Boyfriends female friend keeps touching his arm?

[Anonymous]

This is really annoying me. I notice whenever I am out with my boyfriend and his female friend she’ll always at least once touch his arm gently during conversation. Why does she feel the need to do this?

Should I tell her to stop?

[CuriousHubby]

This is either she wants his attention. Might be missing him with you around so much. That or she likes him and wants to touch and he this attention. Third she does this as a habit which is not likely as you would have noticed it sooner.

Talk with your boyfriend and then her. See if he notices and if he does well he might talkw oth her.

Big step seeing if he will be open to talking with his female friend and accepting your feelings.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

You can tell him how you feel, but you can't control who his friends are

[SweetJoyGirl]

She is flirting subtly.

You should talk to your boyfriend first about it. Let him know what she is doing and that it makes you uncomfortable.

If he doesn’t confront her, there is your answer. Dip.
It is your job to trust him, and his job to stop anything about to bloom with another girl.

Know your worth, hun. Don’t even bat an eye at her. 💜

[jeremy_09]

She is saying I'm here if you want to fuck me.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Exactly what he said, but she is doing it subtly.

[Enes38]

You should directly express something that makes you uncomfortable.