WWhy dont guys aak out every gurl they're attracted to and flirt to?

[Anonymous]

Maybe then id be married by now. but i just get flirted with :(

[HiveBee]

I didn't because I dont want to be a creep. So many girls constantly complain that weirdos and creeps approach them and they are tired of it. So many guys refuse to do it at all.

And I know. girls will always say "but a guy who is a creep does certain shitty actions."

Right, but even a good guy who isn't the creep how most girls define it, will still be reacted to as if he was a creep. If a guy isn't good at approaching, girls are irritated by him. Even if he's a good. guy. being less than perfect makes you not want to approach girls who do not want to be approached.

I think girls want to be approached by the perfect confident man with all the social skills and ability to simply be friends with anyone and talk to any girl and sleep her off her feet.

We all can't be like that. Very few men are like that. And those of us we know we aren't that way. We know we aren't wanted. We know we're less than you want. So we dont bother.

[Asker]

Im buddies with that confident man everyone loves. I know what you mean. Guys assume i like him and girls assume we are together but he has a girlfriend. I dont want him cuz he's not aligned with my faith and morals. he's also a big flirt. I want a good man... I dont want the life of the party cuz i see from his life that this type of man is less likely to be faithful

[Asker]

he's charming yes..
But at the end of the day charm is not valuable for more than a few minutes.

[Solo22]

It's not easy, also some of us have been rejected plenty of times in the past, so we know we are not the ones they want to ask them out. It's common sense. I think after this current girlfriend, I'll probably throw in the towel.

[Asker]

Lol... Give herself (the girl you wanna ask out) and yourself a chance. why bow out before even trying?

[Solo22]

Not everyone is meant to be in a relationship. After this relationship I'm in, I'm done for a while. I go years being single in between relationships. First marriage failed, my current girlfriend and I know it's not going to last forever.

[Asker]

Maybe try to find out how to make it last as a long term marriage

[AD240pCharlie]

Just because we playfully flirt with someone, that doesn't mean that we're interested in them. Sometimes it's just harmless fun, and you both tease each other in a flirting manner because you enjoy it.
I guess the problem can arise when one of the two parties aren't entirely sure if it's serious or just playful.

[Asker]

Thats why itnshouldnt be done at all. I dont flirt first. Guys do itto me and keep it going. Its their fault and i wish to be asked out not flirted with like a toy.

[AD240pCharlie]

Then you make that clear. Saying that "it shouldn't be done at all" is just a personal preference. I do it with one of my closest friends, and we both know that it doesn't mean anything.

[Asker]

Yeah sure. You have no clue whats going on in her heart. You are very selfish.

[AD240pCharlie]

So I don't know what she's feeling but you who have never met her somehow do? Yupp, that makes sense...

[Li-Na]

Because they may get reported.

[Asker]

Its retail. If someone reports someone for asking them out theyd probably get laughed at... by management.

[Jmmmfi4]

I get nervous

[Asker]

Plzz ask us out we want it badly

[Luckycharms12]

I guess shy