What makes a woman a player?

[Anonymous]

If I flirt with multiple men does it makes me a player?

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Not sure if women can be players.
When I think about players I never imagine women. For the simple fact that it's easy for girls to get guys.

Think about any other kind of player like a sports player. I will call a normal football person a player. I am noI am not going to call someone that plays football where the ball has a magnet to the goal, and the other team is putting you a red carpet to it.

So no, women can't be players don't worry about being one.

[victoriaxoxo]

I beg to differ. I had once been involved with two men and I made everything so that I have both of them with me in the same house making me food and bringing me flowers and I would pick which one I prefer to have sex with and just tell each guy that I only have sex with him, the other dude just makes me food and hands out with me. So I don't know seems like a player move to me.

[victoriaxoxo]

Hangs*

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@victoriaxoxo either that's not true or the guys are beyond stupid. Which again makes it really easy. Even if they knew you had sex with the other they probably didn't care.

[victoriaxoxo]

I don’t think they did. One had a clue but I reassured him that it wasn’t the case. I came up with elaborate stories to prove my point. From experience, I tend to lie quite well and men don’t really question me when I look them straight in the eye and say ‘no baby, you know I wouldn’t do that’. fyi I’m not saying I’m proud of this but it happened so there is that.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@victoriaxoxo if they were with you in the same house and never fond out about you and the other one while seeing the other cooking for you they really were beyond stupid.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@victoriaxoxo And don't worry I am not judging you I have used girls before. But they were not stupid to the point those guys where and that is my point. It's so much easier fr you since guys just overlook everything in excange for sex that I don't really give the credit to you, I give the credit to the guys stupidity. So no women can't be players.

[victoriaxoxo]

Well but it isn’t a question of where credit falls though is it? If I get to use two guys and I don’t even get the blame for it because women can’t be players then it is great. The guys were just very naive i think. Although, one knew that I had sex with the other one, he thought that it was something that happened a long time ago. The other one thought the first guy was only my housemate and nothing else. I’ll sleep with one when the other one is gone. One began suspecting something at one point but I broke it off with him and replaced him with another guy. Some guys can just be very naive but I usually find it easy to lie to men, they don’t usually question anything I say. But yh anyway like I said, I think it is quite funny how as a chick you can go and fuck around like that and then people don’t even know how to blame you because it is unexpected and you’re like nice!

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@victoriaxoxo
If you were supposed ot be their girlfriend the you cheated on them and are to blame for that. And then for being naive. I am sure you know that would not work on everyone.
But being a player actually it is about that. All you need to be a girl player is to be prety and smile. That's way to easy. Guys need much more to be player and you know it.
That can be done by us too. Trust me I have seen it done. I had guys showing me texts of girls they had warped around their fingers. Thing is it is easy to play that with guys like you just said. Yet they did it, to a smaller degree even I did it once.
Again a player that plays a game where the ball has a magnet to the goal and the other team wants you to score is not a real player.

[EthanielXzavier]

I was looking up the definition of player and a according to google (says it's from Oxford)

A playa is: a confident, successful man with many sexual partners

I don't much like how they say specifically men (unless there's a mirror term referring to women)

But I'd say also meeting those descriptions

[Listenhear]

Isn’t a player the type of person who leads several others on with no intent of commitment but truly just to make themselves feel desired and important?

[Anonymous]

Some have a list of the men they want to conquer and just check mark them down that list one at a time, starting with the non-player types.

[himanshu0025]

Not at all , it is just in ur behaviour maybe coz player is that person who plays with the feelings and the thing (flirt) u did is not similar to playing with feelings in any manner and if ur boy had said this or anyone had said then definitely the person have feelings for u or may be he is just jealous of that guy with whom u flirted and yes he may be don't know how to express his feelings for u but if the person have said this shit in rage u don't need to worry coz u r asking the question so maybe that person matters to u but don't worry he will also gonna understand all these things and yes it is ur way to enjoy someone's company that doesn't mean you r a bad one or a player

[loveslongnails]

Flirting means nothing, that's why it's called "flirting". You're a player when you use emotional, mental or sexual weaknesses in a person to your advantage without any regard for the outcome, or their well being. Flirting is just teasing... so what?

