What is the first thing that attracts you to the opposite sex?

[gazpearce2021]

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

A number of things,

Looks are always involved, but that's a reflection of habits and affinities,
What doesn't is - being lumped together just to be with someone (if she is that panic/clingy type _and_ not even choosing a match carefully). Also unavailability/anger even semi directed at me - considering I am very easy going and nice, the whole 'you are male thus xyz' is a definitive 'sorry, love, that's your baggage'
I don't believe it is worth being with someone you don't _really_ like _a lot_ - love, basically. The reason being when you do meet someone you'd love to be with, you have to break up or/and cheat, and that gets far too messy and emotionally taxiing

[St37xy11]

Oo yeah different things. Up close his face for sure. If I don't see his face like I'm not paying attention then I'll notice if our personalities click and then that's when I start looking at him more and assessing his appearance. If he's far away but I spot him like at the end of an aisle, I'll definitely check out his arms... I'll be like mmm those are some man arms... sexy lol if a guy passes by sometimes I check out their butt. Only some guys have nice butts so it's kind of hard to find but I always like to look 😊 if he has a really sexy voice. There are some voices out there that make you melt. Most of the time I just look because he's a guy and I can't help my eyes. I just like to appreciate what God created.

[VanillaSalt]

Lmao I always said women are like fine art meant to be admired… you just turned that around bravo…

by the way I got a pretty nice ass just sayin ;)

[jennifer_bloom]

The height and the stomach and the eyebrows are what I notice first, also how fast they walk or talk.

[Zantagio1]

Is the height thing explainable? Cuz I never really understood it , I'm 6 foot and I know the taller you are sometimes it can mean shorter life span as height in itself can be unhealthy.

[he-takes-a-part]

Dreaming for fitness models

[goajakeao]

Stomach as in abs?

[Miristheiss]

Her look.
A pretty face and a nice figure both attract me. First?
Probably which ever one I see first. If is winter and she is bundled up and I really can only see her face I am captivated by a cute/pretty face, pretty eyes, a smile.
If I am coming up behind her and she hasn't even turned around yet I'm blow away by a curvy, feminine, sexy figure. Sometimes I see both at about the same time and it is a double WHAMMY. The face and bod together? Mercy!

Personality, heart, spirit. Sometimes you can see she has a way you like and vibe with quickly but you usually have to spend some time with her and around her to get a feel for this stuff. Her look is an instant draw.

[zzombie]

Intelligence, wit and good communication skills. I'm attracted to minds, If I ever decide to start dating I would have to choose someone with a brilliant mind, otherwise I lose interest too quickly. Looks are just a bonus to me, but if im looking for a long term/serious relationship the only way it will work is if im with someone who has what I mentioned above.

[sumayathemagi]

Money

[zzombie]

@sumayathemagi What about money? If you're implying that's what im looking for in a guy, your an abosultue ignorant a-hole. Im happyily single, Im in NO rush to get into a relationship and when/if the time comes where I start dating, money is that last thing I will be looking for. I take care of myself, I don't need to depend on anyone for my needs. Grow up.

[sumayathemagi]

It’s because you are semi asexual and have no sexual urge

[zzombie]

@sumayathemagi No it's called being mature, and recognizing I am in no state to be in a relationship at this time. There are things I need to work on so I can engage in healthy relationships. How old are you? I can't believe you actually think like this...

[sumayathemagi]

From a biological point of view, in generally girls don't have sex drive as like men. Girls get horny but women's horniness is totally different than men horniness. When men feel instinctive urge, desire, craving for sex, sexual intimacy, oral sex, another women body it’s call men horniness. But women don't feel it. Women's horniness means **desire to orgasm**. The urge to have sex with men, desire, craving for sex, sexual intimacy, craving for men body is totally absent in their horniness. You can compare it to urge to pee. It's just a physical itch. But there is no mental, psychological urge, desire, craving for sex, sexual intimacy, men body. That's why you often see women are totally indifferent to sex, sexual intimacy because women can get horny but women don’t feel desire to have sex, craving for sex.

That's the difference between men horniness and women's horniness. Women often say they get horny often. But their horniness means nothing, it’s just acknowledging something itching. That’s it.
If you drink less water in the hot day you will get the same itch in your lower belly, that's why women can't recognise it.

