She likes me but she won't tell me?

[Anonymous]

She throw hints that she like me (touching, flirting, text first, ask to hang out, ask me about my personal life, she would walk up to me if I don't see her and start the conversation, and give the wink face on facebook and texting). The signs are there, but I want to hear it out of her mouth to believe it. I told her that I have a crush on her. How to get her to tell me that she like me back/interested?

[girl3377]

well OBVIOUSLYYYY she likes you but she doesn't want to say anything all the touching flirting is what a girl does when she likes someone so I think YESS you don't even have to wait to get it out of her mouth to say it she likes you so just go and hang out with her she might be giving you hints that she likes you but as a girl we don't really like saying I LIKE YOU hope I helped

[viva_glow]

She might just want you to ask her out and she's trying to get you to do that... unless she's just a huge flirt. But if I were you, I'd just bite the bullet and ask her out.

[Asker]

You are right about that. I'm the type of guy that want to be 95-100% sure that she likes me. Maybe it fear of rejection. I'm trying to get rid of that but its really hard to do that.

[viva_glow]

I understand.

You make it sound like you're pretty sure though.

The touching is usually a deadpan giveaway. If you're THAT unsure and you want confirmation, you probably won't be able to get it from her directly.

You could try to "cheat": ask her about her love life. CAREFULLY note her reaction. She shy? Keep it to herself? Maybe "hint" at the fact that she likes someone but won't tell you?

After that, you'll probably have a good idea of whether or not asking her out will get positive results.

[viva_glow]

Either way though, it might be good to condition yourself to braving it and asking her out regardless. You'll inevitably face rejection at life. But what does it mean? You move on. I think we make it a bigger deal than it is.

[Asker]

Thanks for helping me out on this question.

[viva_glow]

No prob man!

[mhairix]

Honestly girls are so insecure and shy when we like someone and even if the guy shouts it out, we still will be unsure. This is also VERY true with guys. Anyway, I think you're going to have to make the first move, invite her out somewhere and just ask her out. She definitely likes you, it's just her being insecure so don't worry. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

she clearly likes you but she is affraid to make the ifrst move. you shoudl just ask her out and see how it goes or ask her if she likes you? then you can clear up where you are in your relationship and if you want ot start one

[Anonymous]

she might not have had a relationship before so she's not sure hoe to act