Apart from your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?

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NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I have a confident presence wherever/anywhere I go... so that rarely or never goes unnoticed. It's not that I go everywhere and anywhere and show up like I own the world but, if I have to be somewhere is because of something, and I like to get to it, or approach someone, engage... to get it done. Another thing I do is to "scan" everything and everyone, quickly and discreet usually... but I do it, and many other people do notice it.

In the cases in which I have to sit and wait, or in line, be calm etcétera... I start to fidget, and while that might sound like a sign of stress, nervousness or insecurity/anxiety, I do fidget confidently... lol. People can notice that as well.

Just recalled something else... I rarely or never am on my phone looking at the screen to past time, and while it might take some time, some people notice that and stare a bit wonder why I am not... perhaps is the fact that robbers do this, they have their hands free and their attention around on everyone else phones. Security guards always keep an eye on me for some extra seconds.

Alejandro3000 · Accepted Answer

Because of my baby face people trust me, i know this for sure now.
I am indian and i was sat in a university library during a graduation doing my work on a desk and a family sat her 7yr old English white girl directly opposite me. In another moment a girl had put her suitcase near me and said she needs to go to the bathroom and came back 30mins later.
Finally 3 school teen girls sat next to me on a table seat during a train ride home and fell asleep, one girl was kicking my foot for fun and it's as though she knew id not be mean to her.

CookiesAndCream2 · Accepted Answer

Accent as I'm not American.
Personality, I'm easy going and fun loving. And why people remember me years later even if we just worked together for a day at that.

Appearance wise it's the eyes that get people as they're grey. Fair skin, blonde hair, grey eyes.

Gwenhwyfar · Accepted Answer

Depends. Could be charm, could be sex appeal, could be intelligence, could be kindness and empathy. Really depends on which side of myself I choose to present.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

My splendiferous vocabulary. JK. I frequently hear that I am easy to talk to.

Finchie40 · Answer

My personality , I tend to smile a lot and enjoy life as much as possible , l I am pretty content with my life and I also like to make others smile , if I can put a smile on someone’s face then to me I did a good thing , life is too short to be miserable and their is a lot of negativity in this world , so I tend to look over that best I can and focus on the positives

InventorofWarp · Answer

It's usually either my tattoos or my eyes. I get tons of remarks on both about 50/50 that I apparently have strikingly emotive and puppy dogish eyes or about how cool all of my ink is, one of the most recent of which (past few days) happens to be directly below one of my eyes.

crazy8000 · Answer

The vibes they get.
How I treat others.
Tends to have clothes with colors that pops out or that doesn't fit into one in the bunch.
Do my thing.
Doesn't care what other's think or say about me.
Have a tendency to speak my mind, straight forward, brutal honest, unapologetic.
Can be odd.
People tends to feel comfortable and calm.
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blank_expression · Answer

I am an enterprising person but mixed with the ability to read people precisely on an emotional level. I sense stuff sometimes that makes me wonder if I am insane on occasion. I have been told by associates/bosses that I read people to a scary level. That has allowed me to walk through any door. The other thing that the smart ones only see is that I am usually cagey as hell in a very humorous way. It goes over most heads though.

Bethmelan123 · Answer

My friendly demeanor😊 I smile a lot and I always look people in the eye 👀while talking to them. However am also an introvert so I tend to be by myself most of the time. I will only talk to you if you approach me first.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Just based on people's reaction I'd say my height. I'm 6'5" and people act like it's really tall or something.

broken_heart_at_48 · Answer

My presence I've been told many times that my dominants can be felt when I walk in a room also that I'm somewhat intimidating. I'm confident in who I am but I don't think I'm intimidating and definitely don't mean to be. This is something I've been told a lot

cth96190 · Answer

Possibly my voice and my bearing.
It is not unusual for people to think that I am upper class British, rather than Australian.
That may be the result of old-school broadcast voice training and a lot of theatre.
The way that I carry and present myself is what one may expect of a former Royal Australian Armoured Corps officer.

Anpu23 · Answer

Oh my clothing. I am quite different in my style even into the office I wear a derby hat.

Ekvark · Answer

Gonna have to say my height is my hair. It's always an exclamation about either of the two that's something I obviously already know. But it's all good.

Leavesbound · Answer

That I am socially awkward, laugh at things that are not funny and don't laugh at things that are and use non standard speech patterns and syntax.

pjf1958 · Answer

The fact that I'm old. 63 years old. Even when no one can see me, it's the way that I talk, and articulste my thoughts. It May not be a dead giveaway immediately, but eventually yeah.