Even you often see guys always check out women, stare at women, watch porn, see nude photos of women but women are totally disinterested in this chapter/section. It’s because women only lust after their husband, boyfriend or familiar person. You know this is a long term process.

Until women get their boyfriend, husband or a familiar person their brain don't even know there is such a thing like lust. I am saying, seeing random men whom they never met before does nothing for women, it’s like seeing shoes, bus, dolls etc. Totally indifferent glance. So, don't waste time to know the fiction that women lust after men body.
It’s just a fiction.

[zzombie]

@sumayathemagi I have had the urge to have sex with men, and craved my ex-partners body. You shouldn't go around making assumptions about people like this, not everyone is the same. That should be common sense. Women can lust for men's bodies? At least I know I have. I am human, I get horny but I'm also a grown ass woman so I have self-control and the ability to think rationally. Just because sex or being in a relationships isn't a priority of mine, doesn't mean im asexual. I've got years and years ahead of me to mess around. Im working on getting my shit together because I have my priorites in check. I respect whatever opinions you have, but I don't respect you making false and outlandish assumptions about me and my sexuality. Thanks, have a nice day.

[sumayathemagi]

@Apple1996

Women are sexually attracted to men in what way? What's the inner monologue of female sexual attraction/lust?

Women are sexually passive/inactive. So I have no idea how women's lust work.

When men lust after women. It's instinctive desire, sense of touching, licking, kissing, feeling her body. Men feel and see it from their eyes, their sense and they are the subject.
It's like saying, you are salivated by ice cream. So inner monologue is desire to touch, kiss, lick ice cream.

What about women.

[sumayathemagi]

Women are sexually attracted to men in what way? What's the inner monologue of female sexual attraction/lust?

Women are sexually passive/inactive. So I have no idea how women's lust work.

When men lust after women. It's instinctive desire, sense of touching, licking, kissing, feeling her body. Men feel and see it from their eyes, their sense and they are the subject.
It's like saying, you are salivated by ice cream. So inner monologue is desire to touch, kiss, lick ice cream.

What about women.

[zzombie]

@sumayathemagi It's the same thing for women as well. To assume that ALL women are sexually passive is damaging... because that's not true for all women. Women can be just as sexually driven as men, and feel lust in very similar ways. We also have the instinctive desire to touch, lick, kiss and feel a man's body.

[sumayathemagi]

Can, could, may, might - it’s a probability. As like cow can fly, fish can walk.

That’s I specifically mentioned this.

Without getting to know him, without knowing him, without knowing his personality, without knowing who he is as a person, without any interacting with him?

Have you/women ever lusted after random men in the street, shopping mall, bus, train etc (Without getting to know him, without knowing him, without knowing his personality, without knowing who he is as a person, without any interacting with him?)

Even you often see guys always check out women, stare at women, watch porn, see nude photos of women but women are totally disinterested in this chapter/section. It’s because women only lust after their husband, boyfriend or familiar person. You know this is a long term process.

Until women get their boyfriend, husband or a familiar person their brain don't even know there is such a thing like lust. I am saying, seeing random men whom they never met before does nothing for women, it’s like seeing shoes, bus, dolls etc. Totally indifferent glance.

You mentioned your ex boyfriend, boyfriend, familiar person. But I specifically mentioned other things.

[Neykie09]

To me it's their body language. Do the walk up straight and with confidence? After that I notice their eyes. Not the colour but whether they have soft caring eyes or sad eyes. They say the eyes are the window to the soul and for me it is true.

[LisaRaven]

Personally, attitude and actions. Looks are important but if they don't have a good personality, looks are meaningless.

[TheAfrikan]

Nice one I better pass on my text to you.

[Blackflame101]

So you notice attitude and actions before you even notice looks? 🤔

[LisaRaven]

Clearly you see looks first but it takes more than looks to attract me.

[TheAfrikan]

@lisaraven you are right.

[btbc92]

Their ability to have a one-track mind and have relative focus than I can.

[EQisKEY]

How the PHUCK would you know ANY of that without talking to them? 🙄... This is why men can't think of anything effective to say on average, cause these kind of ladies have impossible criteria to fulfill within a 1st impression, and then project it outward as the guys problem 🙄🙄🙄

[btbc92]

@EQisKEY I have my father who is over 50, I have had male friends since I was in elementary school. I listen to men who speak about how they feel and how men in general operate. I know because I observe people, pay attention and ask questions. I am not like other women. I at least take interest in people.

