What is the first thing that draws your attention to the opposite sex?

[red-lipstick-girl]

I like veiny hands🙈

[Babygirl_S]

The first thing I notice and care about is his height and physique. If he’s at least 6ft tall and strong (but not so muscular or veiny like your pics) he is automatically my type. Then I look for a handsome face and if he has lighter features, a lean and longer face then that’s all I want.

I guess I like Indian guys like this and they’re definitely my type considering most men I’ve dated looked similar.

I love that these guys actually marry Indian girls so they seem more interesting than the hot white guys who think Indian girls are inferior. These guys aren’t “average at best” so no racist can convince me otherwise.

[KostasKouvalis]

So you would be okay marrying a light-skinned Indian guy if you couldn't get a White guy?

[Babygirl_S]

@KostasKouvalis I think it’s disrespectful to say “couldn’t get”. I am attracted to hot guys not race. Hot Indian guys like me enough for marriage and hot white guys (not just white) tend to have some other kind of fetishes like East Asian fetish or a fascination for blondes. I can’t find someone attractive just because he looks a certain way. It is so attractive when a man also likes you as much as you like him. Even Indian actresses who have money and fame can’t be with that type of guys while extremely below average East Asian girls can.
This fetish looks like a disease and I can’t accept it because I don’t find those women superior to me or prettier than me. Almost all of them have this pathological bias towards them which hot Indian men don’t.
https://pin.it/1Hzbakkir

[Babygirl_S]

@KostasKouvalis some even force their bias on everyone and proclaim that ALL men like East Asians the most. If that is true, why are popular Indian celebrities Indian or Caucasian looking? They should know that many girls from Sikkim and North Eastern states in India look like East Asians and they’re not considered as “superior women” over here. Many of them face discrimination. I used to think they like them because of skin but that isn’t true because these guys also like East Asians that are darker than many Indian girls or the same shade. Some even say they love their eyes. That’s wild

[KostasKouvalis]

I didn't mean it like that.
Why not?
You're talking about East/SE Asian women?

That guy looks mixed to me

[KostasKouvalis]

There's so many questions on here regarding the subject. I just answered one.
Preference I guess, but I don't like their eyes either. Some people like both kinds, which is strange to me. I personally don't find Oriental eyes attractive at all, but to each their own.

[KostasKouvalis]

I don't understand the obsession with white men and Asian women? ↗

There's some interesting questions on this page

www.girlsaskguys.com/search

[Babygirl_S]

He is not mixed. He is Indian

[Babygirl_S]

The guy with the East Asian girl is white

[KostasKouvalis]

Oh okay

[nik0102]

@babygirl_s would you find 5.7 too short then?

[Babygirl_S]

Yes, anyone less than 6ft tall can be my friend

[nik0102]

Ouch, what is your height?

[Babygirl_S]

Why do you care?

[nik0102]

"Anyone under 6 ft can be my friend" sounds backwards and objectifying to men. A mean and bitter stereotype

[Babygirl_S]

Like I said, I never had a problem attracting my type so I don’t care and I’ve blocked many angry short boys before. Do I ask you why do you like flat girls without eyebrows (basic white)?

[nik0102]

Calling you immature and shallow doesn't make me angry

[Babygirl_S]

You’re one of those short guys who shame women for their preferences but get angry if your own preferences are questioned. I like to be submissive and I can’t be submissive to someone who doesn’t look masculine (tallness is a masculine trait). I’m sure you can find women who aren’t submissive.

[nik0102]

My only preference is they have a cool vibe, open mind and not spread backwards body shaming beliefs

[elizamichale1]

Well the first thing in my mind would be... how big his cock would be... would it be cut or uncut... how would the balls be... would he hav junky bush or what...

I often try to imagine that when i look at guys n try to play it in my head that this guy would have so n so... n that one would hav it so n so... lol

[Bricealan]

@elizamichale1 I'm always glad to see your 'up front' replies, and honesty, and truth be told, I too often wonder what a girls pussy might look like, and how much pubic hair she might have, as I love a full bush, simply BECAUSE there are so many differences in sex organs, pubic hair, etc, etc.

