What is the foremost thing you notice in the opposite gender in your first interaction?

[Stevecold]

[mandyfire98]

Just from seeing them it's definitely how they present themselves. Do they put even a little effort into themselves? Hygiene, body language, do they come off with confidence?

[Stevecold]

That makes sense. The basics I guess: Clean nails, standing up right, positive energy, etc. Anything in particular for you?

[mandyfire98]

Also put some effort into looking even the tiniest bit fashionable. You don't have to spend a lot of money but also don't dress like you gave up on life and don't give a shit anymore. Don't look like you rolled out of bed and threw random shit together because you couldn't give a shit.

[Stevecold]

I couldn’t agree more. No clue why some guys put on weird shorts and a baggy T-shirt in social gatherings, fancy dine ins etc.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah or just a regular t shirt you know was balled up in the corner of their room and they smelled it to see if it was ok and don't even make any effort to at least half ass match anything.

[Stevecold]

Haha, true. That is the first act of immaturity right there. Which particular outfit do you find attractive on guys?

[mandyfire98]

There's a lot of different outfits I find on men honestly.

[Nikki1989]

Sense of humour, charisma, good manners.

[Stevecold]

Makes great sense. That’d be before noticing any physical attributes?

[Nikki1989]

I'm not really concerned with physical attributes.

[Stevecold]

I see. How about something that will immediately turn you off?

[Decoded93]

Their emotional responses, do they seem happy to talk to me or do they want to move on (at that point I excuse myself)

[Stevecold]

I really like your response.

[Decoded93]

Thank you!

[Lliam]

Looks, appearance, voice, mannerisms, attitude.

[loladevine]

omg this is a good question

[Stevecold]

Haha, then please care to answer?

[periodictaco]

Eyes

[Stevecold]

They never lie.

[Anonymous]

Their looks and personality.