Do hickies put a guy off a girl?

[Anonymous]

if a girl gives you a hickey the first time, does that put guys off her?

[Tamikaze]

I like the responses where the guys are talking about getting one from a girl they don't care for. If I don't care for someone they cannot get close enough to me to give me a hickey, lol.

I personally don't like having a hickey or giving them because I think it looks trashy but my fiance and I accidentally give them to each other. I think inside a relationship the random hickey is not a big thing, but if you are not in a relationship, it could go either way. Certainly if a guy is up to no good he won't want a hickey as evidence that another girl will see.

[CaliCourtney]

I really don't understand why people think hickies are so horrible and stupid... there's nothing wrong with it if you just do it to people who you really like. If you're intimate enough to have a hickey that means you got to kiss the skin of your lover and I love that. I think they're cute... and hot too, kind of bad boy stuff. I love giving them and getting them, although it's not nice when your parents see it! ;D

XO

[cun7n1nja]

My guy and I have the same opinion about hickies, lol. We both like giving them, and getting them, but it's kind of a pain in the ass when they're visible. It's kind of like, showing off that you're 'getting some', which is stupid, haha. The occasional one will pop up on one of our necks on accident if we get a little over-eager and don't think about it. But generally we restrict hickies to under clothes areas.

[Asailum]

no and yes, depends all on the guy looking at her. Although the guys don't admit it, knowing a chick is getting some is a turn on because lots of guys are very naive and have very prudish mental projections onto all girls. Seeing a sign that a girl is getting some breaks that bullsh*t image.

Some guys will go for you more cause of it, and others are going to be repelled cause they want that prudish girl who has never been touched etc...

[beastman88]

hickies anywhere but the neck or else ill be pissy

[Anonymous]

Yeah it's not really cool if he didn't ask because then you get home and BAM, surprise. People judge chicks big time for that sort of thing, arguably more than men, so it's a problem if it's right on the neck or something. If elsewhere where it's not visible unless I'm super not into guy (why would he be giving me one to begin with?) it's not really that big a deal.

[Opinion Owner]

lol, misread first part, thought it was asking guys AND girls opinions. Neeevermind.

[Electric_Dreams]

Hickies p*ss me off. They're stupid and horrible.

Only thing I like about the hickie is this line - "A hickie from Kenickie is like a Hallmark card"

[lananoel]

LOL... My boyfriend loves em. and he likes the bruise as long as I put it below the collar line ... Were crazy about each other so he'll let me do almost anything to him...

[PeterCobra]

i don't really care either way. as long as I like the girl. if it was some drunk chick that came up to me in a bar dancing and did it, then yea I would be aggravated by it.

[b_luvedbaby]

The idea of it ticks my boyfriend off. He has to go to work, and the last thing he wants is for his customers to see a big hickey on his neck. I don't blame, it looks trashy.

[DonMichelle]

They're cheap, nasty and infantile. Who the hell wants a dirty brown bruise on thier neck... an idiot, that's who

[Little-Hippie]

I'd be impressed if a girl was able to successfully give me a hickie. They tend not to show up on my skin. lol

[ragazza91]

Yes I believe it does because I gave this guy a hickey and he was mad, and we had known each other for a long time

[iSkydive]

I'm fine with it as long as I really like the girl. But if I get one from a girl I don't like at all (like a few months ago), it really pisses me off.

[FrancoBattiato]

Doesn't put me off as long as it's in a place that isn't obvious.

[westman74]

unless I put it there... it's a turn off... makes me feel like I might not be the only one...

[soleillauren]

I don't like them, its hard to get rid of them too.

[Anonymous]

as long as they aren't right on my neck and super obvious, I don't mind them. I think of them more as Love Bites, as someone claiming you even though its temporary.

[sikoo31]

depends where and how its done, how red and big it is.

[erekmax]

Hell no! I love getting hickies and they only ever last a few hours on my skin. I'm pretty bronze toned.

[Anonymous]

This guy I know had a huge hickey once, and he liked it, he was like showing it off, so I think it depends on the guy...

[jayhawkX]

I don't mind hickies but they can't be visible.

[dirtjumper502]

i love getting them but I hate having them

[donthate25]

eh, depends on the dudes fetish.

[SnackG]

I would show that sh*t off. lol

[lolwhyme]

Why?

[Armada]

Not all of us would be embarrassed of what our girl would do to us.

[SnackG]

Because I've never done anything with a girl and all my friends know that.

[SnackG]

And what Armada said.

[MrEM4N]

It's not about being embarassed. It's about not looking like trash. Hickies are tacky and people who strut them like badges should reevaluate what they think is important.

[SnackG]

Well like I said I've never done anything with a girl so the first one would be exciting to me.