[EQisKEY]

You are not going to tell me because all that somehow equals your tenacity to fill in such check boxes when all the guys said was, "hi, what's your name?" 🤥

[btbc92]

@EQisKEY We don't have impossible criteria. You are just so desperate for women that you don't see your errors. You do as many women do. Try to fit in in places where you are not compatible or belong at. For an example. You are so desperate for any female you find attractive you would lie and say you are a Christian even though you are not. You worry too much about 1st impressions when in actually you don't befriend us or desire friendship. You desire sex so you try to sexually attract us. So it is your problem. Because you don't know how to pick women right no different than most women do. I know not to date a man I don't know. I don't ask for your impressions or acts. I don't ask for your entertainment or to be entertained. I asked, if anything for you to be yourself, and I decide based on your character and standards if you are somebody I should try to invest in. Not your looks or just your personality, but where you fit into my life and if you truly desire the same as I do.

[btbc92]

@EQisKEY Firstly, if all you got to say to me in less than 5 minutes is hi, what's your name is really pathetic. I don't need to tell you my name. And that is enough to make me turned off. You sound like a robot and other men. I am not interested in men like that. Period. You sound fake and unreal. I cannot relate to a man who is just trying to get into my pants.

[EQisKEY]

🤣telling me I would lie about religion all of a sudden... Lol... Ciao darling, You can have your coveted last word back, I promise not to respond ✌️

[btbc92]

I don't play those flirting games, I hate flirting, and what turns me off about men is just that. There is no need for that. Be yourself. A flirt is never attractive to me and I am not easily swayed. Besides, I would only date a friend. Not a stranger. And that "Hi, what's your name." Just makes me, 😖🤢🤮

[btbc92]

I don't know how other women can stand it. I just can't. Feel like I want to do just as the emoji is. I hide it so I wouldn't offend you. But if you ask my true feelings, that's it. I can't. You men don't act normal.

[btbc92]

Dude, you have proven my point. Your toxic and unattractive.

[Zantagio1]

Excuse me? He wasn't being toxic , he simply said your idea of "Hey what's your name" is bad when you first meet a person.
If anything you were being toxic please refer me any point where the man tried to insult you other than just saying your values are unfair

Because I can see a bunch of toxicity from you, none from him tho.

[Zantagio1]

I read more into it and my comment doesn't really make sense aside from the last lines, so disregard. But how was he being toxic?

[btbc92]

@Zantagio1 Because toxic people do not even know they're toxic. So you are biased as it is. which is why I wouldn't date ever. Read his first comment. I can tell what kind of guy he is. Somebody who turns women off after they see his true character. He is just desperate for a woman while putting down women. I met men like him before. I avoid them like the plague. That's how I grew bitter growing up because I get blamed for not saying "yes". They're never happy and try to ruin your experiences.

[btbc92]

I was not being toxic. I was being honest. He came at me being toxic first. All I did was defend myself. I am not getting disrespected because he has issues with low self-esteem. He just wants to shame women. So no matter how I would have approached, he would still attack as he did to me in the beginning. I did nothing to warrant his insecure behavior. If he doesn't want to work to become the kind of man a woman can admire and want, that is his problem. Not mine. If he thinks it's impossible, no. It's because he doesn't want to work for it and thinks it should be just handed to him. It doesn't work that way in real life. Doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman. Everybody has struggles.

[btbc92]

I can tell he is a pleaser and he didn't take too well of what I said. That kind of man, you stay away from. Because they are just bad influences even to men like you who may want a good relationship. He is bitter and in need of help. Because he assumes too much about women he believes nothing, yet desires something for himself to have because he feels he's a loser for not having a woman. He feels rejected, and only he can be the one who needs to choose to either fix it or not. I cannot fix it for him.

[btbc92]

Instead of complaining about what criteria he doesn't meet, he needs to work on himself. He doesn't want to do that because he thinks he's entitled to a girlfriend when he's not. You men who behave like this for it is not every man became lazy-minded. So in turn so did women. He didn't even LIST ANY criteria he accuses a woman of and has no facts to give. So what is he complaining about? That criteria could be anything.

