If he thinks he's having a bad enough time with his wife, or thinks he can get away with it, he might be tempted. Ten years at 20-30 is not an obstacle to a fling.
As others said, this probably doesn't lead anywhere good for anyone, and when it ends you then have the difficult scenario of having to work near someone you had relations with and it ended badly, which would just ruin work for one or both of you as well. The maxim about don't mess where you eat is good advice.
From what you say he is a standup guy, trying to avert his eyes, and to exercise some self control. Help him with this, and do it yourself as well.
On one level he'd like the compliment about his looks, but again it doesn't lead anywhere good so I wouldn't do it.
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I understand you being interested in him, but keep in mind that nothing good can come out of this. Best case scenario for you...you will be his mistress, how long would you be satisfied with that? He won't leave his wife for you, really he wont, so keep your self respect and keep it clean.
Because he probably knows he is a married man and you are a fine looking woman. That is probably why he looks away. Please don't tell that to him :( some things are better left unsaid. He is a married man and it sucks, I know!
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The mans married ! Lady I really hope you know what that means off limits and he has kids for crying out loud ! Think of the kids not you ...you nasty self centered bitch
he is married with kids think about those kids view of their father if he ran off with a younger girl
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