That guy turned out to be a player, he lead me on, said all the cute things, sent me the song Chasing Cars, told me that he liked me, but when i sent him the letter, ghosted me. I didn't talk to the guy ever again, and yeah, he was a jerk
I’ll be 100% honest. I enjoyed following you but there are some political stances where even though inrespect our differences, some of the things you said back then, i kind of took personally. So i unfollowed you for that reason. So i have no issue with you and enjoy your posts/opinions. I just wanted you to know why in unfollowed some months ago
I know you’ve been hurt but you’ve never told me the backstory and im not asking you to. But im here if you ever want to discuss it someday. And i hope those bad experiences dont stop you from ever considering writing a poem or something. Dont let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch
First of all, it wasn't one bad apple, unfortunately. But the baddest one was when I fell in love with this one girl, and I pored my heart out to her. Then I found out she was only with me to make her ex jealous. Not only that, but a few days from that moment, she broke up with me to be with said ex, and told everyone some stupid reason for breaking up, where I ended up as the guilty party. And she got together with her ex two days after breaking up with me. I mean, no one believed her, but still...
Damn, i see why your guard is up. She was on some rebound shit and im sorry you were the victim of that. But you can't let her fckups fck u up. We both know you’re better than whatever she’s about and you dodged a bullet
No but when I first met my wife I had to go away for a while and I told her a joke every day that I had access to a phone that’s the closest to a love letter I’ve ever done and a couple of the jokes kinda rhymes so that’s kinda like a poem but I wasn’t the author of any of them
Yes I did. Many times, and it was when I was still a kid. Never appreciated or reciprocated. Made me feel like crap that girls would say they liked something or thought something was romantic. Then, boom. Laughing in your face in front of all their friends. Kinda hope they have dead beat husbands now. Ok, maybe not, but putting your heart out there for them to step on it is pretty rough.
Waaaaay too much of that. Most of the writing I did was writing drafts on drafts on drafts. All like 3 pages long and literally have written almost 40 different versions of the same writing. Never doing that or giving that much shit again about anything. Noone's worth thatuch sanity
Not quite that much no. I'm talking anxiety attacks almost nightly over a lot of this same thing. Love was never explained to me realistically, only biblically as fam has no experience except for their marriages. So it was more of a whimsical venture where it all works out in the end in my mind so the acts I planned out would be with God in heart. I used to intertwine the two. As "God is love" right? But as feelings and reading into both changed some perspective I came to other conclusions. Currently at a stand still in life so I've decided to not conclude on either for me because concluding on them has only brought me to extreme lows and confusion with the only help going as far as "pray about it".
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Ugh, yes, a poem and a fucking letter. Poorest decision ever.
How so
On the other hand, a guy once wrote and sang a song for me. It was hella cute, but very embarrassing
That guy turned out to be a player, he lead me on, said all the cute things, sent me the song Chasing Cars, told me that he liked me, but when i sent him the letter, ghosted me. I didn't talk to the guy ever again, and yeah, he was a jerk
Omg i love Chasing Cars
Right! He said and i quote: "this song reminds me of you xx"
That is a romantic song!! Ugh i hate that sweet talking jerk
Oh god, yes. In fifth grade — I put it in his desk, but I didn't sign my name on it or anything. He threw it in the trash after he read it. 🤣
Whaaaaaat tf. Ughhhh can't believe he did that
Sorry i.. didn’t know 🥺
Great question... 20 or so years ago when I was another man. Now it seems to corny.
I promise its not corny
@DizzyDesii
I wrote One in highschool.
It didn't work on the girl.
I needed a poem for English class so I turned it in... got an A-.
@DizzyDesii
If you follow me I'll send it and then unfollow me.
It was pretty good for a lovesick 14 yr old boy.
I’ll be 100% honest. I enjoyed following you but there are some political stances where even though inrespect our differences, some of the things you said back then, i kind of took personally. So i unfollowed you for that reason. So i have no issue with you and enjoy your posts/opinions. I just wanted you to know why in unfollowed some months ago
Fair enough. It was just to send you the poem and then unfollow me.
Your call, no worries.
I've written one in Spanish. I'm sure it was horrible and didn't express the context I intended.
