What is the first thing you notice about the opposite sex?

[coolbreeze]

[SueShe]

Let me copy/paste the reply I gave on a very similar question a few minutes ago.

Here it comes:

I am specifically looking at the eyes and the hands.

Those are the 2 body parts which tell the most about a person.

The eyes are the mirror of the soul and tell quite a lot about the personality of the guy. The fingers are a reflection of his/her character. If he bites the nails, it shows an unstable character.

It does not take more than one single minute to be able to assess a person based on those 2 features.

The question is to be found here

What is the first thing a girl notices when talking to a guy?

[ImagineSketchy]

What if the nails are uneven and/or long? Also how often can you truly see into eyes as dark as a night sky with no moon?

[SueShe]

@ImagineSketchy I would never meet you face to face in a non public place and where I cannot see your eyes. I would just avoid contact.

[ImagineSketchy]

I don't mean that... I mean someone that is face to face with you, but their eyes are simply that dark.

[SueShe]

@ImagineSketchy If the eyes don't inspire me confidence, then I will definitely withdraw. Furthermore, you can still observe the eyes of a person when you talk with him/her and the way they react to emotions are also an indicator.

[5points2gspot]

Define unstable.
Cuz I bite my nails out of habit.. Things are learned as a child cuz we mimic things our parents did.

[SueShe]

@5points2gspot That is exactly what I mean to say.

You are biting your nails because of insecurity and perhaps nervousness. You copied what your parents have been doing but you have failed to surmount this habit and it has become a habit.

You can transpose this habit with a number of other life situations that you just follow because others are doing/following them rather than to go your own path and break free from those habits.

[SueShe]

sorry I meant *it has become the norm* and not "it has become the habit".

[5points2gspot]

I don't even realize I'm biting them most of the time. It's more due to anxiety I believe. When I get my nails done I don't even bite them. When they grow out I don't bite them either...

[SueShe]

@5points2gspot You can try to put this very bitter liquid on your nails on top of your painted fingernails that will make you stop biting them.

As soon as saliva touches the nails, the chemical combination of saliva and chemical will give out this utmost disgusting bitter taste that you stop immediately.

This component is safe for your health.

[5points2gspot]

Thank you... It's on my to do list of things to quit. I will try that.
Now can you tell me what my soul says about me by looking into my eyes?

[SueShe]

@5points2gspot haha, it is not possible to check the soul of a person based on a picture because most pictures are staged. I see that you slightly pucker your lips on your profile picture and that, to me, indicates that the picture is not true to your character.

Also, and to be honest, that picture is not the one of a lady that is 34 years of age. But from what I can judge from this (not so clear) picture is that the eyes give a decisive look.

I hope I did not offend you :-)

[5points2gspot]

Lol thank you! You definitely made my day! I always get told I look like I'm 23 or in my 20s. Which is great!! & ima b 35 on Friday!! 😍
But my lips are puckered lol that's just the way they are. I have a hard time smiling for any picture. I could've possibly been biting the inside of my cheek. That picture is like a month old.

[5points2gspot]

Arent*

[5points2gspot]

@SueShe I changed the picture. Now u can see a little more clearer I think. My nails also in that Pic 🤭

[SueShe]

@5points2gspot I see that your nails are also painted dark which also tells me that you have a little of a rebel tendency in yourself.

The picture is not really better because you look away. However, let me tell you that you have a nice profile with nice lips and nose.

I personally would change the glass frames to something more soft as it gives you a stern appearance and the square frames do not highlight your face the way they should. I would go for something more on a slightly oval shape.

[5points2gspot]

I'm broke at the moment.. I usually wear contacts. & black nails are my favorite lol. My closet is filled with nothing but black & white clothes. I don't tend to wear color unless specified for work.
Do you read auras too?

[SueShe]

@5points2gspot No, I cannot do that and I don't even know if it is really working online or if you need to see the person face to face for that.

[5points2gspot]

@SueShe how do you know all this stuff. Like what means what? I'm now fascinated & wanna know more.

[SueShe]

@5points2gspot It is because I observe people and it has helped me a lot to keep out of trouble with some of them. Their body language, way of behaving, intonation of the voice and general appearance is just as revealing as reading a bio.

[5points2gspot]

@SueShe but how were you able to know dark nail polish color n what it represents? I'm going to Google now. Lol. This has sparked my interest a lot.

[SueShe]

@5points2gspot This conversation with you helps me define you. I am not saying or pretending that I am infallible or know everything, of course not but it gives me an indication.

Only an in depth face to face conversation would allow me to give a fairly good judgment about a person and certainly not 2 pictures and 3 lines of text. That is not realistic.

[5points2gspot]

I agree.

[SueShe]

@5points2gspot But from our little chat, I can say that I have the feeling that you are a good soul. You are expressing yourself normally, no foul language, no use of acronyms and no spelling mistakes. That too counts in assessing a person and not just the eye color :-)

[5points2gspot]

@SueShe those are a lot of the thing I notice as well when speaking to someone.. I try to give what I want back. It's part of who I was growing up. Thank you for this conversation & your kind words.

