Does girls get annoyed when guys compliment her a lot?

[Anonymous]

I have texted this girl,She a beauty for real and we texted for about 3 days straight.Well,she took her time to reply and I didn't care about it.Anyway,Last night,she said she would be busy with some of her work and gave me a smile.Nevertheless,most our conversation do have smiles.So,yeah,i always call her gorgeous..Every morning I would say"good morning Gorgeous,;)".Lately,she hadn't been replying and this made me feel insanely worried whether she's ignoring me or something.So yeah,Help needed I guess.Thanks.

[aaroni666]

Too many compliments is a bad thing just like too much of anything is bad. First of all as Jaleel said, she is beautiful, so she gets compliments all the time, especially the boorish ones you are offering every morning. If anything you might be offending her by constantly referring to how you rate her or even worse she thinks you are her best buddy. It'd be better if she was actually annoyed with you as with a girl there is always a chance to change her mind they're very forgiving characters. But if you've hit the 'friends zone' then its going to take saving her life before she even considers touching that erection you constantly have around her.

Calling women gorgeous doesn't make them feel special, you should've taken more time to actually consider the small traits that make her unique. A women probably wants to be referred to as gorgeous only once and that is within the first few meetings when you're displaying whether you want to be friends or you want to see her naked.

Stop using the word gorgeous, try the word 'attractive' it carries more of an enigma, if they're interested they'll ask what you find attractive, then you can mention the things you've noticed whether it be how they laugh, how they sip a cup, or how they say certain words. But don't lie because you have to be able to speak with confidence about these things that turn you on. But don't ever offer these compliments without the cue from her, if you do, you'll sound like a stalker. But even then her decision to listen to you might be to entertain herself.

This is when you learn an important lesson 'girls are bitches' and that you should learn to approach them with a little bit more resentment because you should be annoyed at how they make you feel. They are complete bitches for smelling so nice and looking so nice in dresses. They are bitches for how they hypnotize us in the street, we are powerless to them. If you put up a guard and show a little restraint you will rouse the insecurity that havocs their womanly soul. They'll slowly want to hear your compliments and as long as you never bow to them and start "gorgeous worshiping" they'll need to hear your opinion. This is the game of 'play hard to get'. Have you ever found a girl you ignored wouldn't leave you alone? I am of course speaking very generally, 'hard to get' isn't a guaranteed root to any girl.

Its quite simple, in your first few meetings you have to establish that there is attraction. You have to be confident, funny and discuss girls and boys stuff early on to set the tone. If you do all this and she doesn't bite she is never going to like you unless you save her life.

This current girl you should just drop texting her completely and give her the cold shoulder, if she comes back with texts that need your compliments then show some restraint, be nice, then cold shoulder again, then if she bothers you some more, then bring out the "you're attractive talk" if she bites she might like you, but only a might.

[Jaleel]

ok you never want to compliment a girl too much because it actually does although I am a guy, I can tell you from a womens perspective and I'm not gay. the various women that are beautiful in other peoples eyes, they will get compliments from everyone tht walks by and she will see you as the rest them and brush you off of her shoulders if you keep over excessively compliment her. do you like her? and want her to be attracted to you? or want to stay in the friends zone?

[vivanno]

Yes, no offense. It's annoying because it's awkward, and shows that you're clingy and just a tad bit obsessed and desperate. (I'm not saying that you are, I'm just saying how the girl takes the text as.)

A compliment every once in a while is good.

And WHATEVER you do. DO NOT text her so frequently to the point where it's like:

"hey" "are you there" "hello?" "hey" "whats up" "where are you" "hi" "hello" how are you?" "sup" "hey" like every fricken 2 seconds! That is probably the worst possible thing to do.

So remember, every once in a while. Or not at all! Or face to face is a good solution too.

[username3]

llol , that's so true !

[Arwens-Fire]

Well...complimenting someone all the time may be a bit much. I think it's whether the person means it or not and doing so frequently may cause your words to lose their "Umfff". She said that she is busy with some stuff, which could be entirely true. Sometimes,folks can't get around to texting. If you think she is ignoring you,just stop texting her for about three days...then you may be able to see what the real deal is. If you guys are just friends,dont worry she will get back to you. If you're more than friends the three day challenge will let you know if she's ignoring you...maybe.

[defiantly_beautiful]

Yes, it is annoying! If it's just how you are to compliment her though then try mixing it up a bit.

Also, don't fret too much, not everyone texts back all the time, maybe she's waiting for you to change up the greeting a bit.

If you really want to keep her on her toes just go with the generic "Hey, what's up" generally she will notice that it's different and wonder why.

Another thing, don't text her everyday! This is one thing people my age just haven't figured out and there are some people that really need to, DON'T BE ONE OF THEM!

Good Luck:)

[sunwolf94]

Nah, it doesn't really mean much though now. Like, I have lots of guy friends who are always complementing me, and now it's a little redundant, but never annoying.

[Anonymous]

Just don't compliment her ALL the time, that would get annoying. Maybe she doesn't have phone credit?:/