saying "feel free to text me whenever" so I'm thinking I'll wait until tomorrow when I see him and then text him tomorrow night. I didn't give him my number, I just figured when I text him he'll have it. Guys, what are your thoughts?

ebrady5 · Accepted Answer

Hey girlie,

So ya, you definitely interested in this guy and got his number, so here's my advice. Be mysterious, even Antoine de Barry was quoted, "The haze of mystery is what gives enchantment to pursuit." Basically, play a little hard to get. Wait until some time has past before you initiate contact, perhaps a couple days. You want to show him your interest, but you don't want to fully divulge just how interested you are in him, yet. Make him kinda work for it. This works both ways for guys and girls. If he is interested in you, he will be the one initiating contact at times as well(after he has your number, or when you see him, etc). The mystery thing goes with phone calls and texts too, don't text him everyday, he will get accustomed to it, and your mystery will be gone, and that's just no fun! Be random, wait a few days, text, then maybe a day, then wait again, the point is to be unpredictable and again, somewhat mysterious. He will wonder about you, and if he's really interested, he will contact you to see what you have been up to, how you are doing, etc. hope this helps :)