[Alex_andrine]

Well said.

[loveslongnails]

@Alex_andrine thank you... it was an easy answer :)

[ItsTheNephilim]

As long as you're not *playing* anyone for selfish reasons in the field of romance, love and or sexual relations, you're not a 'player'.

Simply flirting doesn't come anywhere near making you a player.

[Alex_andrine]

I flirt and fuck with multiple guys sometimes, i don't think this makes me a "player" . We're all grown ass adult that knows what we're doing. I'm honest with them, i don't have anything to hide.

[PeterAyre]

You don't say why you flirt with multiple men? It's not much information to go off. Look up player in the Urban dictionary of you match any them then there will be people who think you are a player.

[Married85]

If you are flirting in a way of giving guys false hope, then it could be perceived as you're a player

[likelyOK]

Messing with their feeling I think generally having side guys when you are suppose to be with one guy but have several

[MaggieClover]

I would definitely say so, as your not investing time into one person, you’re playing them all and allowing them to believe that in their head they’re somewhat special to you, when in fact that really is not the case.

[Alpha09]

Only if you make them think they are the only one you are talking to. But if they are made aware of the other people you are conversing with then no.

[Thatsamazing]

No, it would make you a flirt. If you got fucked by them, it would make you a slut. No one is a "player." It's an idiotic term with zero logic or substance.

[LoU_Hades]

Flirting doesn't make you to a player. Deceiving and abusing does.

[Laozi]

Nope. If you're in various relationships at the same time then that makes you player.

[Unit1]

Not necessarily.
A woman is a player if she drags more than one man along, making him think, that you are very interested in him (romantically).

[ashnakag666]

90% of all men do the same thing with girls. As long as you don't have a serious relationship it shouldn't be that big of a deal.

[chriscdi]

no it just makes you single, now fucking a bunch of guys makes you a whore

[farhaan7part2]

Yup. It means u have a high chance of cheating and u lack the commitment to one. Same goes for guys that flirt with any random girl.

[Chris006]

What makes a person a player is to actually play with their feelings, nothing else. Same for both women and men. No particular difference about player mentality.

[Popcorn39046]

In the world we live in... the answer would be promiscuity. Women are shamed, but males are praised.

[JSmuve]

Yes. Especially if you're knowingly leading them on.

[Anonymous]

Sure, but it also makes it look like you're desperate for male validation in your life just to get some thirst chase. (no offense)

[Asker]

I don't flirt them unless they flirt me first

[Opinion Owner]

I guess to get a player status, you probably have to be legit hooking up with multiple with those men. But that's on you if you want or don't want that type of status for yourself since players male or female tend to get a bad rap when it comes genuine dating with people who don't hook around casually and got moral standards for themselves

[orangexoxo]

you're not desperate at all. they flirt, flirt back. who give a fuck you're not out there begging for attiontion so I dont agree with this guy at all.

[Opinion Owner]

@orangexoxo It's different for every girl don't get all offended lol. I forgot to mention that they are open choices to who you want to truly date

[Anonymous]

no I think you'd have to be fucking them too for it to count as player status

[scooogy]

I'm sorry, but such questions inspire me to suggest a question category called "stupid questions" 🤦‍♂️

[darealcuwop]

No , you have a better chance at getting to know someone so you'll know if you wanna take it to the next level

[mhunt08]

[, It depends on where you are at night; a club, movies or just drinking with girlfriends

[Awn_aa]

Being a attention seeker and flirting just for fun

[jimmy2]

Knowledgeable abd experience

[DaddyRollingStone]

Makes you a hoe

[Ginge19991]

Yes highly

[sweetboy_11]

No absolutely no

[Anonymous]

Lack of self respect