I'm a sophomore in college, but my freshman year was online. Do you guys have any tips on how to flirt with girls? What do girls like? What flatters a girl.
Take it from me. I speak from experience. Guys that came across as too flirtatious were not well received. Especially when they were selfish and cared more about themselves than the girl they were pursuing. That was me. Guilty as charged.
But I learned from mature men who were in my life.
Instead be the humble, yet strong and assertive young man, girls are looking for. Be the selfless friend that builds a reputation for being dependable, kind, generous selfless and a good listener. Don't come across as needy, pushy or clingy. Show them you can lead them, protect them and when the opportunity arises to highlight their attributes, take the opportunity and do it with finesse.
Never compliment a sexual appeal like, "Damn girl, those (insert body part) are smoking hot." Instead compliment them on other attractive traits. Look at their eyes, do they attract you? If so, tell her she has beautiful eyes. If she has small facial features that are unique, compliment her. Say something like, "I'm a sucker for freckles on girls and I think yours are the cutest I've seen." Or "you're so pretty, that tiny mole on your cheek is perfectly placed. I love it." If she has a nice voice, compliment her, "my favorite part about spending time with you is hearing your voice. You're so captivating."
Don't make stuff up, really consider the girl you're building a friendship with and pay close attention to those qualities.
Above all else, look the part. Many guys seek to look the part but don't have the romantic touch. Get both and you'll be good to go.
@K-I-S-S In my experience, women don't like selfish friends. They prefer selfless friends. When a guy considers her needs before his, that's the way to a woman's heart. Take notes my friend.
Tricky.. I would say get to know them, talk, be approachable. But don’t let them know you like them. Instead just be yourself and look for body language ( If they look at you then look away, if they play with their hair when talking to you, if they point their feet towards you when you’re both sitting, look to see if her eyes dialate when taking to you.)
Strike up lots of conversations. Get involved in activities where you meet people. Take classes where there are labs or discussions instead of just straight lecture.