[Zantagio1]

In this case I believe you're the one being biased, he's just saying saying that the question is , what is the first thing you're interested in.
Note that you only mentioned that you would only date a friend after your conversation had concluded, you'd already been outwardly toxic to him and by all means he was taking it well.
I think his thought process is kinda like how would you know that off first appearances , this question is based on general attraction , not what you generally like in a person.
Although he kinda worded it poorly I think thats what he was trying to get it, and his thing about it being an impossible criteria probably stems from the assumption that he thinks you're expectation is for men to somehow get you to get that off when you first meet or something.
Sorry, I write a lot, but it seems you do as well from the looks of it, just don't want to annoy anyone.
"You mean who behave like this" please stop there, that's a literal sexist remark to say "you men" when saying something like that, women can have these behaviors too, generalizing it to men is outright sexist.

Maybe you should work on yourself and not make these types of assumptions of people, because as he said, it seems to be projection and turning your issues into the guys issue instead of it being something you have to handle.

Does he sound weird? Absolutely, but you went off the wall at him and sound like a nut.
As he neither did nor said anything wrong or offensive.

[btbc92]

@Zantagio1 I can sense things about people. Nobody needs to worry about where my sources come from. If I know, I will know about it. And I tend to be 99.9% accurate. I again have my standards. I don't shame any man for not understanding it. Just don't judge me for them. It is my right. There are plenty who would be for this guy. That is not me being biased. That is again, me being honest. I can be attracted but I do not date a man because of attraction. Period. I need more than that. And I do not want to base my relationship on strictly attraction. Others can if they want. I do not and nobody has the right to force it on me.

[btbc92]

@Zantagio1 I am talking about those who it applies. Those who don't do those things don't understand you who do either. I do not take offense of every man who says you, women, because unless he shows what he means I know it doesn't apply to me. You calling me a nut is disrespectful and i do not have to tolerate it. YOU are the kind of man I am talking about. Him included. I work on myself every day. Your just men I avoid. Because of your trouble and proven to be emotionally abusive. Calling me a nut is abusive. I will not tolerate that from a man. I won't comply with your standards of a woman.

[btbc92]

He didn't word it POOR. He made it CLEAR how he feels about women and he wants to know why women want to attack him! So stop feeding that toxicity or you're going to get looped the same with him. And please stop making excuses for him. You are young still learning a lot of about adulthood. He is a grown a** man and he needs to grow up. Other women may tolerate the BS. I will NOT. You either have what I need or you don't. Either you will, or you won't. You cannot just jump into any relationship without a plan, without a purpose and without a FUTURE. I am not having sex before marriage. I do not want a man who masturbates, watches porn, goes to clubs, bars, lusts after other women, who don't want to get married or have kids, or even want to serve God. Period. I am not forcing on you. You are just not compatible with me, and I would kindly decline so you can find somebody who is. And I wish no harm on either of you. But stop shaming women for what they desire in a man. Do you think all women want is just sex, food, and sleep? Oh, no. Women need EMOTIONS. wOMEN NEEDS A lover, a Woman needs a man who has a plan, who can lead her, financially provide, who wants children, who is willing to take care of them even if it wasn't a plan. Women want sex too, but we ain't going to stupid to be with just ANY MAN.

[btbc92]

I have been on this site for nearly 9 years. All I've been hearing is men complaining women won't put out. Women complaining she doesn't feel loved, her man doesn't want to get married, or her man hurting her feelings. I very rarely hear men saying the same as women. But most of you especially on here, are TOXIC. And you want to know why you attract toxic women? The men I refer to are those who hate that list I require. And it's not that hard, I strive for it every day myself.

[Zantagio1]

When I say a nut I don't mean to come off directly rude but he said something pretty much neutral , questioned how it applies to the question at hand.
And you went off at him with some toxic rants about your assumptions of him.
Look back at your initial conversation, he's pretty obviously just pointing out that isn't an "initial attraction" sorta deal, thats something that comes with time.
And given the context it is an impossible criteria cuz men can't just make you know that about them prior to speaking.
First thing for ATTRACTION key word, mostly refers to what attracts you prior to speaking with them at least directly.
Why I had called you a nut is mostly because you're going crazy at this dude when even when you directly insulted him , he was specifically keeping it on topic and that your standards aren't possible when talking about the questions scenario which implies you haven't met the person yet, hence the word ATTRACTION. not more intimate descriptors

And his projection point at the start which was maybe the closest thing to anything rude he could've said there , was proven in your responses you didn't look at his stuff, you made assumptions, had him taking even a minor issue with your standard and flew off the handle with it.

