Is she blowing me off or playing hard to get?

[MKIITRD]

So there is this girl I really like but she has got me all confused. This is the situation;

I first went out with this girl on Valentine's just for a coffee to get to know one another a bit. Then we went out that same week on Friday to see a movie. The impression I got was she is really shy but was into me. She even told me to add her on facebook, which I did and I saw what she wrote about me on her "wall" saying I was really cute to her friends. She even texted me that Friday night thanking me and telling me she had a great time so I texted back saying the same.

After that Friday I texted her on sat and got no reply. So then I waited a day texted her on Monday. She replied and asked if she can call me. I knew she was with her friends that night so I texted her back saying I didn't think it was her texting but that I would call her after work. I called after work and she didn't pick up. So I left it for a couple days and she didn't call or text me.

At this point I was going to leave it already but my friend convinced me that she was playing hard to get and to try again. I then texted her on Thursday before my weekend trip overseas telling her that I was going away for the weekend and that I hoped that we could hang out when I get back. I called her the day after I got back (today) but got no answer/reply/text so far.

I'm so confused? I'm not used to chasing girls or girls playing hard to get. I am really into this girl and I wanted to get to know her better but I feel she is blowing me off and I should just move on. I don't want to seem desperate and feel I should leave it, but its bugging me so much that I don't know what happened. Should I text her asking what happened, why she is blowing me off or should I just leave it?

What to do now? Just leave it?

[Anonymous]

Okay. Here's the deal. Sure, she's playing hard to get. Most guys doesn't understand the concept of being hard to get. When a girl plays it this way it's because:

1- She's intentionally doing it because everybody says it works fine with guys but I don't think your girl does this

2- The girl is shy as you said so she's afraid to get attached to you and then getting a broken heart or something. OR she has a hard time taking any decision in how to approach you/ pick up or not, etc.. which lets her end up messing the whole idea

My advce to you is : Don't text/call again. Us girls grow up when men start to neglect after a long period of attention. We put down our weapons & games and start focusing on the relationship. When she calls, don't blame her or anything, just be nice and let's see how it goes . Good luck :)

[MKIITRD]

Thanks... yeah I think I'm going to leave it.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the best answer =)

[MKIITRD]

np ;)

[Anonymous]

These are not good signs. Most likely she is avoiding you. I would just leave it. You could, if you're really curious ask why, but she may not reply to that either. I've asked why before and I think I guilted the girl to finally replying. She told me she just wasn't feeling the connection.

[MKIITRD]

Yeah I think I'm just going to leave it... if she call great if no oh well...

thanks for the advice.

[art84]

She's playing hard to get, why not wait for her to call you. If she doesn't call you then just forget her.

[killjoi]

I got this same damn prob arrgaraaa.