This girl added/followed me on IG, didn’t know her, she send me memes, call me, text me, ask how I’m doing, laugh at my corny jokes, great rapport, etc. but then says that? Thinks I’m an awesome guy who’s cool and funny but if a girl says that Is it a fear of commitment?
Does she have unresolved emotions towards men/guys. For some reason she told me males made her lose trust in them and she's often said she feels like kicking a guy in the balls for being a jerk or asshole to her, so I kinda just played it off by saying “well I guess I shouldn’t get on your bad side then”, she’s like yea you shouldn’t.
What Girls Said
If she is suggesting you see other girls too then that means she is likely seeing other guys and intends to keep doing that. Sounds like to me that she doesn't want to commit to any one person at the moment and explore her options. Not my style of dating but hey if that is what she wants to do then so be it. You can do the same thing. I like to just focus on one person at a time. I find trying to go on dates with multiple people is just too time consuming and confusing to make happen.
But why do girls do that? It causes more drama down the road.
I agree. Not something I would consider doing personally.
Yea so an argument erupted from her comment and now I no longer talk to her. Because after the first date went great, and after almost a year of talking, I admitted to her that I like her, that’s when she said she’s open to meeting for another date but I should maybe talk to other girls. It broke my heart when she said that. Because girls have to understand it’s not easy finding a guy who has his life together, cares about her family, cares about her, works hard and has masculine traits to good morals and ethics. It’s been a month since I last spoke to her and I do miss her. But I do believe strongly that she will regret what transpired.