Have You Ever Had A Squish On Someone?

[anon1903]

like perhaps platonic/no romantic crush. someone you wish you had but not in that way. emotional feelings but not as a romantic / sexual partner, are you getting?


queries are welcomed by the way.

[Andchadders]

That's more or less how all my attractions are. I always focus more on connection than anything eles, even in my friendships, and while it may mean that I form bonds to others more easily, I'd like to think that it also portrays me as the caring and friendly person that I am. As of late, however, I haven't seen much in the way of social interactions and this has made me focus a lot more on the connections I already have, rather than seeking new ones, and subsequently brought some of my more faded friendships to my attention.

[oldguyincanada]

Oh yes. I have to suppress these things though as it is incomprehensible to the rest of the world, and can be completely misinterpreted.

[TsundereMatrix]

I have to n a few girls to be honest. I’m pretty sure I’m straight because I’m definitely attracted to men but now I’m confused because there’s some girls that I really want to like me but in a non sexual way, maybe just romantically.

[MsElizabeth96]

Exact same with me

[RuthlessReality]

Yes! All the time! These are the people I refer to as my “friend crushes” the people who I think are really cool and amazing and i want to get to know them and spend time with them but am not interested in them in a sexual way. Just cool people I would totally hang out with if given the chance.

[ohshee]

I have a best friend i think if im readying and understanding your post right i do with her,, but most of the time there are my male friends that want to hang with me i have 1 make friend that is a 1 %er and i have to ask him or his wife. If i got drunk last night they akways say what u dont drink and i say i must have because i dont remember making him my bitch,, he calls me 10 times aday. Its crazy

[JackSmy]

Yeah, like most of my married, and lesbian female friends! I love them in a different way, and not at all sexual, but like the sister I never had.
Yeah, I tease them, and flirt with them, when they look really good, but they just blush, and smile, knowing I really mean that they look amazing!
All of them are just a very special part of my life, and we have really good relationships, and I know their husbands and partners, and there is no jealousy or issues.

[i_sunny]

So well actually there was this girl in my tuition who was very charming and charismatic, she was smart, cute and always had an adorable behaviour. I did like her in a platonic way.. And later i had to suddenly move out of the town and later one day i find her in instagram and just went into follow.

few minutes later i got her reply saying - is it actually me? and then we chatted for like an hour or more, it was pleasant experience, she listened to all whatever I went through and she told whatever new things happened to her.

And overally i am still connected to her, in a non romantic manner, i just wanted (and still like ) her to listen and talk to me that's all!

[IAmRedThunder]

Yessss. There’s this awesome girl in my program in college, and we go to the gym sometimes. She’s so awesome and I was so excited when we started hanging out more. I had a friend crush on her haha (not romantic).

[Anonymous]

Well she's my boss so already that would be tough. Thought about walking up in there and just lay it all out on the table. Probably be a flattering event or she could be mutual as well. Either way I wanna know and we're both married. Its like one of things you're not supposed to, but only if you had their answer you just wanna know in case a fallout happens.

[Opinion Owner]

She asked me the other day tell me whats on your mind, then she winked and laughed and said. Tell me how you really feel☺ I'm like should I or not. I dont have any experience in this and I dont wanna be laughed and in trouble in the office, but at the same time if I did tell her, things might be beyond my wildest dreams. I think she's into me but then it's hard to tell.

[Gods_Gift]

Yeah I've often had that. More so when I was younger, as I've got older I've got more masculine, and my feelings towards women have become less platonic and more "interested? / Not interested?"

[cheapshotbob]

i did once but that was a long time ago but it was cool feeling

[SentientBrick]

What?

[MsElizabeth96]

Yes! Many times.

It's ways nice to encounter another person who's knows that term

[courtney06]

I’m confused I think you need to rephrase how you’re defining a squish

[justawhiteman]

yep my close female friend of 10 years! I entertained the idea in my brain of would we be good together maybe just maybe... then I was like uhh whyd I even think that were like best friends..

[LaVillaStrangiato]

Sure do! I didn't know there was a name for that.
For the record - I would have sex with them if the situation arose.

[adidas0169]

A what? why use words or make up words that makes no sense for there meaning or usage

[MsElizabeth96]

That's like asking, why have language?

[adidas0169]

Squish really? in the question context has no sense or meaning to it. just like when someone calls someone bro. am not there bro or brother so need to use it

[anon1903]

excuse you, squish is a real term.

[anon1903]

not my problem your language skills are limited. if I were you, I'd learn.

[adidas0169]

Look up the term squish the definition doesn't even close to the question that is being asked so check again. webster dictionary thats the book the people use to look up the meaning of words probably the same book that 99% of writers and most people in there 30's and up have used to look up meanings of words

[anon1903]

is this the age when Google wasn't invented?

cause for God's sake, its right on it!

[adidas0169]

Still not in the webster dictionary the online version not hard back

[adidas0169]

Not urban dictionary.

[MsElizabeth96]

Obviously if you don't personally have a squish, you'd have no need for the word. It's there for people who do have them.

It's not gonna be in the dictionary because it a colloquial or 'slang' term

[adidas0169]

So slang extends your vocabulary really dont think so.

[anon1903]

@adidas0169 oh but it does. you should come out from "good old days" excuse and refer to it sometime.

[adidas0169]

Im perfectly fine not dealing with twits

[anon1903]

and yet you're here. @adidas0169

[adidas0169]

Bc i dont mind argueing and by the way twit is a actual word

[anon1903]

oh yes I actually use Google, y'know? it works miracles!

[MsElizabeth96]

Yes, slang does extend your vocabulary. That's what vocabulary means

[Massageman]

Only "squish" I deal with is what we do to bugs and mice we catch.

[Jamie05rhs]

I've never heard that term before. But I thought that was just called being friends.

[Guardian45]

So Squish On is like a Bromance? Or is this strictly opposite sex?

[MsElizabeth96]

Sort of like a very deep close bromance

[Dreewskii]

Yeah but my dick ruined it, it does that a lot

[daddygotpipe]

Yes I h@ve just fuck the shit outta her