Guys, Do guys expect sex if they invite you to their house on a first date?

[Anonymous]

If so, why?

Especially now during lockdown we dont have many other options than to hang out at someones house. I know under normal circumstances it would mean sex

[MrOracle]

Most guys would HOPE for sex, but not necessarily EXPECT it. But you are also perfectly entitled to accept such an invitation under the understanding that sex is off the table (for the time being). Some guys would then rescind the invitation - which tells you that sex was all he cared about - and other guys would happily accept those rules so that you were at ease to enjoy the movie and the relaxing atmosphere.

[Trooper205]

No. The most I'd expect is probably a Movie or a Couch Cuddle. I was invited to my Lover's house in the past as a first Get-together, and what we did was just sit and cuddle. Little kissing, little snuggling, a bit of just sitting and sighing... Nothing major.

[slatyb]

Some guys probably do. I kept my expectations low so I was never disappointed, but often pleasantly surprised.

[Zally]

After reading this I feel like I can't invite girls over unless I fuck them now 😅. Tell me, do girls only accept first date house invitations under the impression they might have to have sex?

[Asker]

No definitely not all, but some do :) i guess if you both make it clear nothing will happen unless you are both fine with it then its fine

[Avicenna]

Definitely. They also expect it if women invite them over to her place.

[Avicenna]

I've never even thought about inviting a date over to my place on the first, second or third date.

[jasco]

I mean there are places to go where there isn't people, like the park and or just a drive around u know so yea

[iFarted]

No, but I'd I'll certainly push little hints towards sex. I guess it does also depend on the vibes I'm getting from here.

[LukeMerchant]

Depends how would date go, but defitetely would't force sth she doesn't want to.

[Jamie05rhs]

Why would that mean sex?

[Asker]

i dont know, i feel like that has become pretty common (not saying I agree)

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, I don't care what other people think. I don't think that way. Not everything has to be dirty.

[Anonymous]

No, but it would be appreciated.

[spartan55]

Apparently the type of guy you date does.

[Asker]

Why?

[spartan55]

Because you are asking this question... duh.

[Asker]

That doesn't make sense

[spartan55]

It makes complete sense.

[Shy_Steve]

Only if we've had 2 dates with you already.

[AnthonyJ01]

I personally do not expect it.

[MountAverage]

Stop grossly generalizing us like that.

[Asker]

I didn't generalize, first of all. I asked a question. If i were a guy i would have been asking this about females :)

[MountAverage]

Did you even read your own question? You didn't ask "do some guys" or at least "do most guys". Not, you simply asked "do GUYS". Whether it was your intention or not, but the way you worded it, your question was generalizing men.

So, what is your actual question? Whether "most guys" expect sex in that situation? Hard to say without a study. But I think it's safe to say that most guys would HOPE for sex. Obviously.

[Jmmmfi4]

I'm sure it would cross his mind

[B2281]

I don't expect that.

[TheAfrikan]

Nope not all.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn't