Other girl holding my boyfriend's hand, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

shes a close friend to both of us, and I don't hate her,

but when we went out she held his hand and pulled him to talk to him on stuff we wanted to tell her.. but she took him quite a distance away... then his friends were like "are they dating"

which kinda made me worry, thus this post

of course I said "nope and he's with me"

a few days later when I was holding hands with him she came on the other side and held his hand

we talked about it later and he said stuff like "I'm OK with it" without asking how I actually felt.

what do I do?

[KRIZZYBELLE]

Well, I do not see any problem if you talk to her about the situation...You mentioned that you are close friends and it will be like a normal discussion.

However, I think your boyfriend is being disrespectful with you as well...I don't think he would like it if you were the one holding hands with his friend...if the problem persist...look for another guy that will give all his attention. You deserve better!

[The-Romanian]

This.

[TheDarkNoodle]

Close friends should not hold your boyfriends hand. Talk to her about it, if she can justify her action take that bitch OUT.

..His reaction was "I'm okay with it." I think the man is walking all over you I WOULD BE F***ING RAGING

[KarKingJack]

I've seen a lot of close friends hold hands, and they really not mean anything more than friendship. Its possible they do that all the time, and he can't see anything wrong with it - that's why he wouldn't ask you if your alright about it, you know?

[JohnGrender]

beat the s*** of her or just find another Boyfriend :)