[elizamichale1]

@Bricealan hehe.. well thts how one should be

[Med_guy1978]

@elizamichale... Always honest and direct 😄 probably one of the things most girls think.
@Bricealan... Nah, clean shaven... But that's why different girls appeal to different guys and vice versa. That's why there's someone out there for everyone, it's just a matter of finding the right match ☺️

[elizamichale1]

@Med_guy1978 u said it perfectly honey... n this is what i always say that there's always someone for each one of us we just got to find them

[Med_guy1978]

👍🏻🎯💯☺️

[elizamichale1]

@Med_guy1978 😊😊

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho honey

[Nobodycares]

I dunno. It's an overwhelming sensation when I'm attracted to a woman. I can't name the particular "thing". It's like asking "what's the first thing you notice at the side of the road when you driving along the highway at 100 miles an hour"

Also, wtf are those pictures?

[Anonymous]

Out of curiosity, are you also a fan of a really veiny dick?

[red-lipstick-girl]

Yes, I like it.

[Opinion Owner]

Cool. That's what I've always figured about girls who like the aesthetic of prominent veins on the hands and forearms. It kinda evokes the thought of a hard veiny dick! lol!

[AviatorTom]

Usually her eyes are first, second is her figure.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

His profile/jawline/lean build.

[Makeushiver]

Usually random I nation of what Incanninfernfr II m their attitude by the way they walk. Some women are racism in got sexy, sometimes not really beautiful but seem to carry a sexual aura around with them. Its a confidence thing but manifested in the way their body moves. Also field who wear red lipstick always turn me on

[TheorionMage]

Generally their conduct and cosmetized physical appearance... especially the eyes!
"Form follows function." -Frank Lloyd Wright

[7Phoenix7]

His physique and his face...

Then his hair... his voice and his vibe

[ManOnFire]

You're not the first girl I've heard mention the veiny hands thing, it's interesting.

Believe it or not, as much as I love boobs, it's actually not always boobs. Many times if she has thick eyebrows I will focus in on her hard.

[Zack-Bann]

Her voice and her intonations


Basically some women speak in a very soothing and charming voice and others will blow my ear drums


Obviously there’s a lot more to liking someone but that’s something I notice immediately

[RageBabe]

I'm captivated by his eyes and demeanour, a strong sense of humour. I greatly value a good sense of humour since I have a lot of blue days.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

What I don't see everyday. Like, diversified vocabulary, register shifts, elaborated turns of phrase. These things can make me very attentive, much more than usual lol 👀

[FreyaRed]

Eyes. If I look deep enough in someone eyes I can feel the emotional child inside the person mind feels about me.

[Account]

That is amongst the things that I notice too. Veiny hands or neck. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[NathanDavis]

usually, hair and eyes...

and many times, their accent, when I hear it

[7Phoenix7]

youtube.com/shorts/SbPyQ4DTxYU?si=TgvR9J_Q6Mj-tOpi

[NathanDavis]

@7Phoenix7 imagine...

[7Phoenix7]

Lol 🔥

[PeachyPie93]

Face usually draws me in then their personality. Sometimes I notice their eyes or their smile first. Other times their clothes or shoes draw me first lol. But a pretty face always catches my eye lol.

[LukeAurelin]

Smile, voice and the tone she uses it. Doesn’t matter how she looks if she behaves nice i would keep on talking to them.

[Lliam]

Overall looks - face, eyes, lips, hair, skin, height, figure.

[Billlewis]

First and foremost, her feet and butt. Secondly, if she has a boyfriend or male lover with whom she has intercourse with fairly regularly, and finally, if she's open to being spoiled a little bit once in a while.

[Med_guy1978]

From a distance... Legs catch my radar.. up close lips, eyes, hair... It gets deeper then that but this is for instant attraction. But bad attitude and all that goes out of the window.

[Ms_Facesitter]

If we are just looking at physique it's his smile and his arms. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Kayleigh2005]

The affect when a man walks in and other guys react (not sexually), hands for sure

[Bricealan]

I have veiny hands and absolutely HATE THEM. I think I have them because I am 'thin all over

[Bricealan]

@red-lipstick-girl First 'draw' for me is her face, then her shape

[Open-minded99]

Bootyre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[CVNT5]

her beautiful face, her behavior, then how she treats others and myself. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[glennos89]

Pretty face and nice female body shapes. Not skinny and also not fat

[Jay-_-]

Veiny, well I'm cooked. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[9in_Serpent]

Boobs if she is facing me then her face then try to see her ass or her ass if she facing away and then try to see her face then boobs

[jamesgoldman]

Good jewelleryre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[KostasKouvalis]

Her feet, if I can see them. If not, her hands.

[Kayleigh2005]

Omg feet 🦶 people

[KostasKouvalis]

@Kayleigh2005 I can't tell if you're excited or creeped out

[Kayleigh2005]

No it’s just if I’ve been drinking I want to fck, details like that seem more intimate to me, does that sound crazy 🤪

[KostasKouvalis]

@Kayleigh2005 I see. Alcohol will do that😂
Intimate in what way?

[Raaj4you]

Non sexual: Her beauty, voice, femininity, outfits, etc.

Sexual: Her big boobs, her big ass, mostly curves, etc.

[Anonymous]

i don't like guys anymore
pussy or not
all their personalities make me sick and they don't deserve to F it

[9in_Serpent]

What country are you from?

[Med_guy1978]

Plenty of nice guys out there.

[LiamJHayden]

Smile. If she's got RBF I just keep on walking.

[morganherrel]

slim = feminine

fat = not even a woman

[Sonora81]

It depends on what I see first. Trying to be different than a lot of answers, such as eyes, smile, boobs, butt, etc., and related to your answer, I like girls with long, slender, fingers.

[loveslongnails]

Her overall appearance. Second is what she says when she opens her mouth.

[asarjam]

Facial features, height/weight proportionate are equal in importance

[DryGermanGuy]

That's different in every situation. Could be long hair, pretty smile, big boobs...

[dragoblack]

How well she takes care of herself, her face, and her fashion sense

[HungTexan]

I notice a woman’s eyes and smile first, even before surveying her body.

[Amur8711]

Her overall figure re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[IslaTheWitch]

his smile/laughter :D

[Anonymous]

Here are the things that draws my attention to a girl:

- Face, eyes, hair

- Fit body, toned legs

- Dominant personality

[Smegskull]

Not much really. I don't see any point, for people who don't want kids, in interacting with them.

[SunnyRS]

If going by physical features then bright eyes and if going by overall features then that would be her confidence re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Rohaan2020]

Eyes, Voice, figure, personality, smile... everyone has different things that draws my attention

[Anonymous]

How she treats other people. Like people she has nothing to gain from.

[Changebox00]

Trying say it with a straight face. As long as she’s human, looks don’t matter

[ronandamberspencer]

Looks, attitude, the company they keep, their words, and their beliefs.

[Anonymous]

Her womanly scent for me... mmmmre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[msc545]

Beautiful hair, a beautiful smile and beautiful eyes. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[coxoabean]

I love veiny hands as well!

[_piotr]

Bleeh... disgusting!!

[coxoabean]

@_piotr no not disgusting

[_piotr]

For you maybe not. But I can't even look at the photos placed here. It's so repulsive/revolting to my eyesight.

[coxoabean]

@_piotr oh interesting.

[Subtle_Luminescence]

Face, then her dressing sense.

[Kayleigh2005]

Right, know how to dress or don’t be lazy

[Subtle_Luminescence]

@Kayleigh2005 yes. Hygiene, fitting and modesty. Everything matters.

[CubaPirate]

Eye face and smile. Oh I almost forgot titties lol

[Kelly6]

@red-lipstick-girl his smile

[EmmaMary]

His personality.

[MoonFace2]

Hair and facial hair.

[ProbablyClueless]

Full, plump, kissable lips.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I like lips.

[Predetor]

I have it on my hands and arms

[Predetor]

Where are you from? I know Turkey well.

[red-lipstick-girl]

Why do you want to learn?

[Predetor]

I just wanted to know

[HaveNoName]

100000% femininity.

[HaveNoName]

I actually view it from the other angle. If I find any hint of masculine traits, whether bodily or behavioral, i get completely put off.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Face, hair, body, hands/feet.

[Alisonqueen]

Six packs