I don't understand the obsession with white men and Asian women?

[Anonymous]

I just don't understand the fascination and why Asian women are shoved in their faces that their " incredibly beautiful" but other races are spread around media that white women are "basic and high maintenance" black women are " ratchet and bad attitudes" and I don't know about Spanish. But why are they always put into good light? I've known a lot of Asians that have really horrible attitudes and use men for money. They move from their country to marry rich men. But it's shoved in our faces that they are " perfect women" it seems. I also don't really find them so " incredibly beautiful" more than anyone else. I don't understand the hype.

[KostasKouvalis]

It wasn't always that way. It was French for a while, than Eastern European, than Latina.

Yeah, I've seen some pretty severe cases. But often it's ugly/desperate White men who date those women.

I was having a conversation with a Cambodian girl on an erotica site, she basically said that SE Asians have an inferiority complex. She said they don't have anything to be proud of an are only good for sex. I saw a video where a White guy picked up two married Filipina nurses and took them back to his messy hotel room. Neither of them had any self respect. Then the US had to pass laws because Chinese women were paying White men money and giving them sex to marry them then divorce them just so they could get a green card. These men didn't care, because they were getting sex in return. Asian women are probably the easiest to have sex with. They've always had a culture of sex and prostitution. During the Gold Rush the US government banned Chinese women because they were engaging in prostitution. It's men too. In Africa, they impregnate African women, then go back to China. They're just sex crazed. Prostitution and sex tourism have always been apart of their culture. I guess some men either don't believe the scam thing or just don't care. I recently read a story about a White YouTuber who got scammed by a Filipina, but it wasn't enough. He still needed to get his Filipina kick so he converted to Islam and married a Filipina, and now he got kidnapped.

And the truth is, that Asians also fetishize White men. A lot of guys say they like them because they're feminine and submissive, this may be true of some guys, but most guys get with them just for the easy sex and also because they're an easy score. Those girls will date/fuck anything that's White and has a dick. They have a race fetish and I guess White men love it because it feeds their ego, and a lot of men these days are getting married just for the hell of it and like you said it's also trendy. But look at the kind of men who date marry Asian women. I still can't believe that one of my buddies left a Belgian girl for a Filipina.

They date White men that no other girl wants

[Babygirl_S]

lol you’re mistaken! Even hot white guys love them which is why I’m done ✔️

[KostasKouvalis]

@Babygirl_S My friend that left the Belgian girl for a Filipina was good looking, so I won't debate you on that. I posted that because it better validated my point, and while I'm right, what you say isn't untrue either.
Actually I don't know who left who but regardless a Belgian girl to a Filipina, what a downgrade. The funny part is that so many Asians are racist towards White people.
My cousin is White and dated two Koreans. The first dumped him because she didn't get a ring on her finger (she literally just wanted the ring), and the second dumped him because he wouldn't sponsor her and pay for her college even though he was poor himself. And he got in so much debt because of her. And there are so many stories online and others I can tell you. I knew one who wanted $100 from a guy to cook him a "traditional meal". Those girls are trouble and gold diggers.

So you wouldn't date a White man anymore even if he showed interest in you?

[KostasKouvalis]

But yeah, I see it's mostly men who like them, because a lot of White girls I've met don't like them. My mom never liked them, but my dad like them😂
Yeah, no thanks 😂

[Babygirl_S]

Yes because they’re overrated! They expect Indian women to have blonde hair and blue eyes while they can date hot guys with even their real eyes and hair. Many even have the same or darker skin than Indians. I have also realised these women are EXTREMELY racist and jealous, especially of women who have more Caucasian features. They get special treatment but even that isn’t enough for them. I know how racist they are to other Indians but when they see Indian girls who have lighter skin or eyes they get so jealous. I’ve come across some salesgirls and air hostesses who seemed extremely hostile unlike the Indian girls in those professions. Even on the internet they dare to comment negatively on my posts. They’re not as nice as they’re said to be

[Babygirl_S]

It rubs me the wrong way when the men expect Indian women to be blondes and yet these women can be natural. They can even have tanned skin but Indian women have to stay pale or the ones who are naturally dark skinned aren’t liked.

[KostasKouvalis]

@Babygirl_S They really are. That's stupid. Why would an Indian woman have blonde hair?

Yeah, I don't know where this whole notion came from that they're calm and polite. They're not. If you dig up some of the old posts on here from Asians, you'll see. They love to shit on other but don't you dare touch THEM!
I see more and more people though are starting to open their eyes to how they really are.