Again, sorry if I offended ya with the nut comment I don't usually use it as an insult but just to describe someone who's kinda flying off the handle a bit too much and kinda needs to cool down.

[Zantagio1]

When I say he worded it poorly I mean he kinda came off a wrong way about what he was saying , threw in too many of his own emotion. How do you think he feels about women?

How do you pick something like that up off of three texts? Mostly of which basically saying "Hey, not sure if this applies to the question at hand?"

[btbc92]

@Zantagio1 No. You were RUDE. SIMPLE. I am not playing this he said, she said games. That is how I am attracted to a man. He just wants sex. That's all. He doesn't want love. Not every woman has impossible criteria, many of you just don't want to meet them, and I KNOW because I have met men who DO. All you are concerned about is physical requirements, but both men and women, in general, have them. And there is not much you can do about it.

"cuz men can't just make you know that about them prior to speaking." No, you can. You know how many men I catch staring at other women googling at them? Calling other men p*ssies and saying how another man being a simple. Or how many drinks you had. The kind of clothes you wear, how you carry yourself. The energy you give off? If a woman is hypersensitive and intuitive like me, yes, we can. You just never notice that about us, especially in friendships. That is how we can tell if we would be attracted to you in the long run or not and settle for just friends.

[btbc92]

"First thing for ATTRACTION key word, mostly refers to what attracts you prior to speaking with them at least directly." Again, your ability to have a one-track mind and have relative focus. How you show yourself can attract me to a man. Are you kind to others? That is attractive. Are you a gentleman? that is attractive. Is your smile innocent and kind? That is attractive. Do you make the best of what you can do? That is attractive. We, women, are visual also. But visual doesn't mean lusting. That is a choice most people do. I can see many brown-eyed guys, grey eyes, blue eyes, even purple which is rare. ALL is attractive to me. But what makes you unique and special?

A good amount of men have great teeth and some struggle like me. But what makes your smile worth it and attractive?

I have seen lots of brown hair, dark hair, blond hair, mixed hair, some even raven or even red head. Depending on how it is kept can be attractive for him. BUT what makes HIM special?

[Zantagio1]

"I can be attracted but I do not date a man because of attraction" this was not a question about dating advice, it was a general question of what ATTRACTS women.

Thats where you threw the other guy off. Its well and good to have standards, but thats not the questions was, and that's what he was kinda saying "How do you know any of that without talking to them"
You went into a conversation about attraction talking about your standards OF A RELATIONSHIP which caused some miscommunication where the other party was kinda like "tf you on about" and then you went off an a tangent on your assumptions about the man , which by the way were outright insults making you indisputably toxic.

I think EQ would deserve some sort of an apology here as the man did nothing wrong. In fact his comments kinda suggest he'd understand them as normal relationship standards, but silly for base attraction its stuff you pick up on prior talking to the person.

[btbc92]

I know guys who are musicians, can sing, is good at computers, sports, etc. All are attractive to me especially if you have productive hobbies. But what makes YOU special?

How many people win gold medals? What makes you special?

I've seen guys skinny and large, big and small, thin, bulky, fat, fit, overweight, underweight. Depending on the person, they can be attractive to me. But what makes you special?

I found tall men attractive in general if they are, and even short men attractive if they are to me. But I overall am not attractive to men shorter than me or much taller than me. WHY? I will tell you for the most part. For tall guys, they intimidate me. Period. I feel like I am a small car and they are a tall building who you never know if they may topple over you if an "earthquake" was to show up. That is just overbearing energy and that throws me off. It is not disrespecting to anyone who is. That is just how I feel. Now towards short guys, I see them like a little brother. Somebody I need to protect and take care of, I would not be able to take him seriously. And I am concerned for both parties to be if he is tall or short how would our romance life would be like.

[btbc92]

Would I need a stepping stool just to kiss the guy, would I have to go on my knees just for us to be at eye's length. That would be unfair to all of us and I just cannot. I am not like those women making one or the other being better than the other. Every man is unique and different in their own way, but I have a big no-no for preferences concerning long-term compatibility, not immediate fleeting moments of uncertainty. I am a future-oriented person, and I need to make sure the man I would like is completely compatible with me we where can have a LONG LASTING MONOGAMOUS FUTURE. Not, oh you don't like me, I'll find somebody else nonsense. I am not living that life. Either you're that to death due to you two apart kind of person or skim 100s of women, I don't care at this point. I just rather not be part of your 100s wive harem. Meaning, you hoped with me then hoped for the next girl and the next. no, no, no. I am a virgin for a REASON. And it will only be with my husband or no man at all. Got it? Do we have an understanding gentleman? I can die alone. I have nothing to lose. So you men figure that out.

