If a guy offers to you cook you a meal in his house, is that pretty much an invitation for sex?

[Anonymous]

Sorry, it sounds so harsh in the title but I had character limits lol

I know if a guy invites you back up to his place after a date, that probably (not always) means he is thinking of sex and if you accept then it's like you agree. But if he offers to cook you dinner at his place, is that the same thing - that if you agree, then sex is pretty much a given after dinner?

[DamieWamie]

Well, not immediately anyhow. I sometimes do it for girls that I reeaaallly like, because I know they like guys who can cook or at least try to. My intentions for the future are of course "yes, we will eventually have sex," but almost NEVER for that invitation. That would just be raunchy and overtly horny, and I think most guys know that they shouldn't be doing things like that just go get sex. We do it so the girl will warm up to us, she gains out trust in these ways, and THEN in the future yes that girl better give up the butt cheeks lol! xD

[islands7]

Sex is never guaranteed in any date but I see your point that it's easier after dinner to privately move to the sofa & beyond, a slippery slope into the bedroom. That said, a man that is demonstrating his homey side is interested in you on a higher plane than that, so until the mood changes from homey to horney, give him an "A"

[PoeticNinja]

Well said sir.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Everything guys do with a girl is to one of two ends;

1 - to further the relationship between them

2 - for sex

The former is generally the more responsible, moral, less good-looking, 'nice' guy whilst the latter is the typical 'hotty' that's had girls at his every beckon for years.

[stubbsy]

This is not always a expectancy, but you can bet that if its in the cards, he won't mind playing the hand,x

[Anonymous]

Pretty much. Always there will be exceptions but you can bet that's what his intentions are, or at least hoping.

[sooooconfused]

Depends on the guy.