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Yes, When I was dating there was no e-mail or video conferencing. I used to write my girlfriend at least once a week. I would sit in the library on Sunday night and write whatever was on my mind. Usually 2 or 3 pages. Then after I sealed the envelope I would put some lyrics from a song or a couple of lines from a poem.
This is so much more preferred in my opinion
I agree
I received several and only wrote one. Music, drawing and painting is how I would express my self. There's been several times that I've heard and song and sent it to someone because it reminded me of them. Songs from Neo , Joe , Avant, Music soulchild , Common etc. Whatever hits me at the time.
Omg you’re naming all the right artists! I own all their albums except Musiq bt im tryna get his too. And yes Music and Writing and Talking is how i express myself
Lol Right!! You gotta check some of musiq soulchilds music its great. Even Tamia , Floetry , Summer Walker or Janet got some songs as well.
omg yes i love all of them! I have janets cd. I like a few songs by Summer and Sza. I want floetry, tamia, and chante moore cd
I have no more cds in my house lol I should've saved them. I just strem on spptify or you tube now. But they definitely make some great music. I'll have to check out some Sza. I can't even front right now , you got me adding all of old songs to my playlist write now. Omg what you know about Glenn Lewis or Carl Thompson? Summer rain tho, lol this post has sparked up some memories and good vibes.
I have spotify but its too unorganized atm. I prefer physical copies of stuff. So yea i have like 200 cds all organized nicely. And speaking of Carl, i play Emotional almost every morning!! haven't heard Glenn in forever!! And dont forget Donnell Jones
Lol I definitely forgot donnel Jones.. wow..
I have all those albums! Also, i want to reply to what you said on my other post but the rap post keeps glitching and won't let me reply. So yea listen to Kesha Sleazy 2.0 remix and watch how Andre and the rest killed it
Wiz killed that
Wiiiiz? Lol i mean he was my least fave but it was his best rap. Ti and Andre kiiilled that. It wasn't my fave by Wayne but he definitely slayed as usual
Also check these. Eve killed all 3 battles in my opinion. Brandy had bars but her tone of voice when rapping is not appealing in my opinion.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-WcQZJJCYT8
I agree but I just think wiz swagged out on the track harder then the others. Its like that song under the sun with Cole and dababy. Yeah coles verse was nice but the dababy delivery was crazy. Completely swagged out on that track.
DaBaby murders everything. That mf is mean like a pitbull but his shit makes so much sense. Lemme know who u like better out of that last vid insent u
Dammmmmnnnnn! Now that was was nice. Brandy was going in tho. Felt like I was watching the url or rbe.
Yea its a tv show and every episode they spit. Eve is still the shit and still in my top 3 female
Rappers (the other two being Da Brat and Nicki Minaj.) As for Brandy, she has bars to be a singer and not a rapper but i just hate how deep and hoarse her rap voice sounds
I'm definitely going to have to watch that show. Off hand I can't think of any favorite female rappers its not that I dont like them but more so I can't relate to what they are saying sometimes. But I still respect the craft. Da brat was nice back in the day and so was eve and rah digga. I can't honestly say I like young ma tho.
Dababy if definitely a savge but so is tory lanez. That boy can spit, when he wants to. I feel like he did joyner lucas dishes when they had that back and forth spat.
I couldnt get into rah digga, remy ma nor young MA. And yea i love Nicki but mainly cause she flows and makes me laugh. I dont dig deep into her lyrics. I just love to dance. Wayne makes you dig deep and laugh. His word play is everything
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I wrote this to my wife 5 years ago for her birthday.
Starlights twinkle brightly in your eyes when whimsical visions and thoughts collide.
You ask my thoughts, earnestly seeking
My interest. Then ideas begin piquing
Our imaginations to take flight and soar
With fantasies we two can explore.
You say,
"Let's buy a home, our own place in the sun."
"What kind of vacation do you think would be fun?"
"Maybe we should plant some more flowers this Spring."