[Zantagio1]

This is my first comment after loading the last 2 messages. I guess I understand, but how the initial comment came off sounds like something you'd think of being a thing you'd find out while speaking to someone.

So I guess only thing I'd say on that is, I guess being more descriptive would be nice.

I'm sorry if you saw it as straight up being rude with the nut comment, but I don't know what do you describe someone going on a tangent about someone they don't , something that person hasn't said or implied. something that is purely based on assumption and nothing else, all based on a miscommunication which at the end of the day was not the receiving ends fault.
I usually refer to those people as they're acting like nuts, because are they probably outright crazy? No probably not.
Are they acting it? Yeah I'd say so as that's completely unfair and unhinged treatment of a person.

And to be frank you were being actively rude to the person before me, one comment that can be seen as rude gets ya goin when the person you berated remained completely calm when you were actively insulting his character without anything but assumptions...

At some point , exactly if what you said was right, and what I will tell you now.
Just as he's a grown ass man , you're a grown ass woman... You should be aware that if you're the only one that sees things your way, or if people don't want to deal with you after you act like this {Similarly to how he peaced out after three messages}
This part will be rude, but its real advice. Ever think you're the common denominator? That there might be something you're doing wrong?

With that I have things to do, I've already put out my opinions on this and I will not continue to repeat myself.

[btbc92]

@Zantagio1 No. I didn't throw him off. He just wants to be Picked. He wants to be CHOSEN. He doesn't care who the girl is, he just wants to have what he feels other men may have. That's all. He's trying to become somebody he isn't to attract females. He's desperate and feels he is not good enough. because in the end, he doesn't love himself. You can't enter into a relationship with that. Which is why I told him what I told him. Nothing I will say will change his mind. He wants a woman for sex and that's it. And he's pissed that he isn't getting that. If he changed his mind I am sure he will.

[btbc92]

If you can't deliver him a woman, he won't want to hear anything you got to say. Period. If you couldn't;t read into that from the first reply, it says how out of touch you are with other people.

[btbc92]

I am not going on a tangent. You and he lack self-awareness and your empathy levels are that low. That is not me insulting, that is stating facts you don't want to see and you want to know why many women don't bother or walk out on relationships. This is why. He wasn't being calm. He is a narcissist. That is what they do to cause debates, strife, and contentions with the other to get a rise out of them. I was calm also until he continue to call me a liar. Wake up and learn to read and stop insulting and attack me. I wasn't ranting. I was stern with him because I wasn't going to fall for his victim mentality. This is how abusive people act. They do this to make it out like they're the victim and still entice you even if you weren't the one doing it. That's what he is doing. Learn some psychology, kid. It may save your life.

[he-takes-a-part]

This kind of trait can easily be surpassed nothing assure of sustainable friendship here

[btbc92]

@he-takes-a-part I learn a lot from men especially because you're different than me. And being around you help me become better at thinking and increasing in my concentration skills. So there is a benefit to having those friendships.

[he-takes-a-part]

Uptil one point i can believe that but a girl saying they are more focused and bla bla and trying to learn from men haha thats untrue majorly.

[btbc92]

If you think that will women than you obviously need to stay single. There are plenty of women that can do that. And I myself improve greatly by doing so. And you most certainly would not be the kind of man I would like to have around me because you're very immature and you're sexist.

[he-takes-a-part]

Babe you are already around me. And if i am sexist then you are no less than homeless bitch. Read your each comment Last lines have been abusive to all stupid skank

[btbc92]

Buddy you are wherever you are hundreds and possibly thousands of miles away from me. So no I am not around you and for you to call me homeless, a b ans a skank, says a lot about you. Call those terms to me around my father and you would have been handed to you.

[btbc92]

Probably why no woman is interested.

[btbc92]

That's how you speaking and treat a woman. It's all the more reason why you don't have one. Thank God

[he-takes-a-part]

Text in personal your fathers whatsapp i will let you know in video call. He will hand you over. Bet

[btbc92]

Actually, no. You would have had an early grave.