45Fstraight · Answer

I suppose this is something I should be aware of, but I have no idea. I hope they think I'm friendly and kind, but maybe I come across as an overconfident snob. How can I find out? Should I find out?

TheorionMage · Answer

The WIDE span of my life experience and expertise... ;)

H2oboys · Answer

I'm a single father with two little boys. The first thing they noticed usually is how close and devoted I am with my kids how good of a parent I am how good of a dad I am. Not just girls I think everybody that's seeing me or ran into me or is any kind of a friend notices the same thing it's pretty obvious.

kaylaS91 · Answer

Depends on who they are (coworkers, boss, the guy I'm seeing, etc..) but a common thing I've heard is that I come across as calm and confident.

JDavid25 · Answer

My walk or overall demeanor.. Some people have told me I have a nice walk.. Almost like I'm about to dance, and I have a very cool, calm, looking demeanor... Until you talk to me after a while.. LOL..

Geckoman · Answer

That I’m really tall, 6 feet 3 inches tall to be exact, I’m also really funny, and dashingly handsome, LOL jk about that last part.

IAMNathanael · Answer

Once someone said I'm pretty well spoken for a kid who looks like a stoner.

blondfrog · Answer

Hard to tell cause I dont' show just anyone my true personality. Also depending on the environment I will act in a certain wait. Basically like adjusting.

oldawg · Answer

I have been told that it's one of two things it's either my eyes or my smile. I have been told that I have an infectious smile.

ArztSchlachthof · Answer

My enthusiasm. Always been told that I cannot fail purely for the fact I never surrender. If I do something, I do it with grand interest and focus.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

"Wow- he walks fast. He must be in a big hurry.". (And I am.)

msc545 · Answer

Generally speaking, my lab coat, the name and letters on it, and my voice. I am told there is something unusual about my voice although I cannot hear it.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Humor and friendlyness. If its online my awful spelling and grammer.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Apparently I am good at coming off as being happy go lucky.

bannacookies · Answer

Probably my hair or shoulders. A lot of people mention my shoulders.🤷‍♀️

Ryfyle · Answer

I have severely Fucked up if anybody notices me. That's a thing that just doesn't fucking happen. I'm in and out, a living ghost, I make myself known when I see fit. It's my eyes.

Mehzmeh · Answer

I have been told I am intimidating looking. Until they come talk to me. Lol. I am 6' 2" 245 all muscle black man. So I sorta get it? I guess. Lol

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I've always been complimented on my light blue eyes

Lhinzo · Answer

That i have a very funny leg, not your normal kinda leg, kinda curved 😂😂😂😂 AKA Bow Leg its called, surprisingly am taller than 5'9

BareNecessary · Answer

Hopefully they notice my large overgrown ass ripping and softly bulging overflowing tenacious personality

kellytheman · Answer

I always told how I have great confidence and charming i am.

SicklyGamingVirgin · Answer

That I’m more “robotic” then most people as I have Aspergers disorder.

NibirX · Answer

Judgement metric... I notice that... how she sees the world...

LemiaOfTheCodes · Answer

I look younger then 33

keniyaa · Answer

my personality, kindness

beebella · Answer

Probably how quiet/shy I am.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Perhaps how quiet I am

collie22 · Answer

i'm nice to everyone

JosyJosy · Answer

That I'm quiet but not shy

exitseven · Answer

My dry sense of humor.

lorenzomichael · Answer

That I'm always in a good mood.

Midnight_Kiss · Answer

The fact I have my guard up 24/7

electromagnetic · Answer

The unidentifiable accent.

ItsLynn · Answer

Not sure probably my race I would guess

wearehere2002 · Answer

how loud my voice is

Shy_Steve · Answer

Usually that I'm Shy and Qiuet.

TwoowT · Answer

Strong personality and confidence.

ConfusedMarried · Answer

My kindness

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

My blatant honesty

oxoxo-lover · Answer

My height.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Isn't that enough? The will notice... distance.

humanearth · Answer

My likeable personalty

TessCasie · Answer

Smile

Rawr2021 · Answer

Their eyes and how they act.

yoslutt_com · Answer

Slutty character🤷‍♀️

red_knight · Answer

RESPECT. POWER. BBAANNAANNAAAA!!!

OddBeMe · Answer

Usually my horribly dark humor.

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