[BonzoInBitburg]

I've dating women born all over the world including many Asian countries. I would only date Vietnamese and Filipino women because of how they treat men which is very different than Chinese and Korean. Thai and Indonesian women are ok but the cultural differences are too great for me. African women treat men well too but there's also too much of a cultural difference. I eventually married a Filipina because she's super kind and supportive and that makes my life easier which is very common for Filipinas. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Babygirl_S]

I will NEVER find East Asian faces beautiful and that’s how it will always be. One of the biggest reasons I am no longer so attracted to white men is because, unlike Indian men who don’t have this sick fetish, they seem to idolise them a little too much. I realised this only when I started interacting with people on the internet because in my country, one of the most important things for a beautiful feminine face that most guys want is the lack of slanty or monolid eyes. Basically they love Caucasian eyes and that’s why I’m not going to leave my country because at least some monolid biatch can’t steal my hot Indian man

[KostasKouvalis]

I'm very sad to hear that :(
I'm probably one of the only White guys who prefers South Asian girls. I don't like their eyes either.

[Babygirl_S]

I hope you find your girl! I’ll admire them from afar but getting into a relationship with one seems risky. He might leave me for even an East Asian!

[KostasKouvalis]

Thanks, you too.
Damn, you think he would do that? Certainly never good to feel like someone's second choice. The ony way I could see that happening though is if there were no East Asian girls where he lives, then he found one later.

I kind of feel the same about Indian girls now to be honest. That it's best to just admire them from afar. My reasons are probably different than yours. I kind of like someone right now, though there are other factors too. Beautiful Indian girls still turn me on though. Our cultures are so different and I feel our families wouldn't accept each other, especially her's. I might have some fun, but nothing serious. Definitely different than a few years ago.

[Babygirl_S]

You want to only have casual sex and then you say they’re not going to be good enough 👏🏻
I don’t think it’s possible to attract a high quality Indian woman if you don’t want anything serious. Unfortunately, too many white guys think like you which is why I’m so done

[KostasKouvalis]

I never said "casual sex". "Fun" can mean a lot of things.
I know.

[KostasKouvalis]

There are Indian girls who are into that though.

[Anonymous]

As a white guy I always personally found Asian women attractive but didn't see many in real life so they just seemed kind of "exotic" lol. I know there are Asian women who are vapid and use white guys for money or greencards, but it's not always like that. My girlfriend is Asian-american. She's thin, pretty, cooks and cleans, enjoys making love regularly. To be honest a lot of white American women just aren't like that from my experience. So sure you might not like the look of east or southeast Asian faces, but I think their features are cute and I'm happy with the girlfriend I have.

[Iron_Man]

I’m not interested we have absolutely nothing in common and I believe that they’re cold most of them and I’ve seen them in person many walk by with a Blank strict stare on their face they don’t acknowledge you or smile and they stay with their own people. Some have been nice and friendly, but not very many. And most are nothing like Bruce Lee with his character

[KostasKouvalis]

I think Asians in ASIA are more like you what describe. Asians in America tend to be different, but I'm not negating what you say as these kinds of Asians exist in the US too. Asians in Asia certainly lack expression. But the thing you said about them staying with their own people is very true even of Asian-Americans. I had Asian-Americans who were friends with me at school, but would not give me their phone number or hang out, outside of school, but with other Asians they did.

A lot of Asians also seem to bottle up their emotions then explore over the smallest things, especially towards non-Asians. But yeah, I've visited some Asian temples in the US and they're usually very friendly, welcoming and engaging, but this is mainly SE Asians. East Asians are different.

[Iron_Man]

@KostasKouvalis Not everybody, but I’ve noticed it in Miami Florida. It happens a lot. I just think that they come from a very strict background, and their parents are very strict and they would never allow them to date Americans most of them. It’s not that I’m trying to date them I just noticed that when they walk by you if they’re walking their dog, they don’t even look at you the women to say hello as they’re walking by they just have a blank stand ion their face like they don’t wanna be bothered with acknowledging you like a courtesy greeting when you’re passing by a hello. The same thing at the gym I’ve noticed and most Chinese restaurants but like I said, there’s a few nice Asians

[KostasKouvalis]

I live in CA, and I'd say the Asians here are different, but I know the type you're talking about. One of my professors said about Hmong students that they never engage in discussion in class because they are taught just to listen and not question or give input.
But sticking with their own kind is definitely true though.

[Iron_Man]

@KostasKouvalis very true

[Anonymous]

Two reasons. First, Asia women are more feminine in appearance and character than most western women.

Second, and more importantly, they are raised in a more conservative and traditional culture so they don't have as many of the issues western women have, and they have better attitudes toward men and relationships.

This image sums it up quite well.

Asian culture produces higher quality women

[Ariesman81]

Because on average they know how to treat a man. There's just something natural about them. Whether you feel it's manipulative is irrelevant. The reality is there is attraction on both sides. Sure... a Filipina is looking for a better life. Sure... men like feeling desired. If I offer what she's looking for and she offers what I'm looking for... that's called a mutually beneficial relationship.

[Avicenna]

No one claims Asian women are perfect

[Asker]

Social media protests them to be

[Anonymous]

maybe they're less bitchy than real white girls

[Babygirl_S]

You haven’t met the ones I’ve met. The jealousy was palpable. I haven’t had similar toxic experiences with ANY other women. I guess they just don’t like their eyes and flat faces. So whenever they say someone they consider inferior like an attractive Indian woman, they get so angry