When a girl invites you to her place does it automatically mean she wants to f**k?

[CasaNorba]

I been told this for quite a while, I mean why else would a girl invite her crush to her place?

I even heard lots of rumors on women ranting on social media after inviting guys over to their place secretly wanting to fuck them just so these guys don't do shit or initiate anything once they're at their place.

Yes

No

[only1diva159]

If you go into a situation like that thinking that you gonna get a smash, you are in for a rude awakening buddy. Never go over to a girl's place with the mindset of "she wanna smash". Always err on the sade side and assume she just wants to hang out. Then you can see if anything happens from there. Honestly, ​though you should let her know if you want the relationship to go that far or tell her to tell you straight up.

[CasaNorba]

yea I'm pretty sure she wants to hang out for a reason.

anyways hopefully in four more years you will learn that you can have sex outside relationships as well

[evm987]

Nope. That would really depend on the girl and her mood.
For myself, inviting a guy over would not mean sex. I probably just want to be cheap and not have to pay for a movie in theater or buying dinner or whatever. Or maybe I just think he should see where I live as a step towards getting to know me.

[TingaTinga]

I think by your age, most women know that that's what a guy is thinking if you invite him over so if she really wants to avoid it she won't invite him over. It's not always the case obviously. Some just don't think of it at all and just invite him.

[markscott]

Probably when a guy is invited over to a girl's place, the thought of sex is on his mind, and he wonders what she has in mind. That does NOT mean that all guys expect sex, as that is entirely unreasonable, and believe it or not, not every guy you invite over is looking for sex from you. It's just that being at a woman's place brings up the thought of possible sex. Of course, if you know the girl well, you have a pretty good idea what to expect, and it's less likely he will get a different impression from what you intend. Movies, watching a game, etc., are all good at a girl's house, without any serious thought of sex.

[kitty71]

and if I invite a guy for cookies and coffee over my house does it still mean I want to fuc... I didi that last week but my intention was him tocome over not to f.. he did not come anyway he was busy at work.

[CasaNorba]

busy at work my ass!

lol I bet he knew just cookies and coffee wasn't worth the trip

[markscott]

If cookies and coffee and time with her weren't worth the trip, then he's the wrong kind of guy to have over anyway.

[ArrowheadSW]

I know a lady who invited a guy over who she had just met. He came in and sat on the couch. She went into the kitchen for a minute or two and when she came back in, the guy had his pants down and he was jacking off and acting like he was "french kissing" the air. She screamed and told him to leave. Man I don't know what the guy was thinking... LOL... That i the worst of those stories that I've heard...

[ArrowheadSW]

Anyway that guy must've in a major way thought it was for sex. The lady had no such intentions.

[CasaNorba]

damn that guy was one dumb demented loser alright

[Metaanio]

If she is a friend, and she sees you just a friend, it would be same as guy asking oter guy in his place.

But in your question you mentioned crush, then I don't think they always ask you for sex, but just to know you better and talk to you in familiar surroundings, watch TV/movies, but it can possible lead to sex, just don't expect it.

[ChronicThinker]

No. I could just be making you food or wanna watch a movie casually.

[CasaNorba]

so I guess you just automatically kick them out after the movie/dinner is over?

[ChronicThinker]

No, we can hangout. Talk, makeout, pussy only comes into the equation when you commit to me, and I'm honest about that the moment you meet me.

[Asker321]

Pussy for relationship. No offense but that's an exchange deal.

[CasaNorba]

@Asker321 good one @Asker321!

I guess after all that is the only thing they have to offer in a relationship nowadays

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 Lol uh, I mean, yeah aren't all relationships an equal exchange? Or am I just supposed to give you the pussy out of charity?

[CasaNorba]

wow @ChronicThinker so you a whore now ey?

[ChronicThinker]

I'm engaged to the first man I had sex with, so I guess it depends on what you classify as a whore.

[ChronicThinker]

My personal understanding is a whore is someone who has sex with multiple partners.

[Asker321]

And now you have to explain where the difference to prostitution is.

