What is the main thing that attracts you to a person of the opposite sex?

[gayesblog]

For me, it's definitely the way he speaks and how he shows that he cares about the other person.

[MrOracle]

I would say her femininity (assuming she has any). That's going to be a major part of any woman's personality and attitude in order for me to find her romantically attractive.

(I remind everyone again that men have to completely different types of attraction - sexual attraction and romantic/relationship attraction. Most women don't seem to realize that there is a difference, much less understand which kind of attraction she is getting from a man, or what kind she is advertising for. When women talk about attraction, they usually mean relationship attraction, but most women advertise for sexual attraction, and that's what they usually receive - but that will only get her laid - it won't get her a relationship. Relationship attraction has to be specifically sought and advertised for in a very different way.)

[Lester102]

I agree femininity I also tend to agree with the thought that there are different types of attractio

[Benjiman19]

Main thing? Her ass...

Joking of course. Though that is a part of my decision. However, I want to know what her heart is like. Is she good to and with others. Not toxic and putting others down. Thinking she's better than anyone else. I want someone kind hearted, passionate about their own works and hard working. Not caring about what others think of them but also giving a good example of what others should be doing even if she's invisible to most people.

[Altheavas]

Intelligence, independence, adventurous, independent-minded, confident in their own beliefs, and capable of critical thinking, family oriented, unconditional positive regards, and non self-loathing, funny/sarcastic, someone who value self-care, one who said fuck everybody else/total reverse of people pleaser.

[jennifer_bloom]

I love compassion and I respect loyalty and sacrifice so those are the things I look for in a guy.

[OlderAndWiser]

Cute face and a kind, gentle soul.

[AaronKrieger]

Being similar to me when it comes to humor, interests, values, and overall how we think. I do not want it to be a carbon copy, but those things let me know if we're compatible or not.

A girl can be hot, but if I think we accidentally had a kid and I'm not at least moderately confident that she'd be a good mother, then I am not interested in doing anything with her. I am aware you cannot guarantee that, but compatibility matters a lot to me and I'd rather increase my chances.

[PetLover24]

Intelligence.

I graduated university at 20 with two complete Bachelors degrees. BA, BSc. I don't have interest in men who aren't intelligent - who can't hold interesting engaging conversations, etc., etc. I enjoy debates and discussing a variety of topics in civil tones (not childish tantrums) so, in short, if a guy can't keep up I'm not remotely interested.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Her femininity, sure, if I know her well enough to interact with that part of her. If we're talking why do I cross a street for someone, butt and abs.

[Anemone978]

Usually his face and smile..
But I been attracted to guys not as good looking and it was their laugh, energy and just their charismatic personality..

[bananathunder]

heyyy I can't message you :(

[NZGirl07]

I'd say a more traditional sense of masculinity. I also prefer brunette men with blue eyes haha. Personality wise I like a man who is funny but intelligent, who also has a sensitive and good heart.

[mandyfire98]

Confidence, personality, charisma, respect, empathy, sympathy, showing pride and attention in their appearance. Taking care of themselves.

[kitsachie]

Intelligence, not taking life too seriously, maturity.

[menina]

I would say it's way he sees the world and treats other people. If he's humble, open-minded, smart and caring he definitely gets my attention.

[Joshydavid25]

The way she walks, then I can see her entire body and how she carries herself... Walking can really tell you a little bit about the personality of somebody..

[NathanDavis]

when she's got that wit...

those are usually the smart, funny and interesting ones...

[MikeyObrien]

Loyalty. I wouldn't wanna be in a relationship that feels transactional. She needs to be there because she loves me for my personality. I need to know that if I'm rich one day then broke the next that she won't treat me any different.

[OddBeMe]

First off: Great movie. Better soundtrack.

Second: mostly subconscious traits embed during childhood. You could argue other than initial prettiness, nothing about the person is involved in your attraction.

[Akothee005]

His level of maturity in terms of how he talks and behaves around people

[IslaTheWitch]

Brains, quick wit, distance to himself and the world around him.

[Tim2nice]

The way she smiles, the way she walks and the way she talks can make her attractive to me. Obviously intellect helps

[Billlewis]

Vicious, relentless teasing, humiliation and extreme sexual frustration.