"At our party would you be willing to sing?"
"What do you think of this photo I took?"
"I think you're talented enough to write a book."
"Would this be a good color for our living room?"
"Do I look pretty in this Halloween costume?"
"Oh, can we keep this tiny, cute kitten?"
Clarita, I melt when I see you so smitten.
Of course, you can have what you truly desire, for I'm fed by the joy that your dreams inspire.
Your smile fills my spirit with liquid sunlight and with you by my side every moment is bright.
Your trust and encouragement fills me with pride. How lucky I am to have you by my side!
When you ask for my help or advice or opinion, you confidence makes me feel like a million.
When we walk down the street while holding hands, I'm filled with pride and my heart expands.
Both your inner and outer radiance I admire. That's why you are the only woman I desire.
I'm grateful that you see the goodness in me. Thank you for being the light that I see.
Thank you for being all the things that you are and for being the light of my life's guiding star.
How blessed I am that our souls were ordained to be with each other for all time to claim.
I love and admire you far more than you know and the feelings within me continue to grow.
My help mate, my soul mate, my muse and best friend, our eternal journey shall ne'er ever end.
Awww too beautiful
This was for my wife..
She captured starshine in her eyes
And let me have a peek
It danced and twinkled merrily
And made my heartbeat weak
Sweeter than soft candlelight
It put moonlight to shame!
And sparkled with a fire alive
And bade me lose my name
So willingly I cast myself
Inside her seas of brown
The waves came crashing over me
I was happy to be drowned
The captured starshine spoke to me
And begged me hear its plea
“A prison here inside her eyes
Will just not do for me.”
It whispered tales of distant lands
And galaxies untold
Of seas and love, of longings grand
And armored knights of old
It promised it would dance with me
Atop the sky and sea
The universe would be all mine
If I’d but set it free
Her eyes were vibrant sparks of fire
They stole my soul that day
I could not ever give them up
So I had this to say
“I'm sorry I can't take your deal
I rather like you there
Starshine winking from her eyes
And bouncing off her hair
I love her eyes the way they are
And so I am afraid
An offer of the universe
Won’t induce me to a trade”
The captured starshine twinkled
It could behave no other way
Her eyes danced and sparkled with the light
And took my breath away
Her charms had wooed that feckless light
Down from the nighttime sky
Its freedom was not mine to give
(nor would I even try)
I reached out to hold her hand
And asked her so I’d see
If a girl who'd captured starshine light
Would deign to stay with me
I fell for her that afternoon
A love both pure and true
I fell for her because her touch
Was captured starshine too
Gosh this is so beautiful. Im sure she was smitten. I love a man who shows effort. she's lucky to have you
Thanks my friend, I know she loves it. She's the best thing that ever happened to me.
I've written 2 sonnets for 2 girls and both dumped my ass within the coming weeks. I had the top 2% for in literature on SAT scores in my state in 2008. I don't write shittily when it comes to that. So when I spend a long time pouring my heart and emotions out and basically getting a hand slap for the effort I stopped. But I plan to write for a girl again. Maybe if I find the right one. I'll take her to a great place to wine and dine her, go to a park that evening after the sun has gone down all the way and read it. Then lol the question and get down ony knee for her. Have candles and roses waiting back at my place. Have a little trail leading to the bedroom. After we make love I'll tell her to stay put as I draw us a hot bath and pour us both some ice cold champagne. Later we'll make love again before bed. I've actually dreamed of this for many many years. That's how I want it to be.
Im glad you didn't let the bad apples spoil the whole bunch :)
@DizzyDesii never. I've talked to too many good women to believe all the apples are spoiled. I'll keep fighting for love till the end.
Yes! I think they are important. It’s something you can keep rather than just a text message or phone call. Putting in the effort to let someone know how you feel is crucial in a relationship. If you are getting them from someone you aren’t dating, they are putting a lot of time and effort into writing that for you and probably have feelings for you.
