When he invites you over to his place for your second date is he expecting anything sexual?

[Anonymous]

This guy I’ve been texting for the past 3 months has invited me over to his place for our second date. We’ve only been able to meet once due to the ongoing pandemic and we’re currently in lockdown. However he said he’s willing to break the rules for me so we can hang out cus truth is we’re not quite sure when restrictions will lift. I was a bit skeptical towards the idea of going over to his at first so I suggested a walk in the park instead and he replied this

by the way can I say I’m never ever gonna suggest something that you don’t want! So if you fancied a drink and a chill... there’s literally no other agenda. Absolutely nothing haha

I really like him and I really wanna be with him. Obviously I wouldn’t mind kissing him and probably making out but it’s too soon for sex.

[PrudentGuy]

Three months and only one date so far. Indeed the lockdown is wearing all of us down!

And speaking as a guy, I think guys your age should be full of hormones and this three months of online romance is driving him sky high every day.

Hence although to you is kissing and hugging without sex, but to him is sex sex sex!

Thus my Opinion is, be cautious if you're not ready for sex yet. And yes, meet outside is better than in his home. And perhaps create an opportunity to tell him that there will be no sex would be proper.

[Asker]

But he said this

by the way can I say I’m never ever gonna suggest something that you don’t want! So if you fancied a drink and a chill... there’s literally no other agenda. Absolutely nothing haha

And I answered
I don’t wanna feel pressured just because I’m going over there and such

And he said:
Lol I’d never pressure you...

[Asker]

Plus he knows I’m a virgin cause I’ve told him in a conversation so he knows I wanna go slowly

[PrudentGuy]

Well, in Shakespeare term, his acts are called "accost", "wooing"; in modern term it's "hitting" or crudely "trying his luck" 😄

No no, nothing wrong. This is what guys do when he's in a romantic relationship and this is also his way to get you to bed.

Fundamentally, it's up to you.

If you are not ready, then tell him so. But bear in mind, if he's deprive of sex for too long, he may seek out another. Hence, known that the ball is in your court.

[virgin20]

I really don't think the answer can be made unless you know the 2 people in the relationship.
I think it could be just physically hanging out and it's cold so it's indoors and warm. Maybe if yous have had talks about it it could be on the cards. But defintely making out and things if you have that click.
If you aren't wanting sex make that clear

[0112358]

Normally yes. However if people explicitly say what he said I’d assume he’s open but but not requiring. And pandemic has changed the sort of dating possible.

[Gedaria]

It would seem you are breaking the rules already

[Asker]

Well that doesn’t answer my question

[Asker]

We know that lol but that’s not the point

[KrakenAttackin]

Of course he will want to fuck.

[Anonymous]

always