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 Prostitution is the exchange of money for sex. My man wasn't looking to just have sex with me, he actually wanted a relationship with me. For me to be a prostitute I would be receiving monetary gain in exchange for sex, and considering I made - and still make - significantly more money than my fiancé who never had to spend a penny on me (we always split on our dates) I am not a prostitute. At your age, I would really hope and expect you to understand the difference and to understand that choosing to not have sex outside of a relationship is not wrong just because it prevents you from getting your dick wet as effortlessly as you'd like.

Please exercise a little bit of logic gentlemen.

[Asker321]

Don't take it literally but ethically.

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 So by me wanting to build trust with someone and wanting to fall in love before I feel comfortable offering up a very vulnerable side of myself that makes me ETHICALLY a prostitute.

... What?

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 If that's the case I'm running to church and calling every woman who saved their virginity for their husbands whores and prostitutes. Lmao.

[CasaNorba]

actually a whore is a person who has sex as collateral for money, favors, status and many other goods.

a SLUT is "someone who has sex with multiple partners."

[ChronicThinker]

So how is dating supposed to work in your head exactly then? Are you just supposed to point at me and I spread my legs? I'm trying really hard to understand where it is apparently whoreish to want to have sex with someone you love and trust. So, please enlighten me how women are actually supposed to behave in order not to be whores.

[Asker321]

You're saying you don't need trust for making out but just to give your pussy. Not really credible.

[chris1984]

*gets out popcorn*

i wanna see where this goes 😊

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 I never said I didn't need trust to makeout with someone, obviously if I'm letting you into my house, there's SOME trust, but trust come in levels. I can kiss you and trust that I probably am not going to be in a position that is too compromising. Being ass naked with a guy on top of you is a totally different situation.

So please, tell me, for me to NOT be a prosititute and a whore, am I just supposed to throw myself at you sexually? Because you have me confused.

[ChronicThinker]

@chris1984 Right?

[chris1984]

i'm curious to see how deep he digs himself on this one. because he's really stretching the definition of prostitution here 😂

[CasaNorba]

to me dating is "prostitution" but in a hypocritical and a dishonest way. I already written lots of mytakes on this and on why I rather fuck real prostitutes instead because they are cheaper in the long run.

anyways the way you sound a couple of seconds ago didn't sound like a vocabulary that relates to "love and trust." lets not forget that the three keys of a woman's heart is looks, money and status. these are the three things that women need in order to trust and fall in love with a guy and if you ask me these are things that whores go after

[CasaNorba]

and there you have it @chris1984 you should go read a few of my mytakes to see for yourself how logically I stretch the definition of prostitution

[ChronicThinker]

My fiancé makes less money that me, always has and still does. He works part time and goes to college. He has no money or status lol. I'm with him because he's an awesome guy, and yeah I think he's attractive but unless you're willing to fuck Mama June then I think it's fair to say there's nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone you're attracted to.

But you still didn't answer my question. If I'm a whore for having sex with someone I fell in love with how can I no longer be a whore?

[markscott]

You've got it right. He has no business just expecting a fuck just because he has been invited over. A girl can just want to hang out, watch a movie, etc. She doesn't owe a guy anything but consideration and a reasonable degree of politeness.

[Asker321]

What i'm saying is if you were really that consequent, you wouldn't even have a making out with someone you're not committed to.

[ChronicThinker]

@markscott What I am basically understanding here is that for me to not be a whore and a prostitute I am NOT allowed to have standards, I am NOT allowed to want a relationship beforehand, and I am basically just supposed to have sex with any guy who wants to have sex with me.

Am I right or am I right?

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 So answer my question: for me to not be a prostitute then, I have to just have sex with you without any moral or standards involved then.

Oh and I'm not allowed to kiss anyone, right? Just to clarify

[CasaNorba]

I guess by leaving him @ChronicThinker

[anon08]

.. ..

[ChronicThinker]

So women have to completely refuse to have sex with and involve themselves with men then, correct? I need to know because I made a question about this and people want answers.

[Asker321]

You just don't have to set rules to give your pussy and that's all.

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 So I'm just supposed to have sex with you upon your request and have no right to say no because that's "setting rules"?

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 Just need to clarify.

[Chanel1981]

@chronicthinker excellent question! I'm curious about that as well

[ChronicThinker]

@Chanel1981 I'd like it answered because I'm confused. If I'm not allowed to want to wait for trust and commitment because that's "setting rules" am I not allowed to say no at all? Because if I refuse because I don't know you well enough that's essentially no different than saying no because I want commitment and trust lol. So I just gotta know.