Absolutely! people need to understand this
I don't know if you've ever seen ," To all the boys I've loved before." I did something like what lara jean did when I was younger. I'd write letters but never sent them
Lol yep i did that way before that movie existed haha. And i saw the first one but didn't get to see the sequels unfortunately
Girrrl you catch up lara jean messy🤣
I prefer cable over netflix so
I don't know when ima catch up
Lmao
Really? 😭😭 I hate cable now. Well I shouldn't say that I just don't use it really. I only watch hallmark and lifetime
I can't watch Lifetime no more. The early 2000s movies were awesome but not now lol. I watch BET, MTV, ABC, Fox, CW, Starz, HBO, Bravo, Freeform, TNT, USA, NBC, CBS, CMT, VH1, TBS, Boomerang, TeenNick, HGTV, FX, Syfy, Sundance, AMC, BBC, IFC, and Comedy Central. I watch tv like 7p-10p weeknights
Back in high school when the text message was 3 or 5 cents a text lol. But anyways letters were more dope back in the days it was her handwriting her expression in a piece of paper and she had to see you to give u the letter so it was way better to write to eachother
Yes too adorbs 😍
Not a poem or a letter, but I did write a song for a guy I had a crush on during my sophomore year in high school. I never showed it to him though, but it's a song that will always have a very special meaning to me.
Aww thats sweet
Of course I think even on here people have written a poem to there significant other girlfriend boyfriend what have you and then they asked if it's good well I like to add on to it to make it really good LOL
Ooo i like that
I wrote a letter to a girl when I was a teenager that I was head over heels in love with.
Unfortunately she didn't feel the same way and it screwed up the friendship completely. Even 34 years later she still crosses my mind sometimes.
Damn…
I wrote poem all the time to my ex, 8 yr went down the drain, and endless poem's and other works of art, she cheated, lied, and broke trust a lot, maybe poem just blow up other ego to much, and make them think they can get away with anything. That just my outlook on this, it seem's to be just a spot the differnce when it come's to poem connected story's
You said the poem blows up their ego?
Yeahhh baby!🥰😍 it works wonders, sometimes I add a joke or two. I'll write poems & love letters until the day I die🥰
Omg yes!!
I have become the devil in which I wish not to be but in order to play this fiendish game I have to be taking the words I say and you shall win this game, so will you cuddle by the fires of fate, and be intertwined in the fabric of space and time for all eternity. Or will you let me reek in rot. Thus I shall await your return so we can play in this twisted world we call home
@exitseven brown eyes is a common thing. So I don't really get what you're saying
@Zealashton okay- actually I thought what you wrote was pretty cool. However The expression goes "You are so full of shit your eyes are brown." sorry.
Not really, maybe a sort of "love mail" to a girl I liked.
My love live has not been that active although I have been close with girls.
Love mail is cute too
I agree. I love getting letters. Unfortunately I told my sos that and he he refuses to write me. Complains about his wrist hurting. Smdh.
Yes like why do they always have excuses ughhh
When I first started dating my wife I was in a Shakespeare class and we had to write sonnets. I wrote a bunch of love sonnets to her in the process.
Omg love it
I did but he didn't appreciate it.. He said he doesn't give a rat's about poetry and that it's only for pussies and fags
You can imagine what kind of a guy I had crush on
Uncultured swine
Omg I've dated that type before! Such a turnoff because you just wanted to creatively express yourself
No, not really. I can be pretty effective with words , sometimes powerful, sometimes overwhelming, but the poetry I write is never addressed to anyone. A lot of times it's just describing an experience, the experience that inspired the art of describing it , some being erotic.
Yea i like that kind too but i meant something more special

I wrote this on August 27, 2018 to my boyfriend. It’s crazy how things change 😂.
How did things change?
Lmao why is that
I haven't but I would do it for a guy I like if he writes something for me
Yea a lot won't tho
In relationships that's one of the many ways I show my love to my significant other
Yesss its beautiful
Ugh, yes, a poem and a fucking letter. Poorest decision ever.
