How to get him to chase you?

[crushsodacan]

I just need to know how I can get a guy to chase?! haha. As in how to I get him to show a bit more initiative. Like I know he likes me, well I think I know. But he has no girl experience but he has dropped a few signs. So anyways I just want it to move a bit faster. And my question is how do I do that? Not necessarily asking him out, but I mean hanging out more getting to know each other kinda thing.

Let me know what you guys/girls would so in this situation! :)

[beauty6111]

Let him know you're interested. Men love confident, outspoken women. Use this to your advantage as you make your desires known. Putting him on notice will help put you in the forefront of his thoughts and imagination. Whether verbal or nonverbal communication is your method, make sure your actions are unmistakable without compromising your integrity or good judgment. Simple gestures like smiles or nice notes can work to put a smile on his face and make room in his heart. Avoid degrading yourself for the sake of attention.

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Give him a sneak peek. This doesn't have to apply to your clothing. Show him how you could change his current situation for the better. Shower him with compliments or praise when he's feeling low about his job. Reassure him that you'll be there for him even when it seems like no one else will. Although you may not plan on being there for him in any major capacity, it's important that he places you on a pedestal. Once you've reached this elevated status, it will be easier to manipulate his feelings.

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Offer desirable bait. While men may enjoy the hunt, they only invest time into chasing after worthy prizes. Make sure you're physically and emotionally well put together at all times. Although supermodel good looks and genius level mental capabilities aren't required, you do need to be extremely attractive in his eyes. Remember, there's a big difference between getting a man to like and you and getting one to chase after you. Being chase-worthy means being worth the sweat and energy spent trying to obtain you.

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Keep him guessing. Men enjoy the unpredictable nature of desirable women. Since life is often regimented, make him feel that he can use you for an escape. No conversation or action you make should be the same as previous interactions. Bake him a pecan pie for no special reason to add fuel to his growing passion for you. Invite him to a football game one week and the symphony the next to show you're versatile and can readily adapt to any given situation.

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Stay a few steps ahead of him at all times. Never let him catch up to your pace. The goal is to have him chase you; not let him catch you. Although you're ahead of him, it's important that he thinks he has a chance of "winning" you and your affections. He should always be able to see where you're going without the ability to control your direction. This will provide a great chase for both participants.

* don't go to far with this SOMEONE COULD GET HURT !

[kkandbb]

Poke him and run away lol try flirting with him. Show HIM some interest.

[SlightlyBizarre]

I was actually in a situation like this. I was the guy you just described but I was too scared to do anything to get closer to her. But I started talking to some of her friends and they encouraged me to ask her out and it took me like two weeks just to hold her hand. So they encouraged me to go a little faster, I guess I was just scared she would reject me which was really stupid cause she was crazy about me. So you could try to get some of your friends to talk to him, or talk to some of HIS friends about it. Outside help works. I am still dating that girl and we have been dating for 6 months now.