What things do you first notice in opposite sex person?

[Wild_princess]

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For me, it's the eyes... I believe that eyes tell everything and then smile... if a boy has beautiful eyes and smile... I just instantly get attracted to him...😍😍

[ohshee]

In a split second a lot if things happen first her eyes the moment they make contact I feel her energy with in like a big gust of wind would hit u on THE out side this happens within it flows warm all threw my body as my eyes touch and see every part of her the warmth in side of me and eye contact is telling me everything about her and then the smile and the moment she says hello its gone her erengy is back in her im trying to process everything that just happen, it's one of the most beautiful feelings but Depending on where it goes from there it only gets better

[Jjpayne]

Their body, then their face, personality and smile. It all depends on what I need or notice first. It can be very possible to hear her laughing and talking so personality first bit it could be possible to give her a drink for the first time and see her face and smile but it's also possible to see her from behind and admire her body first. So it's less on what first and more on what I notice first in that situation

[MissNellie]

In close proximity it would definitely be their eyes and their smile. I think that speaks a lot of a person without having literal words.

If at more of a distance, I notice how they "carry" themselves. I tend to observe a lot before engaging usually.
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[SaraSmithishere]

1. Normal body language. I met so many passive-aggressive, shifty, and creepy guys at my college that I make sure I avoid anyone who moves about in a similar manner
2. Posture
3. Height
4. Fitness level
5. Face

[bob_anon714]

Usually the first thing I'll notice is either her eyes or her smile or her smiling eyes. However, if I had it my way, I would prefer to check them butt cheeks 1st. I ain't gonna lie. I'm a huge ass-man. I'd like to think of myself as a practicing amateur proctologist 🧑‍⚕️

Call me what you will, but you'll never be able to say I wasn't honest. So drop a pen, pick up a purse, lean your palm against the wall and pop that ass cuz hopefully I might just be "behind" you checking it out, yayeah!

[Gemini75]

Depends on the vantage point I had, when spotting her. Not gonna lie, I'm an ass man myself! If we happened to be up close the first time we saw each other though, well then I'd just ask her to turn around quick, lolol..

Joking of course, I agree with ya there, the eyes are most certainly windows to the soul. Unfortunately, that works both ways, though. Cause (some) colors and patterns, are just SO friggin gorgeous... I have hard time looking back at em, without getting weak at the knees or feeling all self-conscious.

Hate that shit, feel like I should start kickin pebbles, with hands in my pocket... sayin awe, shucks or some shit. Lol, it's embarrassing... ugg.

[lilgal]

Thanks

[lilgal]

I like truth in a man

[SCRUMPSHUDILLIOCIOUS]

However, what I might notice first isn't usually what I'm drawn to. I can admire one's eyes or shape and still not want anything but distant admiration and keeping my distance. If I am drawn to their personality, that's something that makes me want to know more and take a
more detailed look.

[triff]

That's a lovely sentiment Me well I I used to have lovely eyes and a smile haha Intially I'm attracted to the way they laugh Followed quickly after with the way she communicates Is it by hands arms expressions Has she felt my eyes upon her Wil it make he look at me

[WhiteGlaze]

Oof I judge some body at first as a charcter thing but its easily averted with conversations. But say she's got that Nikki Minaj ass. She be a hoe or some diva for sure. she's all too primmed up and shit means the same thing. I care about eyes and face and personality the most. But there is such a thing as morbidly obese to me.

[FatherJack]

Used to be eyes , legs /curvy feminine hips , not a " boob guy " . Also , more importantly , used intuition if I did interact with her , to get her " vibe " , I have encountered some outwardly attractive women... but their personality , or lack thereof , killed it for me. No longer interested in anything other than arms length platonic friends.

[Akshayjosh]

What most people don't realize subconscioualy is that.
How well their affection binds together or how easy it is for them to match in choices.
Goes a great deal.


I was on a date first time with a girl , and let me tell you we were so taken back with the instant connection we struck.

She took me home with her under 3 hours.
😎 You don't get to have such instant connects always

[HaveNoName]

Anything could have propped out and attracted me at first but when I consciously start observing her, I look for her feminity and I do a quick evaluation by elimination. My benchmark on that is very rigid. Any 2-3 unfeminine tom-boyish traits, and I can move on at peace for not having to crush over another woman.

[hikerunbeer]

The firstl thing I notice or pay attention to is if they have a ring or not. After that definitely the eyes. Im a sucker for beautiful and thought-provoking eyes. I also pay attention to lips and eyebrows a lot.

[zeitgeist057]

Face, unless they are facing away from me, then butt.

Eyes are great, if you are close enough to see them. A girl with beautiful eyes makes my heart skip a beat.

[Anonymous]

Their weight. First test of acceptability. Sorry but true, and unlike things like "eyes" its something people have complete control over - even if they choose not to exercise any control...

[bamesjond0069]

Exactly

[scooogy]

Picture 1: He's addicted to his phone
Picture 2: He's a thirsty creature
Picture 3: She can't ride a bike
Picture 4: He is materialistic

[Wild_princess]

😁😁 I like your answer...

[MCheetah]

In general? Their height and appearance.

As far as attractiveness? Their voice and how they treat others.

[SphynxUK]

I’m not sure. I think it’s the eyeballs and the smile. If they’re ok, I check the hands lol

[RunawayGirl]

Hairstyle, always the first thing I notice about a guy.

[vijaydamor]

Thank you 😘

[RunawayGirl]

@vijaydamor You're welcome?

[SexyAshh]

How they communicate. I can see a guy and think he's okay, but if he's charming or has a confident aura im all about it

[raven6933]

That all depends on when I first see her. From the back butt then hair not always in that order. From the front smile, eyes, hair. No one wants to approach a grumpy person. But the reason for staying would have to be personality above all else.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Face and eyes and smile
then personality
then body

[bonniebaby19]

His eyes and face... and does he have a fat belly... I like flat tummies

[orbitusxii]

Their face and their body language. It paints a clear picture of their attitude and demeanor as a person. Not many other things stick out initially.

[cjbz1313]

Its weird but I notice the hair it says a lot about a person. It shows a lifestyle and the vibe they have.

[SemiGarovic]

What lifestyle do bald guys have?

[cjbz1313]

@SemiGarovic there is more to them so more shows with the way the present themselves with clothes and everything else

[Samoht_Sirrom1]

I call Bull because of the "boy" is old you won't give a shot about how nice their eyes or smile is.

[SunnySri]

Mam I personally notice the smile, because smile reveals a lot about the person.

[RingOfFire]

Hard to say. It's the whole package. I am rarely stunned by a girl, but when it happens, it's no one specific thing.

[Gedaria]

Yes I'm with you. Specially in these times of masks you can only see the eyes.
I generally go if she is smiling which brightens the eyes...

[Nephilim000]

I try to take it all in. Different things stand out on different people

[DavidFox]

Her smile and her beautiful face. If that melts my heart then I’m drawn to her and have to risk it.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Body, face, butt, smile, in that order. It doesn't take long (probably under a second if she's within 5 feet).

[COMMODOREII]

I agree with you. Its the eyes for me. I love looking into them and getting swept away. So very sensual. Lol

[lilgal]

Eyes then shoes if its a suit meeting. If its casual then eyes personal appearance cleanliness. Hair

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Yeah you're kinda right. But it's also the whole faceplate. Without this piece, the assembly never would have functioned.

[Douglas76]

If a girls hair is nicely fixed up she will attract attention. Its a very noticeable part of the body. Then her eyes including eyebrows.

[allaboutyou2]

I notice 2 things,
the way that they carry themselves (attitude, body language)
and what carries them (legs)

[ItalianGuy90]

Eyes and lips for sure. I love when girls move lips unconsciously during a date or convo cause it helps me to understand what's their impression about me.

[SenseiSeptred]

Their ethnicity and their accent, and what outfit they are wearing.

[gemgem]

Hmm, depends which side I'm facing.
Front side: her face
Back side: that ass

[jasco]

The rack, the stomach, the ass and then everything else haha and her smile sometimes

[thewiggles]

Honestly I feel like I can see nipples, that tells me everything

[whybnormal]

Her motion, then eyes, mouth and hair. If she still captures my attention I want to hear her voice.

[vlx-na]

Face, then tits, then everything else. What can I say, I'm boob guy.

[yabbadabbadoo]

Eyes. Voice also has been a big one. Not gonna lie butts are up there too!

[clampfan101]

Her eyes, smile, and hair.
How my eyes and smile? ^_^;

[Synikal]

Honestly... their skin. It can tell if they take care of themselves. Minus underlying health issues. Thorn face, teeth, figure.

[kawaiipeach_3]

smile i guess :3 like u said, if a boy has a cute smile... i would definitely get attracted to him (◕‿◕)

[Anonymous]

First thing my eyes go, her hands and nails. I gravitate to nice hands and nails, and short bitten, etc I won't even go further and be interested.

[coolguy919]

First thing is almost always hair, then eyes or lips, then body.

[Jack9949]

Face is the only thing I really look at. I’m not trynna make any chics uncomfortable. Lmao

[Adil_G]

I have a nice smile that led me to much trouble with girls...

[Dave31989]

Hair. Color and style, especially if it's my preferred color and style

[Kennyhhh]

For me I noticed there behavior and the way they present themselves and last thing what's there true nature

[Smegskull]

If I remember correctly our subconscious first sees gender then tribe then age.

[nika756]

Their smile
How they treat others/their reactions to certain situations

[Yads_Is_Back]

His face in general, eyes, hair, and smile

[thedesperado12]

whatever extraordinary they have? it could be Hairs, Eyes, Face or any other body part

[BuckNailher]

a lot. Movement, mannerisms and looks. Too many to name.

[anewme]

How do I tell she serious or just fling flirting or serious long term keeper to care for me back

[Nilanjan]

Nothing what to expect more than a Body with different Holes

[ROB15656]

Face of course. Then depending on the time of year I have to make sure the feet are correct...

[Anonymous]

first thing I check is to see if she has a boner or not

[Msgaïj]

Hair. It's often a reflect of the personality