How so
On the other hand, a guy once wrote and sang a song for me. It was hella cute, but very embarrassing
That guy turned out to be a player, he lead me on, said all the cute things, sent me the song Chasing Cars, told me that he liked me, but when i sent him the letter, ghosted me. I didn't talk to the guy ever again, and yeah, he was a jerk
Omg i love Chasing Cars
Right! He said and i quote: "this song reminds me of you xx"
That is a romantic song!! Ugh i hate that sweet talking jerk
Oh god, yes. In fifth grade — I put it in his desk, but I didn't sign my name on it or anything. He threw it in the trash after he read it. 🤣
Whaaaaaat tf. Ughhhh can't believe he did that
Sorry i.. didn’t know 🥺
@DizzyDesii
I wrote One in highschool.
It didn't work on the girl.
I needed a poem for English class so I turned it in... got an A-.
@DizzyDesii
If you follow me I'll send it and then unfollow me.
It was pretty good for a lovesick 14 yr old boy.
I’ll be 100% honest. I enjoyed following you but there are some political stances where even though inrespect our differences, some of the things you said back then, i kind of took personally. So i unfollowed you for that reason. So i have no issue with you and enjoy your posts/opinions. I just wanted you to know why in unfollowed some months ago
Lmao i wouldve had to use google translate 🤣 8 years of Spanish and i have tried to remember crap after graduating college
Not poems or love letters. I always expressed my emotions of love face to face. And, as you know, it backfired every time, with severe damage.
I know you’ve been hurt but you’ve never told me the backstory and im not asking you to. But im here if you ever want to discuss it someday. And i hope those bad experiences dont stop you from ever considering writing a poem or something. Dont let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch
First of all, it wasn't one bad apple, unfortunately. But the baddest one was when I fell in love with this one girl, and I pored my heart out to her. Then I found out she was only with me to make her ex jealous. Not only that, but a few days from that moment, she broke up with me to be with said ex, and told everyone some stupid reason for breaking up, where I ended up as the guilty party. And she got together with her ex two days after breaking up with me. I mean, no one believed her, but still...
Damn, i see why your guard is up. She was on some rebound shit and im sorry you were the victim of that. But you can't let her fckups fck u up. We both know you’re better than whatever she’s about and you dodged a bullet
She wasn't the only one, she was just the cruelest one. There were others.
No but when I first met my wife I had to go away for a while and I told her a joke every day that I had access to a phone that’s the closest to a love letter I’ve ever done and a couple of the jokes kinda rhymes so that’s kinda like a poem but I wasn’t the author of any of them
Ahhh i see
I’m not to sure if I ever did but I hope one day that I can for a girl that I do love a lot
Well definitely look forward to it :)
When I had a girlfriend I always sent her love cards for like Valentines Day
Thats sweet of you
@DizzyDesii Yes and thank you :)
Great question... 20 or so years ago when I was another man. Now it seems to corny.
I promise its not corny
poem… no, I’m not creative enough for that lmao but a letter, yes
Lol aww okay
hahaha and he wasn’t a trashass, but I feel for you girlie who wasted your time on those useless ones😭
I am a published poet, and have written poetry to a few loves over the years
So lovely to hear
In dark red wine colour with paper made for letters like that... of course sealed with wax (red and white) and her initials
I'm pretty sure there is a hand full of these out there somewhere in a basement
No one will in 40 years will reread old romantic love emails... use paper, something to hold on in bad times
I’d reread old paper
Yes I did. Many times, and it was when I was still a kid. Never appreciated or reciprocated. Made me feel like crap that girls would say they liked something or thought something was romantic. Then, boom. Laughing in your face in front of all their friends. Kinda hope they have dead beat husbands now. Ok, maybe not, but putting your heart out there for them to step on it is pretty rough.
I hate you were mistreated
Yes, a few over the years. I do not remeber how they went!
I wrote some songs too!
See thats so romantic!
