Do guys like it when unattractive woman flirt with them?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No reasons

I'm a woman

[Anonymous]

Yeah but just as long it isn’t over the top. I’ve met some BBW women in the past who I’ve been nice too because I know their dating lives are tough. But just how some attractive women are nice to guys they aren’t interested in I sure as hell am not always interested in every girl I get in a long conversation with.

Some ugly girls can be too aggressive as well (they are usually BBW). If the guy is out of your league don’t touch him unless you are sure it’s okay. I remember having a random fat girl slap my butt hard in a bar one time. That pissed me off. If the roles were reversed it would of been a metoo story.

[Anonymous]

Depends how long we've been ignored by women. Sometimes attention from someone you wouldn't want it from is still better than no attention.

[Thatsamazing]

This is a decent answer.

[Opinion Owner]

@Thatsamazing i'd say this goes for both genders.

[Thatsamazing]

Yeah but it's way worse for guys because we basically never get female attention. Females get male attention all the time.

[Opinion Owner]

@Thatsamazing true.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Yes and no. It's like a self esteem boost (I mean come on, everyone likes being flirted with). But at the same time they shrug it off since you're not attractive to them.

Put it this way: they won't like it as much as someone they would consider attractive flirting with them.

[usr_963]

I don't know whether you couldn't see my messages, or you just ignore them. If you didn't see them, I'm sorry, I was not okay that time. I waited for you for hours. Then I wrote to her, I couldn't say anything I wanted to say, I blamed her again out of anger.

[usr_963]

Now you and I both know that you deserved that sorry or not. saying anything to you again is me insulting myself.

[DontFvckingAskMe]

I think you could take a flirt from any person as a compliment as long it is with only words.

Maybe some guys will like it more than other that depends.

[Desconhecida]

I think it boosts their self esteem nevertheless

[MCheetah]

No I don't, because it implies that they think I'm ugly too and "in their league" enough for them to flirt with me. That probably sounds meaner than I mean it to be, but it implies I'm ugly, since unattractive people are usually too intimidated to flirt with people they think are attractive or good-looking. If they have feelings for me and would like to date, that's one thing. But to brazenly hit on me implies they think I'm desperate/hideous enough to likely say yes to them.

[thecharmander21]

Personally I feel like it's a confidence booster but at the same time I do feel bad because then I feel like I'm unintentionally leading them on.

Also I assume you mean physically unattractive women talking to you, which is fine. If their personality is super obnoxious or annoying then I might want to leave and not have them flirt with me because it is simply unenjoyable.

[Kaneki05]

I am okay with that, it's a bit awkward but hey i will take what i can get. And honestly i don't think the girl would look like that that's a bit extreme even for chavs. And then attractive is subjective.

[MuffinBoi]

I mean, whatever I guess. The pic you're showing is kinda extreme though and they look awful if I'm being honest. Still though, playful flirting is never too bad, so yeah I'd quite like it

[ShadezMcgee]

I would feel flattered because someone finds me attractive, but I wouldn't be keen on flirting back with them an shift the conversation to something more friendly and away from that.

[jkm1864]

Honestly She could be a work in progress. She could wax the unibrow, get a nose job, remove that zit or mole, and get Her teeth fixed and She would actually be kind of attractive.

[Avicenna]

Its fine, really. You just have a nice convo and mention you have a partner. She still feels good because you talked to her and were nice.

[YHL6965]

Personally, even though I'm not interested, I'm still flattered that someone would see me as their potential partner but I would not say I enjoy it, especially if she insists too much. Usually I'm pretty naive so I don't even pick up on hints.

[TonyV]

Still kind of nice to feel appreciated or wanted. .

[StephenCF]

The gesture is always flattering, but I’d respond in a much different manner than if an attractive girl was flirting 😅

[xichuwangwai]

You know, there're differences between unattractive and scary.

[Pete671]

Because they might be lacking in self-confidence and I would think they feel safe around me, either that or feel as desperate as I do lol,,,

[User4]

Stop showing that poor girls photo making fun of her.

[Asker]

I'm not making fun of her. I just used her picture as example.

[genericname85]

it's flattering but i'd try hard not to give them ideas xD

[bulletbob555]

Not so much as your example. It is good practice and an ego boost but not your example she's pretty narley

[OddBeMe]

We like all attention. And everyone flirts with each other. A small degree is like water cooler crap. High degree is trying to get laid.

[An_Impulse]

i wouldn't care about looks.. but the photo you shared give me creeps :D

[TonyT1986]

No, it’s awkward. I get unwanted attention everywhere I go. I mean I’m used to it but still.

[Anonymous]

I don't particularly like it , but I don't mind it either. I know what being ugly is