[Chanel1981]

Now my interest is piqued as well!

[chris1984]

this really is pretty funny 😊

so on the one side we have someone saying that by requiring certain standards of behaviour before having sex, a woman is basically prostituting herself for "behaviour" rather than "goods". which is a serious stretch of definition but i see the logic.

on the other hand we have someone saying they require a certain degree of trust before they expose themselves to the potential risks of having sex. which seems fair to me.

and then we have someone who seems to just want a reason girls can't refuse the d 😂

[ChronicThinker]

@chris1984 Yeah that's what I'm gathering.

[Asker321]

If you'd really love each other there were no reason to set any rules. I mean what if the guy lies to you just to get your pussy? What i'm saying is Love can't be arranged by words.

[Krumpir]

@Asker321
@CasaNorba

Woooow. I mightbe a virgin, but at leastI am not an idiot who doesn't respect women and calls them whores when they DON'T sleep with you...

SHAMEEEEEE

[Chanel1981]

@chris1984 right? Meanwhile, this kid gets invited to someone's home and basically wants to know if it appropriate to rape her, guess that wasn't on the invite 😂

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 I've had guys try to lie to get my vagina, that's why my man and I took our time and fell in love first before I was comfortable. I didn't set this strict timeline. I wanted to fall in love and be committed first and we had sex.

Given what you're saying, I was just supposed to have sex with him while disregarding my own comfort.

[CasaNorba]

lmao @Krumpir and just a heads up, you're gonna stay a virgin if you keep up that attitude

[ChronicThinker]

At least I have my answers, I'm gonna update my question now lol

[CasaNorba]

@Chanel1981 sounds like you can't tell the difference between actual sex and rape

[Krumpir]

I'd rather die a virgin than have empty head. Most famous virgin: Tesla. I might be having good chamces eh "boi"?

[ChronicThinker]

@Krumpir Yeah man don't you know women love it when you put them down and call them sluts, whores and prostitutes when they don't sleep with you? Lmao

[Asker321]

Now you changed it from "committed" to falling in love. Nice try.

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 I said both lol. What do you mean "nice try"? I don't date dudes I don't have love for. Seriously man how old are you? You can't address anything I'm saying other than denying it all and you're fucking thirty.

So please tell me how I can not be a prostitute. Is it by not wanting commitment? Because that seems to be the issue here. I have to have sex OUTSIDE of relationships to not be a prostitute, right?

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 IF you want to know exactly how me and my fiancé got together, we "dated" (without commitment" for about five months total before we ever got together, and in that time yeah we fell for each other and got together. We had sex maybe three weeks after that. Are you trying to tell me THAT practice makes me a prostitute?

[Krumpir]

Hey, just block both of these idiots. Make yourself a favor and save yourself some nerves.

[ChronicThinker]

@Krumpir Honestly I'm not blocking anyone. I'm not even slightly upset, this stuff is both intriguing and funny to me lol.

[Chanel1981]

@casanorba I don't think I'm the confused party in this conversation. Since when does a dinner invitation include sex?

[ChronicThinker]

@Chanel1981 It does when you're MGTOW.

[Chanel1981]

@chronicthinker. Ahh... I see. This poor lady should have just suggested a restaurant! 😂

[Asker321]

You don't have to have sex outside of a relationship. Just being natural and going with the flow is the real deal.

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 That's what I fucking did lmao so why am I a prostitute?

[Asker321]

You didn't. Love can't be forced by Arrangements. Many if not most girls are thinking like you and many guys are turned off by it cause it feels so constrained to talk about it. Like i said earlier if you really love each other there is no reason to force it by setting rules.

[Chanel1981]

@chronicthinker clearly he can't answer that!

[chris1984]

@asker321 your arguments come across as "women should just give it up naturally as things progress". i think i understand your meaning but it sounds a bit rapey.

[ChronicThinker]

@chris1984 That's what I'm starting to see and I agree with that but it's confusing how it started out by saying that by wanting commitment first, that's prostitution, and then saying it's not commitment, it's setting rules, and going on and on... I'm having a hard time understanding if he's just changed his mind and is backing down or explained it poorly.

