Guys, what do you do to get noticed by a woman? Girls, what do you notice in a guy?

[exitseven]

[TrueConfection]

It depends on the setting. I'm not looking to find, but here are some things I have noticed and found attractive;

A man's soft spoken and kind voice.
The body heat radiating off a man standing close to me. I don't mean gym sweaty. I mean just warmth coming through his dress shirt.
A sincere smile from his mouth and his bright eyes.
Politeness
His body composition (this gets filed into 1:3 categories Morbidly obese, Super Fit, Healthy or would be nice to take a walk with).
What he's wearing (has to be appropriate for the setting).
His hair (I've noticed sexy bald guys, thick wavy hair, curly hair, as long as it looks good on him).

If you mean personality, that's more of a "looking for" than a "notice" because I would need time to get to know him. Unless his personality is Major Jerk, that tends to be noticeable from a distance.

[exitseven]

Thank you for that. I bet it will give lots of guys on this site something to think about.

[TrueConfection]

You're welcome. I hope it helps.

[TrueConfection]

Thank you for the MHO ❤

[jennifer_bloom]

In social interactions I look at his level of respect, his education, his availability and his loyalty to gauge my level of interest in a guy, as an example, I would not try to date a surgeon cause the chances of a break up or an absent and overly busy partner would be too high, neither would I date a rich comedian cause I want my kids to have a high I. Q., would not date a guy who pays for everything but criticizes me for making mistakes cause a guy whose is attracted to you is not always a guy who respects you etc..

If you mean as strangers, I look at his stomach and his eye brows, the stomach shows how much self control he has based on how fit or round it is and the eye brows show how masculine his hormones are.

[exitseven]

wow, what makes eyebrows masculine?

[jennifer_bloom]

Im assuming it shows hormones

[exitseven]

My eyebrows get bushy if I don't trim them and they are getting gray. is that masculine?

[jennifer_bloom]

I read woman prefer thick eyebrows in men

[exitseven]

okay.

[NathanDavis]

I get into their field of vision... long enough of close enough for them to notice me well, and then I take off but I do not go far... just to place where I keep an eye on them while they can't see me and they start to "look around" and when they spot, I usually get an idea if they were curious, or intrigued or interested or if they're just "meh you're not the one I'm looking for"... lol

if I feel the good vibes then I just get a lot closer and can just approach them, start with a "hey..."

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't do anything. I'm not trying to get any unnecessary attention.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[DarkCarousel]

I don’t do anything. I just hope he notices me. All I can do is be myself and hope it’s enough. If not, so be it.

[DizzyDesii]

Approach him for a conversation about anything random

[humanearth]

I dont do anything but walk up to them and start talking. If there is a click, more to happen

[poneglyphs]

Uhh, I have no idea. I just don't get noticed by girl's.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Their behavior

[exitseven]

what kind of behavior do you like.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Someone that's not afraid to be their natural self.. It's a turn off when people are fakey or trying too hard

[exitseven]

nice. Thanks for the answer.

[loves2learn]

Nice smile goes a lonnnnng way. And kind eyes. 😃

[exitseven]

good answer.

[loves2learn]

Thank you. :)

[Wiredone]

I don't try to get noticed

[jasco]

I simply look and than say hey

[msc545]

I ignore them which paradoxically seems to work.

[Anonymous]

I don't do anything to get noticed by them