Do guys like it when unattractive woman flirt with them?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No reasons

I'm a woman

[Anonymous]

Yeah but just as long it isn’t over the top. I’ve met some BBW women in the past who I’ve been nice too because I know their dating lives are tough. But just how some attractive women are nice to guys they aren’t interested in I sure as hell am not always interested in every girl I get in a long conversation with.

Some ugly girls can be too aggressive as well (they are usually BBW). If the guy is out of your league don’t touch him unless you are sure it’s okay. I remember having a random fat girl slap my butt hard in a bar one time. That pissed me off. If the roles were reversed it would of been a metoo story.

[Anonymous]

Depends how long we've been ignored by women. Sometimes attention from someone you wouldn't want it from is still better than no attention.

[Thatsamazing]

This is a decent answer.

[Opinion Owner]

@Thatsamazing i'd say this goes for both genders.

[Thatsamazing]

Yeah but it's way worse for guys because we basically never get female attention. Females get male attention all the time.

[Opinion Owner]

@Thatsamazing true.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Yes and no. It's like a self esteem boost (I mean come on, everyone likes being flirted with). But at the same time they shrug it off since you're not attractive to them.

Put it this way: they won't like it as much as someone they would consider attractive flirting with them.

[usr_963]

I don't know whether you couldn't see my messages, or you just ignore them. If you didn't see them, I'm sorry, I was not okay that time. I waited for you for hours. Then I wrote to her, I couldn't say anything I wanted to say, I blamed her again out of anger.

[usr_963]

Now you and I both know that you deserved that sorry or not. saying anything to you again is me insulting myself.

[DontFvckingAskMe]

I think you could take a flirt from any person as a compliment as long it is with only words.

Maybe some guys will like it more than other that depends.

[Desconhecida]

I think it boosts their self esteem nevertheless

[Tyler2026]

I don't like it at all. You got desperate guys who say any attention at all is good attention but this is because most men are pathetically desperate for even a small amount of female interest/approval. I'd personally rather a woman who is physically unappealing to just keep her mouth closed. 1. I don't care that SHE finds me attractive. Somethings are better left to yourself. 2. Women should be more aware of where they are in attractiveness and date at that level. 3. I really only want women I find attractive flirting with me. It's the only type of flirting that matters.

I am still kind to these women but deep inside wish that most of them would just be quiet and go about their day. I don't want to have sex with you and I don't want to engage in unwanted flirting with you. I can't help that you physically repulse me sexually. If we keep it as friends though and only hang out in groups I'd much prefer that.

I would rather be alone than to settle for a woman I wouldn't choose on a good day. Looks matter than most people realize and they always will. I don't understand what women DO NOT get about this. Lose the weight, wear better clothes and actually be something to flirt with. You can't have an unappealing face and be fat and think that's going to work for the opposite sex. Yes, most men will smash most men are desperate and will take anything with a hole that's willing. I'd rather jack off to porn than flirt with an ugly woman.

[Asker]

Love the honesty.

[MCheetah]

No I don't, because it implies that they think I'm ugly too and "in their league" enough for them to flirt with me. That probably sounds meaner than I mean it to be, but it implies I'm ugly, since unattractive people are usually too intimidated to flirt with people they think are attractive or good-looking. If they have feelings for me and would like to date, that's one thing. But to brazenly hit on me implies they think I'm desperate/hideous enough to likely say yes to them.

[thecharmander21]

Personally I feel like it's a confidence booster but at the same time I do feel bad because then I feel like I'm unintentionally leading them on.

Also I assume you mean physically unattractive women talking to you, which is fine. If their personality is super obnoxious or annoying then I might want to leave and not have them flirt with me because it is simply unenjoyable.

[Kaneki05]

I am okay with that, it's a bit awkward but hey i will take what i can get. And honestly i don't think the girl would look like that that's a bit extreme even for chavs. And then attractive is subjective.

[Tyler2026]

Looks are not subjective. There are women MAJORITY of men would rate attractive as hell. The only reason men say this is because MOST men can't even get a date let alone women even caring about their existence. Trust and believe if most men were getting play the things said by you and others wouldn't even be said. It's pathetic men are not honest about this shit with looks but hey desperate circumstances call for desperate measures. I'd rather shoot myself in the head than to be bothered with women I wouldn't strike up a conversation with if she didn't say anything.