[Counterclocking]

Her hair, face, body, and how she dresses (pantyhose is what I love the absolute most on women and a woman that wears them will definitely attract me to her).

[Anonymous]

Everyone has different tastes but for me I'm most attracted to shorter, petite woman. A nice smile and a friendly, warm personality are super attractive. I guess most of all I'm attracted to her femine appearance and personality.

[syncheart]

Firstly the way she looks, and then the personality. The personality is the thing that determines if I want to take the risk or not.

[Anonymous]

Inteligence, confidence, passion, ambition, success, maturity, reasonably attractive, preferably on the taller side.

[Ms_Facesitter]

The main thing is them being physically stronger but having a gentle heart, a kind soul.

[Fireguy17]

Her eyes, smile, how she carries herself, how she interacts with others.

[Anonymous]

For a great number of people, it is their own fantasy which falls apart once they get to know that person...

[Pudsmucker]

Compatibility, personality, talks with intelligence, has great goals for themselves. Positive metal attitude about life.

[Anonymous]

She has to be perfect in every way or else she doesn't deserve me.

[Arno8491]

To be dead honest, it is the soul connection. Yes you eyes it the gate way , but you can the most gorgeous girl in the world , yet if you have a bad soul... Goodbye

[Babygirl_S]

If I feel protected or safe in his presence.

[Anonymous]

Femininity in looks, personality, character and attitudes. That's hard to come by these days but I won't stop looking.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Her physical beauty, kindness, femininity, modesty, intelligence, and purity.

[KrakenAttackin]

Her kindness, femininity, modesty, intelligence, and purity.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Besides her physical looks, would be her friendly kindness.

[Anonymous]

Not a whole lot honestly. They’re very exhausting and annoying to communicate with. I don’t bother with them at all.

[dolemite58]

if overall she means well as a person and if she’s sincere.

[Boomchakalaca]

Lets smash

[dolemite58]

@Boomchakalaca wtf? 🤣

[Boomchakalaca]

she's sincere and well person. U would smash

[Cocoamoon]

His personality and the way he treats his family and others.

[Kingofkings1992]

Her eyes, her hair , her smile, and how she treats others

[piang]

how he acts the first time. not pretending. honest.
if he a bad ass or not.

[Nikki1989]

Charisma, sense of humour and intelligence.

[Billlewis]

I seek the same attributes as Ms. Nikki1989, but in the interest of simplicity, my answer to this question is, 'Ms. Nikki1989 herself, because she has every quality a person could possibly want 8><3

[Boomchakalaca]

The main thing, 50% looks 50% personality

[cowboy1213]

Can I ask you a question?

[LavLavLuv]

Genuine kindness and confidence

[purplepoppy]

A huge penis and bank account.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

So like in that order, or would a huge bank account and a penis work lmfaoo?

[Radiate143]

Kindness and honesty.

[sheikalana]

Their personality.

[PreciousJewel]

A good sense of humor

[LiamJHayden]

A lack of being a Diva.

[Jerre]

Her overall looks and her breasts

[Sasha0426]

So, you’re looking for a fuck buddy and not a relationship?

[Jerre]

@Sasha0426 yes I am. I always want to fuck a nice looking girl.

[Sasha0426]

I’m guessing you’re still in your high school stage. Which is fine because at least you’re not cheating or leading on anyone who wants something more.

[Jerre]

@Sasha0426 I wouldn’t say high school stage. Just love to eat and fuck girls, make them cum multiple time#.

[Sasha0426]

You never had something serious?

[Jerre]

@Sasha0426 I was engaged 25+ years ago, but she passed during an auto accident. Just 2 weeks before our wedding.

[Sasha0426]

That’s heartbreaking 💔

[Anonymous]

Big tits.

You asked.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Access to vagina.

[BLP11520]

Personality, smile eyes and hair

[Anonymous]

A smoking hot body.

[Holsen]

Looks and aura!!

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Boobies (sorry)

[collie22]

He's tall

[cowboy1213]

How tall does he have to be?

[riverrat3]

Personality