Yeah in High school I written a Boyz II men song in the form of a poem to a female I was crushing at the time
Aww i like that
Yes I did, many years ago😃
Thats nice
Yeah plenty times…but never really had the guts to give it to them
Awww i hate when that happens
I wrote one poem ever and it was to my wife and i read it to her on our wedding night.
Thats so sweet. I think my vows will be a poen
Yea hopefully
One time I wrote a letter to this guy that I liked for a long time...
Then I send it right when I moved... lol
Lmao i’d do sumn like that 🤣
i have and they loved it they made a comment about me being so romantic that i reminded me of the movie the notebook too. it was just so sweet.
I hate that movie lmao but i think writing your SO a poem is beautiful
Waaaaay too much of that. Most of the writing I did was writing drafts on drafts on drafts. All like 3 pages long and literally have written almost 40 different versions of the same writing. Never doing that or giving that much shit again about anything. Noone's worth thatuch sanity
Aww but someone may be
Not quite that much no. I'm talking anxiety attacks almost nightly over a lot of this same thing. Love was never explained to me realistically, only biblically as fam has no experience except for their marriages. So it was more of a whimsical venture where it all works out in the end in my mind so the acts I planned out would be with God in heart. I used to intertwine the two. As "God is love" right? But as feelings and reading into both changed some perspective I came to other conclusions. Currently at a stand still in life so I've decided to not conclude on either for me because concluding on them has only brought me to extreme lows and confusion with the only help going as far as "pray about it".
Yes. Be careful who you write them to - I write poetry for fun so I didn’t realize what a big deal it is to people. Only do it if you’re actually good at writing poetry and don’t be surprised if you get strong reactions.
Im pretty confident
Yes an she wanted more cuz it jus made her felt more an more in love
Yes im the same haha
Yes. ALL my GFs have received my love poems, which I daresay were brilliant!
I bet haha
You doubt me?
I said i bet. Not i doubt
Yup. And still do. I write my lady a poem every Friday.
Seee thats that shit i like. Ughhh she's so lucky
Yes I have written several love letters and then burnt them as the person I wanted to be with already refused romantic interest towards me.
Im sorry that happened to you
Back in my simp days (highschool where I thought we all were normal
Across 3 days I slipped 3 different poems writing my myself into this girl's locker. After she started talking about it to me I admitted it was me and she just went " oh ok" and proceeded to tell me about some Chad she liked and thought wrote the poems.
She a baby mama of 2 kids 2 different dad's now. I dodged a bullet
Why does writing poetry make you a simp... Im so sick of these bullshit ass terms. Straight overrated
I've written a poem for my future husband that won first place in a sister group 😊
Wow thats lovely
yea but currently based on what most women find attractive in 2021 love letters and poems by most women are considered corny and i think if most men wanna appear corny to women like they dont know how to deal with women i'd do that
I love a corny dude
Only ever did it for my first love.
Thats more than enough :)
Only some one I was in serious relationship with.
Thats the best kind
Yes, several. Contents are private.
I understand :)
Certainly have thought about it once or twice before, but never actually done it.
You should :)
Yes I did, many times but didn't had the courage to tell her that and now she have a boyfriend. I am a coward in this case.
Im sorry that happened
I use to when I was lusting over this girl I was really attracted to. She love the poems I written to her and we dated a couple times but that is itm
No, as I don't have a girlfriend. But I would do that.
Its so romantic. You should
You can write it early on for a future someone
Yes when I was about 11. He threw it in the bin and laughed at me. Haven’t written one since
I have, and I wrote songs for women that I loved.
So beautiful
No. It's been my experience that women generally react to romantic gestures with derision. It's best to keep your pimp hand strong.
Smh not true
Yea one of the dumbest things I ever did. Wasn't ever that dumb ever again.
Smh its not dumb
It's not dumb for anyone else, and I didn't know my place at the time but looking back it was one of the dumbest things I ever did. I got made fun of so bad I didn't finish middle school and I went to a high school of the opposite side the city.
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