[he-takes-a-part]

Coward.
Maybe rich brat thats why looking to focus that too with men.
Lacks common decency.
Will take you along in the grave.

[btbc92]

I highly suggest you do not provoke my father. I do not take your word seriously because the last thing I would want is for you to be six feet under and him and jail. And I am not rich so I highly suggest you keep your assumptions and your rapist and sexist attitude to yourself.

[btbc92]

I mean it. You better slow your roll and stay in your lane.

[he-takes-a-part]

Ask your tongue 👅 not to provoke my dick. And you can go then

[btbc92]

You really think I am speaking lightly. I will have you reported and blocked. You are provoking problems and like I said you better stay in your lane.

[he-takes-a-part]

Well i already crossed haha 😂

[btbc92]

Now your blocked and reported.

[Zantagio1]

If they're a cool person really , even if a relationship was just for sex I couldn't do it if it was with a shit person.

Physically, straight guys are pretty simple on this, ass and tits.
I know there are going to be some weird jokes on this opinion, but I also find blonde hair really nice, same with blue eyes, especially together. Just looks amazing to me.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Sneakers choice. My wife buys rebook leather classics and never wore a high heeled shoe 🥰 and she barley uses make-up, she wears Vans, Adi super stars. That my friend gave me and my heart a new thing to fight for

[15_Debo]

Personality, Looks, Past, Present, and eyes and lips...
After these comes body😋

[kmg9150]

The entirety of her presence, then if we end up together I slowly find attraction the each characteristic individually... Never left trying to see an attraction after that.

[haphazard]

Looks wise it's hair, skin, eyes, and feet. Personality wise it's kindness, intelligence, sensitivity, and humility.

[DizzyDesii]

Looks wise?
Face, smile, sound of voice, posture
Personality wise?
Similar interests, experiences, cultures

[Lionman95]

Smile and or laughter. I also go for the hair style and the way she dresses.
I also go for her body figur.

[Anonymous]

If they're kind to others and serving, if they're tall and thin... but still athletic.. not wimpy. His eyes and smile. If he's soft spoken and gentle, yet takes initiative and is able to lead and be more extraverted too.

[Blackflame101]

I have to ask, if the kind of others thing a little bit of an exaggeration? Because it more than half of people seem to be kind to others. I don’t think its necessarily an attractive trait at first.

[Opinion Owner]

I think kindness beyond just a "oh they're nice or approachable" type of kind. A kindness to the extent where the guy is going out of his way to make sure others are feeling good and appreciated, even if it may be a difficult situation.

[Anonymous]

I dont know... same beliefs, wealth, height, muscles... yeah. I can't say one thing because its rare. for a guy to. catch my eyes and they guy that had caught my eye was a celeb and I was just 20 at the time, and of course he 3/4 of those things.

[adventurous-1]

their looks coupled with their attitude and dress. It has to be a positive combination of these factors that not only draws my attention but keeps it.

[Anonymous]

The way they behave.. like the way they smile to me when talking together. I can think someone is good looking before, but I first sense actual attraction after feeling some personal connection.

[CaptainOverthink]

Depends on which side I see first. But seriously.. eyes.

[CaliGirlBH]

For me it's the way he dresses, if a man looks good with what he is wearing then that has gotten my attention.

[Stevecarnellmax2030]

You do look like a girl who checks out guys sizes a lot

[Yourfriend2021]

I notice her face and it's really her personality that attracts me. I'm tall and strong and I think a lot of women are just looking to hook up so I can sense that right away, and I don't talk to them.

[slatyb]

An intelligent look, attractive clothing, an attractive figure.

[ElizaPam]

The only thing I can usually see which is the face and arms

[TheBigGuy9]

First is obviously looks and that goes for EVERYONE. How else do you get to talking to them? After such I would say what comes out of their mouth. If they’re intelligent or not.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Hair and head top.

[siseñor]

being friendly, like saying hi back or smiling when u see them

[Dog87]

They're vibe and personality. Just because someone is attractive doesn't mean you're attracted to them because of it

[Kate_Utt]

The first thing that catches our eye when it comes to the opposite sex is a man's smile...

[EQisKEY]

I'm a smile addict that gets frequently complimented on my photogenic pictures... Now what? Lol

[he-takes-a-part]

Do them like random guys smiling at them?

