If he/she replies slow does he/she like you?

[Ctuinfort]

And what should i do about it?

[sensible27]

Maybe not enough to buy you the moon and be crazy about you but still. I generally text slow, you could say if someone is worth it they'd make time for you and maybe that's true. Don't know why I personally do it really but it is what it is.

[sensible27]

by the way did you draw that?

[Ctuinfort]

No ahahaha

[sensible27]

Can I get a link to where you got it from?

[Ctuinfort]

Uhh wait a sec

[sensible27]

It reminds me of my childhood, I don't know why... Not that I'm (a) '"grown up" now.

[Ctuinfort]

Mmm i get that i really like the artstyle :). I couldn't find the link but it's called "impresión sol naciente". I'm pretty sure if you search it up you'll get loads of information and pictures.

[sensible27]

You into art?

[Ctuinfort]

Yup i make some myself too :) are you?

[sensible27]

Yea, I've been busy... Maybe too busy. Hopefully I'd get some time when this is all over. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=61MhotDAZ5c

[Ctuinfort]

Wow that song is really vibey, puts me in a good mood

[Hmmm_how_about_that]

I text slow because I don't want my head to be on my phone all the time so I only get back to people after sunset

[Ctuinfort]

Don't you ever keep an eye open for a notification from someone u like talking to?

[Hmmm_how_about_that]

If it's urgent they'll probably call me, I need a focused mind for my day, so not really; a man's purpose in life isn't to be in a relationship those come next

[Ctuinfort]

Wow wise words, thank you for your reply. This really did change my view on the subject :).

[Don-_-Don]

@Hmmm_how_about_that I really wish more men thought about relationships that way, a lot of guys I know treat it was thier top tier priority, and without it they're in misery.

[Hmmm_how_about_that]

@Ctuinfort Glad I could help

[Hmmm_how_about_that]

@Don-_-Don Yeah I agree. Even though seeing such behaviours from a supposed masculine personality is rather irritating for me I won't talk about it because I want to try to stay humble.

[Hmmm_how_about_that]

Thanks for choosing my comment, I felt I should let you know something, don't look at how long it takes for someone to replay back BUT do look for how they replay back, if you talk about something fascinated and with details in paragraphs and they just replay you back with very short unengaged replays as you would feel like they just want to replay back as a duty and they're not interested in talking to you especially if it's a topic that they like then yeah they're not as interested in you as you are in them (some people are bad at texting so try this on phone or person as well to be sure)

[Ctuinfort]

You're welcome and thank u for ur extra advise!

[giota123]

I don't really know.. but the only sure thing is that when you really into someone you are always on your phone, waiting on a message. Maybe he's into you but you're not 1# priority.. give it some time! I really want updates sometime.^^

[Ctuinfort]

That makes sence tho. I will give u some updates i'm going on a date with him next week so we'll see how that goes :).

[rienna888]

like how slow?

[Ctuinfort]

Couple of hours

[rienna888]

does he have work or school? does it happen often? does he seem interested when he replies?

[Ctuinfort]

Um rn he doesn't have school yet but he does work sometimes and yes he does seem interested when i talk to him

[Ctuinfort]

It happens often tho :/

[rienna888]

does he seem kinda outgoing and always out and about?

[Ctuinfort]

Yeah

[rienna888]

ooo don't worry, as long as when he replies he seems interested. And if he's outgoing, he's probably just hanging out with friends. So when he's relaxed and not occupied by errands, he makes sure to reply to you.

[Ctuinfort]

Mmm i guess ur right at least i hope so haha. Thank u for your reply tho :)

[rienna888]

Thank you for mho <3

[Ctuinfort]

You're welcome

[Tedee18]

If someone was shy/nervous I think that they would reply slow because they are not sure of the message they want to send.

Maybe they will think of a message and then, think of another one or something. But, if it is a couple of hours, then maybe they are busy.

Would you want them to tell you that they are busy and can't talk now and then get back to you when they are free or would you want them NOT to tell you anything and get back to you as soon as they are free?

[Ctuinfort]

I told him i'd like it if he would tell me if he was busy or something and he did it in the beginning but he just stopped doing it after a while and idunno why

[Tedee18]

Oh, are you comfortable in telling him that you like him?

[Ctuinfort]

I've already told him that and he told me he likes me back but i feel like he's liking me less and less. Idunno it could also his style of loving someone

[Ctuinfort]

Be his style*

[Ctuinfort]

And he tells me thats not true but idunno it just feels like that

[Ctuinfort]

I'm just scared i'm getting played i guess

[Tedee18]

If you don't feel comfortable in this relationship, then, trust your gut.

[Ctuinfort]

I'll try, thanks for ur advice tho

[Girl22_]

It’s nm about the time but what the quality of the messages

[Ctuinfort]

True true

[Alivegirlll]

Most of the time I reply slow and it doesn't mean I like them or don't like them. It's just my way of texting.

[Ctuinfort]

Mmm okay okay

[Paris13]

It really Depends on the Situation... Could be Busy, Preoccupied, Shy, Things like this. It is when they don't Reply at All, You have to wonder... xx

[SphynxUK]

Kids live on social media, so not replying or being slow would mean disinterest for whatever reason.

[Ctuinfort]

Yeah i thought the same :(

[andy530]

Yeah unless it’s slow every time or too often without a clear reason why

[Cryptic-Game]

Possibly but too hard to tell. There could be real reasons why they waited like an emergency.

[Despina98]

depends if you’s just met could be breaking the ice.

[Ctuinfort]

No i actually talk with him for quite a while now...

[Despina98]

He could be shy then.

[Ctuinfort]

Mmm i guess but he's not a shy person tbh

[Angeloflove95]

He might not care, he'd answer fast if he liked it.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily! Some people reply slow because they self esteem issues.

[Opinion Owner]

*have

[Ctuinfort]

Mm okay i guess that makes sence. Thanks for your reply! :)

[Eric027]

Nah.. either they are busy or your chat is boring

[Twenty2]

What kind of logic is that?

[Anonymous]

Bear with him if you like him

[Ctuinfort]

If you say so...

[COMMODOREII]

They could be busy.

[Ctuinfort]

Yea i get that but if you like someone you could make time for them right?

[COMMODOREII]

I know i would. But then not everyone thinks like we do. And it sucks. Lol

[COMMODOREII]

It's also good manners to tell that person that you will busy from this time to this time and make the effort to actually talk to them at a time you agree to.

[Ctuinfort]

True true

[asshole_]

maybe