Why is there a weird stigma about white guys being attracted to Asian women?

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I understand that there’s those guys that will only date an Asian girl or just want to date an Asian girl no matter what she looks like, both of those are just weird and not what i’m talking about. i just mean i’m open to dating any race and i do find pretty Asian girls attractive. There’s been times i’ve mentioned that i find a girl that’s Asian attractive around girls of other races and several have said “white guys are always into Asian girls” like it was so matter of fact.

KostasKouvalis · Accepted Answer

Well, there's really no politically correct way to say this, and maybe this applies more to SE Asians, but Asian culture is a culture of sex. SE Asians don't really have anything to be proud of (and this is coming straight from SE Asian girls), so the only thing they have going for them is sex. They themselves believe that the only thing they're good for is sex. They'll fuck anything that's White and has a dick. Look at losers like Drew Binsky and Mark Zuckerberg. They both married Asian women. Desperate White men always turn to Asian women for easy sex/marriage. I found this channel online, and I was SHOCKED by how easily this White guy could get ANY Filipina woman in bed with him. Like if he said the kind of shit he said to any other woman, he would get smacked and metooed. No one respects Asian women because they don't respect themselves.

And I've also noticed that girls of other races can't stand when a White guy is attracted to Asian girls. I see other races, they don't care, but as soon as an Asian girl is involved, they lose their shit. It's like an insult to them. Like, "How can you choose an Asian girl over a beautiful Indian or Latina?" Asian girls are seen as someone who's only purpose is to provide sexual pleasure to desperate White men, while other races actually want something genuine. So Asians aren't respected as women or as people. Therefore, when someone does genuinely fall for an Asian girl, because he likes her as a person, everyone automatically assumes he either has Yellow Fever or just went with her out of desperation.

Honestly, Asians have themselves to blame for this, for allowing themselves to become sex symbols. Russian and Ukrainian girls had the same stigma for a while, but they were able to grow beyond it and prove to people that they're much more. Asians on the other hand, have no problem profiting at the expanse of their reputation. They have no respect for themselves, and sex tourism is a big industry in SE Asia.

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

If you think that's weird, try being  black  and attracted to Asian women. Not only will white men hate you for it, but even your own black people will think it's weird or funny. I don't think there's much of a stigma on it seeing as people tend to think it's pretty okay for white men to like Asian women, apart from the ones who have severe Asian fetish to the point of wanting anime incorporated into it and the love for Kpop girls. But a lot of Asian women themselves have a fetish for white guys too. I'm lucky to have dated ones who weren't like that, but there are still others who are.

thatshydork · Accepted Answer

It’s got something to do with the sexualization of Asian women in the recent years I think? At least that’s what I’ve heard, but I’m a mixed kid with very happily married parents where one is white and the other is Asian so I don’t know how true that is.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

White guys who live in Asia, actually don’t date Asians that often. I don’t think it’s a stigma.  You can be attracted to whoever you wish to. I love Asian guys. They are hot.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am Caucasian and I have dated women from Poland, Germany, Ukraine, Ireland, Colombia, Brazil, Philippines, India, China, and Native American, but most of the women I have dated were American Caucasian women. Most of the will them I met are white and American. There is some stigma, for some people, in white and black peoples dating, but I have never perceived that same stigma regarding Americans and Asians dating.

I am engaged to a Chinese woman. I’m not attracted because she’s Asian; I’m attracted because I am physically aroused by her and she’s a great woman. I’ve never sensed any disapproval at all.

Jackblue · Answer

You need to understand, everything white men like us do is going to be criticized. If we date other races of women we fetishize them, if we date only white women we are continuing white supremacy into the next generation. If we don't help minorities we are complacent in the racist power structures, if we do we are imagining ourselves white saviors. My advice to you is date whom you want just don't imagine that Asian women are going to be submissive dolls who will never nag you, because believe me they will. Couples have been fighting since the dawn of time that is not something feminism invented.

normalice · Answer

I think because anime resulted in a huge influx of white guys thinking Japanese women were all kawaii nesan sluts in waiting, because white guys didn't figure out the overwhelming majority of that anime was written and drawn by Japanese men who were fantasizing Japanese women being kawaii nesan sluts in waiting, because that's precisely japanese women are not.

LazerBean · Answer

There's not really much stigma, it seems mostly like it's associated with dudes being weird, anime obsessed, discord mod types. And a lot of dudes do like Asian girls.

Anonymous · Answer

its cos people think about passport bros, weaboos or weird dudes who want their wife to be very submissive so they go Asian to get that. plus i think some people get an ick when they perceive white people especially dudes as having like a preference for a different race, like they'll be like oh your fetichizing them

Apple1996 · Answer

I only have a problem with it if the person is racist like saying other races are undatable/unattractive

Adaeva · Answer

Even at age 31, Asians are beautiful.

Meropatrick · Answer

Its stigma because its like a fetish. And also because it cements the notion of the trophy submissive wife dating the rich white man who will save her from being trafficked. Its really looked down upon. Now white men are VERY popular among Asian girls they really love them and they r obssesed with white men which to me is a bit like an unhealthy infatuation and self loathing

beebella · Answer

Because a lot of White guys like Asian girls. 🤷‍♀️ Lmao

Yes, a lot of non-white guys like Asian girls too but, most of the guys that I've seen with Asian girls have either been Asian or White.

WhiteSandyBeach · Answer

I like your question, but the replies are retarded. People like what they like. One idiot said that white guys in Asia, don't date Asians. LMAO

Anonymous · Answer

Actually not sure, but yeah you always see white men with Asian women.

zagor · Answer

I think it has to do with guys who fetishize Asian women.  I find a lot of Asian women attractive, but I don't date them exclusively.  Although I don't date anyone anymore.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know why that’s still a stereotype. White men and Asian women being so into each other was more of a thing around the 00s

KC-Sunbeam · Answer

A weird stigma? Huh? In what circle is that a stigma? It's very common & accepted for White guys to be attracted to Asian women. Consider Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg & his wife.

AmeerX · Answer

People make issues on so much as a sneeze 🤧

YAsQuen · Answer

because they are small and more conservative. They are smaller ie they are hotter. They are small ie the man has an easier time being tall enough. they are more conservative. WIN WIN WIN

Anonymous · Answer

That stigma only exsists among butthurt white women.

zoe2187 · Answer

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