[SueShe]

@5points2gspot You are welcome and take good care of yourself :-)

[Grande_Beefy_Swirl]

First thing I notice about anyone is their height so I know exactly what range to make fake eye-contact with.

If You're asking for the first trait that gets my attention, attraction-wise, it's ABSOLUTELY the voice. I love loud, over the top people. 💜

[EmbraceThePain]

This is a little difficult to answer because when I see a woman I see her entire body all at once so there’s not a specific thing I’m zeroed in on unless it’s something that stands out like if she was very short, very tall, has large breasts, neon yellow hair color, etc.

[Evil_Laughter]

Face/ hair, depending on which way they're facing. Specifically facial expression and position of the head, and then the rest of the body, as that will show their mood generally. Also I draw humans and tend to notice their positions for that reason as well, I guess.

[UncleHerb]

Well it quite literally depends on which way she is facing and how close she is when I see her. If she is facing away and is at a fair distance from me I am going to notice her overall height and figure. I prefer a lady be close to my height or a bit shorter. I am not real tall only 5'7" same as my father. I take after his side of the family. At a closer distance I'll notice hips and butt. I've always been attracted to nice hips. It's a breeding response of course. Will she make a good mom? Her hips if they are well formed will tell if she would be good at birthing babies.

Now if she is facing me. Nope it's not the boobs. If she is far away I see figure again yes but if she is close enough to see her face I look there. Is she pretty. Does she have a nice smile. I like a pretty face and a smile that will light up a room. Heavy or slender, short or tall. It doesn't really matter if her face can win me over.

[Ruskie]

To be honest, their attitude. A lot of times if they seem more friendly they seem more attractive, but if they seem bitch (resting bitch face) they seem less attractive. Doesn't mean that they really are tho. I'm guilty of looking grumpy all the time myself.

[teen1988]

If they have a big set or a small set of tits and then if those are real and natural or fake and then what colour there hair is any colour other then blonde and I am fine just not that colour I do not like any girls that have the colour blonde for there hair. XX

[LalaMeme]

EYES! I find them fascinating.

Then his general appearance.

Then his personality.

If they fit the bill, then I’m a happy gal.

But if he has good looks and a mean personality, it’s a big no no!

[robertKugler]

generaly what stands out the most.. no pun... like thier hair.. eye makeup... boots they can't quite walk properly in.. if your butt is big, it stands out... i guilty of not noticing what i should have... but hey too many distractions r too many... lol

[Anonymous]

How they could be such GOOD manipulative liars that make you believe they’re in love with you just to get into your pants.

[thenewgirlll]

I really wanna know why boys liked this answer Lmaoo

[HoratioCaine]

@thenewgirlll ditto

[Kaazsz]

I think people are just self serving liars. Men will lie to get pussy. Women also lie but I don’t know why.

Especially lately. In the past nobody needed to lie to me, I was just this weird shy loser. Lately though I’ve become the cool guy and boy oh boy everyone lies their asses off to me. I see right through the BS though. But it’s not a guy thing. We may use it for sex but girls lie too. I had girls tell me so many lies recently I’m shocked! We’re all human I suppose.

[Opinion Owner]

@thenewgirlll because they know that’s what they do. And they know they’re really good at it too.

[thenewgirlll]

I thought u were joking. U seem serious lmao

[Opinion Owner]

@thenewgirlll no cus this just happened to me recently by this total fuckboy and I’m pissed I allowed it lmao. Girls need to stop thinking with their emotions.

[thenewgirlll]

I agree

[UmeshBH]

First thing I notice about the opposite sex is face of the person. Face is the index of a person as the skin texture, eyes, nose/ear piercings, the colour and amount of lipstick, hair all these would give me rough idea about the person, her ethnicity, way of living, status and her age. May be that's why face is often called as an index of mind, but i would rather call it as an index of mind, soul and body.

[suncookie]

Definitely height... next I'd check out the hair... also the eyes and how intense his stare is and whether he can make direct eye contact for a while or not...

[chantrllr]

Physical appearance is always going to be the first thing anyone notices when they see someone. Dumb question. Next.

[JacobRoto]

Overall body shape. This is assuming we're talking about as they walk up. Individual parts do get focused on, but first what strikes me is how all the parts for together and what they say about her.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

Physically their smile but otherwise the way they treat and talk to other people.

[Trevorgr1]

Honestly, when I see a girl, the first thing I look for is if she has Makeup on or not. Girls with Makeup on turn me on. They look so beautiful with it applied! 😍

[cuzodusto]

Sex appeal or body type. Some women just exude sexuality. Make you feel desire without ever speaking a word to you. I personally cannot resist a curvy woman.

[Keyboardkat]

I notice everything. But I'll tell you, if she has a really sexy laugh, it can erase anything negative about her!

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

It varies from girl to girl. Generally speaking, my eyes will gravitate towards her best 'asset'. Some girls have amazing butts with stretchy yoga pants, some have a heart-melting smile, etc.

