She keeps saying she wants to see me, but she ends up blowing me off

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I started seeing this girl from school 3 weeks ago, she's 22 I'm 30. She had her eye on me the whole semester and so did I, eventually I made a move and things seemed great. We made out early on and totally hit it off, we have stayed over at each others place, kissed, cuddled, etc no sex though. For a week we did a lot together and I really couldn't get enough of her, I realized I may have been a little too much at first, but she insisted she's into me too.

So for the past almost 2 weeks we have kept in touch via text, Facebook message (she's a texter so I fall suit), initially I was chasing her always messaging her but when she first bailed on me I stopped contacting her and let her chase. Sure enough she would initiate contact and she was clearly still interested, but every time she would say "i'll text ya tomorrow we'll hang out" or "we can do something tonight" or anything saying we would do something I would either not hear from her or she would make other plans. The other day she did apologize for not hanging out last week and I just blew it off as no big deal, but she insisted it was a big deal so I said "well then lets do something tonight (as in right now as I type), it was a movie date.

So tonight she texts me as I'm eating dinner and invited me for a double dinner date with her friend instead of a movie since she said there is no good movies playing, but when she sees that I was eating dinner she said 'oh nevermind', I said I would still like to come out, I only had a light dinner. Her answer was forget I asked, we can hang later, so here I am waiting.

Her friend has told me she has a wall up and to be patient, but it is a wall and it has to go her pace or is she just saying she wants to see me, but not actually mean it?

totally confused
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So things were just getting more confusing and complicated so I just said hey lets just be friends and she couldn't agree more. She wondered what happened, why we stopped seeing each other lol? I thought really?

I'm totally happy with being friends.
She keeps saying she wants to see me, but she ends up blowing me off
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