[Kaneki05]

You're right and wrong. There is a consensus of attractive but someone with their own bias could prefer something else. And a very important not is looks and attractive are two separate things so just ignoring the nuance there.

[Kaneki05]

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[MuffinBoi]

I mean, whatever I guess. The pic you're showing is kinda extreme though and they look awful if I'm being honest. Still though, playful flirting is never too bad, so yeah I'd quite like it

[ShadezMcgee]

I would feel flattered because someone finds me attractive, but I wouldn't be keen on flirting back with them an shift the conversation to something more friendly and away from that.

[jkm1864]

Honestly She could be a work in progress. She could wax the unibrow, get a nose job, remove that zit or mole, and get Her teeth fixed and She would actually be kind of attractive.

[Tyler2026]

So 10k plus in cosmetic surgery just to be kind of attractive. She's better off accepting herself the way she is and dating at her level.

[OneViewpoint]

No one, male or female, likes anyone they aren't attracted to flirting with them. It creates an awkward situation.

[Avicenna]

Its fine, really. You just have a nice convo and mention you have a partner. She still feels good because you talked to her and were nice.

[YHL6965]

Personally, even though I'm not interested, I'm still flattered that someone would see me as their potential partner but I would not say I enjoy it, especially if she insists too much. Usually I'm pretty naive so I don't even pick up on hints.

[TonyV]

Still kind of nice to feel appreciated or wanted. .

[Tyler2026]

When the woman is unattractive I actually would prefer she said nothing at all. It is not nice to feel wanted by someone I do not want.

[StephenCF]

The gesture is always flattering, but I’d respond in a much different manner than if an attractive girl was flirting 😅

[xichuwangwai]

You know, there're differences between unattractive and scary.

[Pete671]

Because they might be lacking in self-confidence and I would think they feel safe around me, either that or feel as desperate as I do lol,,,

[User4]

Stop showing that poor girls photo making fun of her.

[Asker]

I'm not making fun of her. I just used her picture as example.

[genericname85]

it's flattering but i'd try hard not to give them ideas xD

[bulletbob555]

Not so much as your example. It is good practice and an ego boost but not your example she's pretty narley

[OddBeMe]

We like all attention. And everyone flirts with each other. A small degree is like water cooler crap. High degree is trying to get laid.

[An_Impulse]

i wouldn't care about looks.. but the photo you shared give me creeps :D

[TonyT1986]

No, it’s awkward. I get unwanted attention everywhere I go. I mean I’m used to it but still.

[Anonymous]

I don't particularly like it , but I don't mind it either. I know what being ugly is

[ronaldo75]

We hate it. Probably more than women hate when ugly men flirt with them.

[gandolph3]

flirting does hurt anyone, except others that are jealous

[Anonymous]

do you mean like butch women who love guns and swords

[boggboss]

Nope that girl is clapped

[Sevenpointfive]

is that the real life helga pataki?

[humanearth]

She looks like a girl from my high school years

[Alexandrubaschet08]

HELL NO, GO AWAY YOU CREATURE.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

I don't mind. I just mildly flirt back.

[es20490446e]

That's not a woman, it's a troll.

[Unit1]

Not as much as if attractive women do it.

[garak]

One Man's unattractive may be another Man's Beauty

[Tyler2026]

Yeah because he's desperate and has no options. You know I have a couple of uncles who only married their wives because they'd be good mothers. So they played like they actually loved that woman just to have kids. I told them they were pathetic. Get with a woman you find attractive even if you have to date 10 years younger. There is no reason to settle for a woman just so you don't die alone

[Asker]

LMAO.

[Wise4myage]

No, that's very awkward.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Its fine if its just in fun

[Iron_Man]

I will flirt with the blond in your pic

[Fuentes]

No if its nit friendly

[Jack9949]

God No. It just gets me nervous.

[Cryptic-Game]

I don't think they do.

[nonamelmao]

beauty is different to everyone

[NewZion]

Indifferent

[Comecloser]

They love it

[Anonymous]

Hell no