Unfortunately the reality is that you have just shit the bed and you have tiny little faggot balls which is why you just threw your rattle at some guy and started crying.
There is no way back from this it is a learning experience.
The long and the short of it is that you dont get to choose what other people do, you can either be ok with it or you can decide that it isn't for you and walk away from it.
You chose, or rather your unchecked emotions chose for you to let your retarded lizard brain use violence to try to control the situation because you are violent and controlling.
This was the relationship equivilent of breaking down into some ugly, grizzly, snot nosed crying over a dropped ice cream cone.
The most embarrassing and shameful part by far is that there is still a part of you that is desperately clinging to the idea that you are a big man who stood up for himself.
You probably want to hit me too dontcha buddy?
Well go on then, I'm not scared of you and you will come off worse every single time until you learn to grow up.
Most Helpful Opinions
You screwed up.
Here's what you were supposed to do:
1. Talk to HER and explain why this guy touching her is inappropriate, and let HER deal with it. Likely, if SHE had told him to back off, things would have ended right there.
2. If she had talked to him, and he continued to do it, then YOU talk to him, and explain that it's inappropriate.
3. If he continues, THEN you BEAT HIS ASS.
In no situation do you grab your girl like you did, and you don't get to go 0-100 like you did. You are presumably an adult - a man - and you need to learn to handle your business the right way. This is a situation that needed to be handled, certainly - you'd have been wrong to just ignore it - but you need to handle things the RIGHT WAY. And that means giving someone an opportunity to correct their behavior BEFORE you correct them.
By doing things wrong, you have done serious - possibly permanent - damage to your relationship and your reputation, and put yourself in the awkward situation of having to apologize to people. And that's your next step: you need to apologize, and acknowledge to everyone that you KNOW you handled it wrong, and that in the future, you will use your words first AND not take it out on your girl.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
8Opinion
You are abusive and controlling you freaking imbecile. Hitting a guy over this is absolutely childish and you're lucky he didn't have you arrested for assault. If you don't understand why this is wrong go speak to a therapist because you clearly need one.
Fyi you handle that situation by talking to your girlfriend about it like an adult and seeing if there's a way the both of you should and can address it.
You have to put an end to that. She needs to say no unless she’s wanting him. Time for some private conversation
I understand your heightened reaction but if your girlfriend not verbally or through her body motions, why stay? You definitely got to be careful though
Tell him if he touches her again, you'll beat his face in so bad the surgeon will have to take skin from his ass
All you can do now is apologise to the guy, apologise to your x or current gir and her friends. You can't change the past nor write her feelings to your favor.
Everyone is so fucked these days. You had every right to do what you did but this girl probably doesn’t see it that way. The guy knows damn well what he’s doing tho and in my opinion I would have talked to him in private
Why did you think not talking about it was the best course of action after it started bugging you?
- u
Talk to him about it
Be the first girl to share an opinion
and earn 3 more Xper points!
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!