Is it flirty if a female friend points to a cocktail called sex on the beach on the menu and says “do you want to have sex on the beach”?

[Anonymous]

It was a cocktail she wanted to buy me due to a 2 for 1 offer.

Yes that’s flirty

It could just be friendly

[Explorer91]

The fact she offered to buy you after saying it, then yes I’d say flirty. If it was just said without offering to buy you then it was probably just a sassy joke.
However, if I’m close with a guy and have known him a while I often act like this.
So it’s probably only flirting if you have known her like under 6 months,

[Andres77]

I used to hang out with a guy. We had a party at his house. His 17 year old daughter was in charge of the drinks. He had a list of specialty drinks at the front door where he greeted us.
He'd ask if we wanted something from the menu and then yell it to the kitchen so everyone could hear.
"Jill, Andres wants a blowjob"
I guess it was supposed to be clever and funny but I was cringing all day.

[jshm2]

No. That's teasing. You must be a virgin, or socially awkward

[EmmaMary]

Gosh, many times over the years both my husband and I have had "sex on the beach" cocktails, and have never considered the possibility of it being flirty when asking each other if we want one... It's definitely food for thought though!

[Asker]

It’s more the way she asked it. You don’t normally say “do you want to have…”. You say “do you want a…”.

[EmmaMary]

Actually both can be considered correct English grammar.

[Asker]

Are you American or British?

[EmmaMary]

English (UK).

[Asker]

She doesn’t normally say “do you want to have”. She said that deliberately

[EmmaMary]

Sorry I didn't know or realised that you knew this person personally.

[Asker]

Oh right lol.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[SashaAMB]

It’s flirting. Saying it to a male friend or colleague could give the wrong impression and she most likely will know that.

[Swim4life324]

I think it for sure can be, what was her tone of voice and what were her nonverbal cues indicating when she said that?

[RoyalGuy_PRO]

Duh. But doesn't mean she is making a move (casual flirting)