[CaptainSmartass]

@chris1984 Same here dude. (GETS OUT LARGE DRINK)

[ChronicThinker]

@CaptainSmartass I want one

[Chanel1981]

I've read his last response several times and I'm still not confident I know what the hell he's trying to say but somehow it amuses me!

[CaptainSmartass]

(GETS LARGE DRINK FOR @ChronicThinker) Here ya go...

[ChronicThinker]

@CaptainSmartass Thanks babe

[CaptainSmartass]

@ChronicThinker It's cool, babe. You want anything else?

[ChronicThinker]

@CaptainSmartass Yeah checkout my new question!

Should attractive women be auctioned so ugly, low tier men can get laid? ↗

[CasaNorba]

@Krumpir yea too bad that's the only thing you and Tesla have in common. when you discover the things he did then you can talk and believe you're the one with the empty head here since it sounds like you believe standing up for women is gonna get you the approval you're desperately fetching

[Asker321]

@Chanel1981 "Or am I just supposed to give you the pussy out of charity?"

This sentence says a lot.

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 That moment when buddy ignores everything and digs out one comment and avoids all questions.

Loololololololololololol

Case closed.

[CasaNorba]

@Chanel1981 I never said it does, but I don't see why it wouldn't

[Asker321]

You're the one backing down, not me.

[ChronicThinker]

Are y'all divorced by chance?

[CasaNorba]

@ChronicThinker this has nothing to do with mgtow

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 I'm not backing down, you just won't answer any of my questions directly and it baffles me

[Chanel1981]

@Asker321 what's your point?

[ChronicThinker]

While y'all are here can you answer my new question?

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Should attractive women be auctioned so ugly, low tier men can get laid? ↗

[Asker321]

So hypocritical..

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 But will you answer my Q tho?

[CasaNorba]

@Asker321 I think we are wasting time here trying to persuade these blind little sheep. either way they're all gonna end up in the same slaughter house sooner or later

[Chanel1981]

@casanorba my mistake, apologies

[ChronicThinker]

Baaaaaaa

[CasaNorba]

apologies for what? @Chanel1981

[Chanel1981]

@casanorba I tagged you on something you didn't say, there's so many moving parts here!

[ChronicThinker]

@Chanel1981 Yeah I have a tendency to cause shit shows.

[Asker321]

I stay away from those chick bro.

[ChronicThinker]

@Asker321 But the sex is great, I can promise you that.

[CaptainSmartass]

@ChronicThinker I think this is fun watching him dig himself deer and deeper...

[ChronicThinker]

I just find it funny when I stir shit up

[Chanel1981]

@chronicthinker I don't see a problem! It's amusing

[CasaNorba]

I know right, @Asker321?

these dudes really think they're getting something out of this

[CasaNorba]

"But the sex is great, I can promise you that."

yeap that's the only thing you got to offer after all @ChronicThinker.

[ChronicThinker]

Nah I can cook and make cocktails too. And I’m really funny. I’m actually pretty amazing but if I’m a whore no matter what I do I may as well be a good whore 😘

[CasaNorba]

that's the spirit! at least you're not a dishonest one

[ChronicThinker]

Nah I’m a big dirty slut bag

[CasaNorba]

nothing wrong with that just as long as you don't lose your honor

[ChronicThinker]

Never.

[mobiusforniner]

I feel like most women know what a man is thinking when she invites him over to her place. If she doesn't want it to happen, she wouldn't invite him.

That said, I've been invited a few times.

One girl just wanted to sit around and watch "Big Bang Theory" all day. I tried cuddling up with her and she freaked out.

Another girl, a coworker, invited me over and she became very awkward. Like bipolar awkward. She shared a couple shots whiskey with me. We hugged multiple times- I enjoyed holding her; and suddenly she said I needed to leave. I napped in my car to wear off the buzz and went home.

Girls are weird.

[AviatorTom]

It doesn't necessarily mean she wants to fuck, but it does mean she wants to spend some private time with you, to get to know you. That may turn physical, it may not.

The guy should not have any expectations, other than he's going to spend some time with the girl.