[Babygirl2020]

Eyes
Hair
Smile
Voice
Then personality

I like a Dominate man so voice is important to me n I like Dark hair n brown eyes

[MannySimms]

Easy one...

[Cyrus03]

Clothing fashion, face, boobs, hair, eyes, voice, and ass, in that order.

[Veronica__Sterling]

Their hair and then their eyes, later their smile.
For some reason I like guy who have nice well kept hair.
And I prefer clean shaved.

[MissDawn7961]

his facial features for I am attracted to my opposite in looks ! thanks

[BobbyC65]

Them Titty's

Love them Titty's nipple's. :)

[Carbon-12]

I would say it is different for each person. Somtimes it's their voice, somtimes their smile, sometimes their forarms... Whatever stands out about them.

[SexyAshh]

Outfit/ sense of style actually

Then face/hair/teeth basically overall appearance

[cheapshotbob]

hair, eyes, neck shoulders and smiles. those things are really cute and attractive to me.

[hammo21]

For 99.9% of guys it would go head, body, boobs, boobs, boobs, boobs, look away cause she noticed

[MayorGoldieWilson]

Mouth and then eyes..

I’ve got a thing about a nice mouth (lips and teeth)

[420cat]

I notice the eyes first and then I check out the butt. The eyes are the mirror of the person's soul.

[Lord_Jeb]

I would have to say the way they carry themselves actually. Because you can feel the energy that radiates from them

[AlphaBot]

"The look" if I get it, then I start weighing in her attributes. Especially important is egress. Are we both equipped with garments that would allow for sex while remaining fully clothed?

[Anonymous]

Walking towards me... face.
Walking from one side of me to the other... face then breasts.
Walking away from me... butt, then legs.

[tslater]

I notice about 3 things at once, her face, mood, and figure.

[Lmmm326]

Eyes, you can tell a lot about a person from their eyes, well, I can.

[Sum-experience]

Without a doubt the butt. I have Always been a butt guy.

[CressDarnel]

Face and if I spend more time with them their personality:humour, kindness (?)...

[Safa01]

Eyes and the way they look at me, the vibe they are sending

[BT_Test]

Hair,
Whether she wears glasses
Eyes
Height
Face shape
Behaviour

[kindhearted66]

There character and personality there spiritually and motivation family oriented and values and respect for the beliefs of others.

[gaurwaith]

their appearance is, literally, the first thing anyone notices about the opposite sex. unless you met via email, letters or some such.

[lofii]

Easy

[codycccccccccc]

Left ring finger I ring wouldn't stop me but I like to know what I'm getting into

[anube]

The way they move, they will stand out in a way that is evidence of a god

[ask4any]

Depends on what side is facing me. If I see the front first, then it's her smile, eyes and hair. If the back is facing me. It's definitely her ass!!

[kayla_ftp]

their smile and demeanor. overall appearance and posture is more attractive to me than a cute face or a toned body.

[Mehzmeh]

This is gonna sound weird, but the jaw line. Lol. It's something about a females jaw line that sticks out and makes me attracted to them.

[S_Rose]

Interesting! ☺️

[Mehzmeh]

I don't know why. But, it's the very first thing I, notice. Don't know why. Lol

[morrowlow]

Their makeup. I try to unferstand what kind of girl i'm dealing with. Is she high maintenace? Is she down to earth?

[Den61]

I am also looking at the hands it gives there age away second thing i look at are there eyes and teeth and the third and final thing is there ass. If they dont have a nice ass i am moving on

[Randinz]

Dat ass... really it depends how I see her... if I see her from the back side her ass haha or hair. If I see her from the front her smile or boobs if she's wearing a tight shirt...

[ToTheMoon]

If she's fat or not, then very generally what she wears (even though I don't care much), then if she's pretty in the face and then her butt and boobs. :)

[Julio20Ab]

Feet ( If her feet is good take care she is clean )

[Liam_Hayden]

Eyes and smile. Eyes to see if they are vacant or aware. Smile to see if it is inviting or lacking.

[Tomsta]

Honestly?

Boobs then face

Then general figure then attitude

[CuriousMufuxka]

Booty. Welcome back bud! A Guru I have become again..

[OddBeMe]

We all look faces first, scientifically. Unless from behind, then it’s the behind...

[Xyline789]

Her body first; she can't be fat. And then her face, eyes, and teeth.

[SpecialKDaWigga]

Face then ass,

Or if I’m walking behind her and I never seen her before... il notice ass first then face

Then rest of body up and down

[Mezius]

Face, body, height, any piercings or tattoos, and personality is also important.

[luvnumetal]

Attitude. Looks and money aren't important. Positive attitude and open heart is what I'm after

[Carlos72512]

It all depends on the situation the entire body if needed

[mbell65]

The first thing I notice about the opposite sex is how well she communicates with me.

[robocop666]

Like all men boobs, figure and butt. Nothing else. I speak for all men when I say this.