When a guy invites you to his house does that mean he just wants sex?

[Anonymous]

Hi, I just found girlsaskguys and thought this would be a good place for this question:

When a guy invites a girl to his house, does that basically mean he just wants sex even though we're close friends? He's an older man (probably close to 50) if that means anything; he's not some young horny teen.

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+1 y

Actually let me rephrase my comment - I really, really like this guy but am not sure what his intentions are: if he wants us to be just friends or more. I have no intention of having sex, but I would absolutely love to cuddle and/or kiss him.

[jbone79]

well, just because he's old, doesn't mean his dick is broken. He may want to have sex with you or he may want you to do some laundry. lol It can go either way with senior citizens. My advice however is not to cuddle and kiss a geezer if you have no plans to finish the job. An old man with blue balls chalk full of Viagra will probably literally explode with in front of you. And man, that can just get weird. If you plan to cuddle and kiss santa, at least be polite and off a handjob. It's low budget, but satisfying to those in their golden years. - believe in Jesus. j

[dave216]

Cuddle and kiss, ya I'm sure that is what he wants too. Oh well, as long as you get what you want out of it.

[Secretgirl]

Not necessarily sex, but it does mean he wants to get closer to you.

Inviting people to come over is the best way to save money too! It’s also comfortable! Who knows what he wants, the best way to figure it out is to ask!

[iridescent]

sounds like you don't exactly trust him not to just want sex. I wouldn't go if I felt like you.

[Asker]

Um, that didn't really answer my question. I really, really like him but would never want to have sex with him (call me old-fashioned but I plan on waiting until marriage)....I would love to cuddle or kiss him though.

[iridescent]

Well if you trust him enough to go..then by all means.

him inviting you sounds like he wants to enjoy your company. I wouldn't assume that would be his only intention. My first answer was completely in response to how you posed the question. I was only aware of the friendship aspect of your relationship. Now I have to say that if you guys have had some intimacy (the cuddling and kissing that you want) I'm sure that it would be something he would consider a possibility.

[Asker]

Thanks for the specifics, sorry I didn't mean to sound rude there.

[Sir-Robert]

Nope, I am planning on abstinence till marriage but I would see nothing wrong in inviting a girlfriend over

[Asker]

Good for you. Me, too :)

[Sir-Robert]

Then stick to it, if he pressures you for sex just leave, remove yourself from the situation, find a guy who likes you for you, not for sexuality, not saying sex is bad, but its something that should be saved for married couples

[tayt4]

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[Whoknows87]

you better pack some cialis with you...cause he sounds like sally's limp.

[Asker]

"sally's limp", lol, what does that mean?

[Anonymous]

Not always, He just want you to feel like your his girl or he just want himself to feel your his girl . Maybe privacy

this is by a guy

[ilovedaniel11708]

not always but it could it all depends on the guy