If a girl invites me to have a drink with her, does that mean she wants to have sex with me?

[Anonymous]

I was invited to have a drink with a girl tonight. Yeah, she probably likes me also…

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We had sex.

[chrissykerdock]

when i invite a guy in for a drink i'm very much in the mood for giving a blowjob... as a woman it leaves me feeling sexy and desirous... plus it's nice to make a man feel good as well... and a great way to get a 2nd date.

[Anonymous]

Ya, she's down to be smashed.

[FilmGuy93]

Not necessarily, but she definitely wants to spend time with you.

[SteveSmith1985]

No dude. It does not mean that she wants to have sex.

It's possible that she does end up wanting sex. But you ABSOLUTELY SHOULD NOT take her asking you to have a drink to mean anything about sex.

What's happened here is: This girl has asked you on "A DATE".

So, yes she definitely does like you. She just "asked you out" (officially) to go on your first date.

That is what "having a drink with her" will be: A first date.

That is what she meant when she asked you. "Would you like to go out on a date with me" is exactly what she meant by inviting you to have a drink with her.

So basically what it comes down to is: You've got yourself a date with a girl who definitely likes you. Maybe she will decide she wants sex on your first date. But nothing about this should lead you to think that sex has anything to do with this (at this point).

So, don't do anything you wouldn't do on "a first date." Don't make any assumptions about sex that you wouldn't make for any "first date." 🙂

[AmandaYVR]

@SteveSmith1985 is right. Act like it's a date. It is a date. Even though dating is slowly dying, now's your chance to revive it, and be a gentleman. You can still have a good time, even if there's no sex yet.

[AmandaYVR]

Well, congrats, I guess?

Who initiated it?

[Emiliamazing]

Drinks don't always mean sexy time. A drink might relax you both, do you can actually share some thoughts and get a feel for each other without being nervous. Enjoy your evening, don't go into it with expectations.

[Emiliamazing]

Well I'm glad you both enjoyed yourself :-) hopefully there are more dates in the future?

[DubiousIntentions]

You are both dying of thirst in the desert when you find a water hole. He invites you to drink water with him. Do you think sex is liable to happen? 😝😝

[Guy13]

Sex and Suds on the House

Who cares why…. a woman is paying for something 📰 🗞…. get media, crank-up into stream the YouTube channeling. It is a totally 💯 free night.

[Anonymous]

No. That's the problem, guys think the slightest involvement means instant sex. Start at no sex before marriage and work backwards from there. I will have sex with a lot of guys, but not if he's thinking he's getting it before he even picks me up.

[lightbulb27]

she's trying to win you over to get your sperm. don't fall for it, old tactic. make her put a ring on it first!

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe but probably not. Probably means she wants to become more familiar wth you. And maybe sex somewhere down the road.

[RockyHammock]

Regardless of gender, when you get invited to someones house late at night from the bar its almost always to hookup.

[Asker]

Dang man this girl has a boyfriend…

[RockyHammock]

Surprise, girls can cheat too

[sarahsmile8839]

She might. If you act like a nomral person and not a jerk, you have a better chance.

[Soremain]

It means you have a chance. She's still evaluating so play your cards right.

[Robttyn89]

No, if a girl asks you to go for a drink then she wants to have a drink with company.

If a girl asks you to have sex with her, then she wants to have sex with you.

keep it simple

[TacosRAwesome]

Who knows. Maybe she doesn't want to drink alone

[TrillXHippy]

I hope she finds out that you think that’s what it means and doesn’t have a drink with you ever

[LiamJHayden]

I would not assume that just from an invite for a drink.

[OddBeMe]

No, it seriously depends on their personality. And how long you know her.

[TrueConfection]

Invited you to a bar or her house?

[Asker]

Literally both

[TrueConfection]

If she invited you out, she probably wants to chat and get to know you better. If she Invited you to her house 1 on 1 (not a gathering of friends), she's comfortable around you and she's interested in you (in which case sex is a possibility, but if you assume so, you'll probably blow your chance).

[KittyKat90210]

Not at all. Don't read too much into it

[AviatorTom]

Not necessarily. She may just want some company.