[bobbywiz79]

When it comes to sex, there is no "automatically" and you shouldn't make any assumptions. COMUNICATION! Imagine if you just assume she wants to get down and dirty and she really just wanted to hang and not be alone, but you go groping and grinding on her. You've now assaulted her and turned her off for any kind of future where she does want to get it on. And all because you didn't ask.

[PunkinPie]

No, Jeez. I invited a guy over to watch football and made food because I was tired of going out and spending money. I didn't want sex, I wanted to relax and watch the game.

[Anon-ymous1]

No. It's not the same as it is if a guy invites you over. I mean, it may be SOMEwhere, KIND of, a LITTLE bit, MAYbe, POSSibly, sort of on her mind. Maybe. Or it could be intensely on her mind and she wants you to rail her. But is the simple fact of her inviting you over enough to know for sure? Nope, not at all. Let her make the first move. And if she thinks that her inviting you over IS the first move, she's wrong. Good luck.

[MlleCake]

There is never a time when you should assume any woman wants to fuck for sure. Go in with no expectations. Then communicate with her about what you both desire.

[nickyBBB]

Hmm nah... if I would invite a guy over that won't mean that, unless we are in a very very serious relationship (which by then... we should be living together 🙃😂)

[shashank1990]

Not always
Understand that a girl sometimes just wants to hang out.
Walk in without any expectations and if things work out for you then good for you.

[BillieJean1070]

In today's atmosphere you better ask her when you get there.

[ArrowheadSW]

LOL Yeah the guy shouldn't just start getting undressed... LOL

[bellybuttonlint]

Of course not... I would never assume that. Sometimes she just wants some company.

[CasaNorba]

you know what company leads to right?

[bellybuttonlint]

I mean it sounds like that's what you want as opposed to what actually is going to happen.

[chris1984]

automatically down to fuck? nah.

likely she wants some alone time with you that MAY lead to fucking? yep.

[EpicDweeb]

It might be a good indicator but never ever ever assume that's what it means or you will go to jail. xD

[Ryry97]

Not automatically but if you have something going then try to

[Assburgers]

Have you never been to a woman's house before? doesn't seem like you ever did.

[CasaNorba]

No, and your point?

[AllThatSweetJazz]

No, but that's irrelevant. Just try it if it seems right. Dullards are looking external confirmation, you have to just try.

[CaptainSmartass]

I would have thought it meant she wants to hang out casually. Maybe she's cooking dinner for a change, or she wants to watch a movie, or even play computer games.

Simples...

[Likes2drive]

Not necessarily, she may just want to just hang out eat and watch some movies, it also depends how long you’re dating each other

[Kuraj]

No, because some women are dumb and don't recognize the logical implications of their actions.

[demonics]

Never heard of this before but I can't say a woman has ever invited me in and it didn't lead to sex.

[maestrodematimaticas]

It means she probably does but still reserves the right to say no.

[SovietBall]

Don't be just a dick!

If a girl invites you to her place, play it cool and see how things will come up

[utterlyconfusedlol]

my girl friends told me this so i brought a condom with me... still a virgin

[Asker321]

It means she is down to fuck and the rest is up to you.

[Goodwifie]

Just don't do the naked man thing.

[markscott]

LOL.

[anon08]

*starts playing Flo Rida*

[Rational_Force]

It depends on how traditional the female is.

[COCOCHANEL]

in my case no, but in japan many people think so.

[CasaNorba]

funny I wonder how many of those women I heard complain were actually from japan

[markscott]

In some oriental countries, bringing a guy home is a big deal. The parents, the neighbors and the relatives are all interested. It's getting less that way, however.

[hellacray]

Hmm you don't say.

[cupidkisses]

No it doesn't mean so.

[jacquesvol]

DDI t might happen, but don't expect it.

[Flower-petal]

That'd be why I'd invite a man over

[Feels]

Media is really fucking us up..

[art84]

Unless things get serious in the relationship.

[ThatBoiCort]

Hell nah, bring a condom just in case 😝

[jaydtre]

Not necessarily, every girl is different.

[iFarted]

No, but I get how it can be quite misleading.

[BronzedAdonis]

She wants to play sudoku

[alexin]

No, not necessarily!

[DanFlingwing]

no that doesn't mean she wants to bang

[interstellar]

Only fuck me means fuck me nothing else.

[omgjassy]

Slow your roll homie

[CT_CD]

Yes..