[FinalFantasyBro]

Whenever females dress extremely sexy like, I also love seeing women in skirts and dresses as well.

[Medhat-M]

Well of course they gotta be decent looking.. But it's the energy and vibes they give

[he-takes-a-part]

I aspire body part the most bc of the beauty that i am eye witness of. Which is also quite rare to find.

[Brown-Kitty]

Height and body type.

[goajakeao]

How much tall?

[CuriousAZ]

Personality is the primary attraction attribute. The personality includes energy level, intelligence, comoassion, passion.

[innerman]

Eyes...
Duh, some girls have eyes that pierce right through your heart

[VanillaSalt]

And some have a knife

[Luopio27]

Only thing: Looks (Face & Body)!
I envy those that are atracted to anything else.

[Grubhub]

The phat stuff attached to that booty. If there weren’t such thing as phat bootie cuties I’d probably wouldn’t be attracted to human Beings

[sattii2607]

Eyes and smile, other non-physical attributes like character, attitude are noticed much later.

[Anonymous]

Muscles is first.
Then if there is a noticeable bulge.

[EQisKEY]

WHY YOU GOTTA BE ANONYMOUS? 🙄😤

[Willoughby23]

Honestly im just always horny and as long she’s not a train wreck I want her to sit on my face.

[dustybiker]

Behavior. How they treat those around them.

[Dinklex3]

Face, smile, hands 🤤, and build.

[cosmicenergy]

Their style, aura, personality and presence

[MrsTurkleton]

Usually their mannerisms/how they carry themselves

[katiesmuff]

It was looks followed by personality

[he-takes-a-part]

Both gets change

[Mofunfour20]

Are her eyes peaceful or chaotic?

[t-8900]

Face and hair then their belly and butts.

[Questionevrythinn]

If she looks hot or good

[IveGotNoName]

Hair and eyes weirdly

[IveGotNoName]

And when i get to know them it's personality

[he-takes-a-part]

Works in a salon maybe

[IveGotNoName]

Mmm what? No😂

[goajakeao]

So bald guys are repulsive?

[IveGotNoName]

No they aren't, I was just going off of what first attracted me to my boyfriend (other than personality)

[he-takes-a-part]

Abe ye apni bhasha nahi janti shyd?

[IveGotNoName]

@he-takes-a-part What's up with the Hindi?

[pink_and_inlove]

How sweet they are and kind

[MissStrawberry912]

Smile, height, arms

[Stevecarnellmax2030]

Dont lie. m sure you check out his bulge

[andreasderjuengere]

The absence of a loud voice :)

[Becky316]

The vibe that is coming from them

[he-takes-a-part]

Religious

[Wise4myage]

Her eyes and her smile.

[AimeeKyle]

Long hair and a small to medium body.

[LooseMorals821]

Assertiveness, dominance, self-confidence, swagger

[emilym12345]

What the books call a spark.

[ChiPaPa]

I dunno anymore. Point is, they don't like me.

[convo_king89]

Boobs for sure at first.

[Anonymous]

Height and arms for some reason

[Zantagio1]

I've heard people judged by height a lot, I'm a straight 6 foot dude, and I can realize the better looking guys in general tend to be shorter dudes, also height brings in unwanted health problems.

I don't understand why people see height is such a good thing.

[kmg9150]

@Zantagio1 height shows strength and a sense of security. At 6ft what health problems are you having. Im 6ft and 36 and only time I go to the doctor is after a car accident... better looking is perception. I dont think im that good looking but I've been told otherwise... its like listening to recording of your voice. Sound way different than how you hear it in the moment.

[Zantagio1]

kmg, none in particular but I do know that later on in the long term being taller isn't very healthy.

[Zantagio1]

Its more about health in age than the short term.
And better looking tends to be perception, but sometimes it can objective.

Just because I can't really think of any other examples at the moment
No one's gonna say someone who looks like they just got out of a car wreck is better looking than someone who always looks like they came prepared for work , or prepared to go to a party naturally.

[TheAfrikan]

There style of dressing.

[YalancıBahar]

hands and feet are important for me i think

[Jayplays900]

How good they can pet.

[EaterPeter]

Thighs, arse, boobs, smile, walk, outfit

[EaterPeter]

The way she carries herself

[EaterPeter]

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