Lmao i wouldve had to use google translate 🤣 8 years of Spanish and i have tried to remember crap after graduating college
Not poems or love letters. I always expressed my emotions of love face to face. And, as you know, it backfired every time, with severe damage.
I know you’ve been hurt but you’ve never told me the backstory and im not asking you to. But im here if you ever want to discuss it someday. And i hope those bad experiences dont stop you from ever considering writing a poem or something. Dont let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch
First of all, it wasn't one bad apple, unfortunately. But the baddest one was when I fell in love with this one girl, and I pored my heart out to her. Then I found out she was only with me to make her ex jealous. Not only that, but a few days from that moment, she broke up with me to be with said ex, and told everyone some stupid reason for breaking up, where I ended up as the guilty party. And she got together with her ex two days after breaking up with me. I mean, no one believed her, but still...
Damn, i see why your guard is up. She was on some rebound shit and im sorry you were the victim of that. But you can't let her fckups fck u up. We both know you’re better than whatever she’s about and you dodged a bullet
She wasn't the only one, she was just the cruelest one. There were others.
No but when I first met my wife I had to go away for a while and I told her a joke every day that I had access to a phone that’s the closest to a love letter I’ve ever done and a couple of the jokes kinda rhymes so that’s kinda like a poem but I wasn’t the author of any of them
Ahhh i see
I’m not to sure if I ever did but I hope one day that I can for a girl that I do love a lot
Well definitely look forward to it :)
Me too 💙
When I had a girlfriend I always sent her love cards for like Valentines Day
Thats sweet of you
@DizzyDesii Yes and thank you :)
poem… no, I’m not creative enough for that lmao but a letter, yes
Lol aww okay
hahaha and he wasn’t a trashass, but I feel for you girlie who wasted your time on those useless ones😭
I am a published poet, and have written poetry to a few loves over the years
So lovely to hear
In dark red wine colour with paper made for letters like that... of course sealed with wax (red and white) and her initials
I'm pretty sure there is a hand full of these out there somewhere in a basement
No one will in 40 years will reread old romantic love emails... use paper, something to hold on in bad times
I’d reread old paper
Exactly
Yes I did. Many times, and it was when I was still a kid. Never appreciated or reciprocated. Made me feel like crap that girls would say they liked something or thought something was romantic. Then, boom. Laughing in your face in front of all their friends. Kinda hope they have dead beat husbands now. Ok, maybe not, but putting your heart out there for them to step on it is pretty rough.
I hate you were mistreated
It didn’t change me too much. Still a romantic at heart.
Yes, a few over the years. I do not remeber how they went!
I wrote some songs too!
See thats so romantic!
Yeah in High school I written a Boyz II men song in the form of a poem to a female I was crushing at the time
Aww i like that
Thanks Desii
Yes I did, many years ago😃
Thats nice
Yeah plenty times…but never really had the guts to give it to them
Awww i hate when that happens
I wrote one poem ever and it was to my wife and i read it to her on our wedding night.
Thats so sweet. I think my vows will be a poen
I can picture you doing that already. I think Whoever you marry will be a very lucky man.
Yea hopefully
One time I wrote a letter to this guy that I liked for a long time...
Then I send it right when I moved... lol
Lmao i’d do sumn like that 🤣
i have and they loved it they made a comment about me being so romantic that i reminded me of the movie the notebook too. it was just so sweet.
I hate that movie lmao but i think writing your SO a poem is beautiful
Waaaaay too much of that. Most of the writing I did was writing drafts on drafts on drafts. All like 3 pages long and literally have written almost 40 different versions of the same writing. Never doing that or giving that much shit again about anything. Noone's worth thatuch sanity
Aww but someone may be
Not quite that much no. I'm talking anxiety attacks almost nightly over a lot of this same thing. Love was never explained to me realistically, only biblically as fam has no experience except for their marriages. So it was more of a whimsical venture where it all works out in the end in my mind so the acts I planned out would be with God in heart. I used to intertwine the two. As "God is love" right? But as feelings and reading into both changed some perspective I came to other conclusions. Currently at a stand still in life so I've decided to not conclude on either for me because concluding on them has only brought me to extreme lows and confusion with the only help going as far as "pray about it".