Guys, what flirting methods actually work on you and which ones don't?

[romanticallyconfused]

There's a guy I've been trying to flirt with, but frankly I'm quite shy and he's quite hard-headed. What methods should I try that I could actually pull off and he might actually notice? Thanks!

[Anonymous]

I can't ever remember a girl flirting with me in a social setting. Usually them talking to me is a good sign. If a woman isn't at least somewhat interested she won't bother spending the time talking. Asking to dance was always big but unfortunately I don't dance and a lot of times they'd take it as I'm not interested. The flirting would happen when it was more of a private, one on one setting.

[Shy_Steve]

I think you might be surprised how easy it is as soon as you start talking to him.

[Anonymous]

invest in a pair of nice leather pants. Just trust me, they add +10 to your flirting just by wearing them

[Lockey_]

Uhh this might also go wrong. E. g. The girl would be much less attractive to me when wearing leather pants, short skirt and such.

[Opinion Owner]

@Lockey_ short skirt yes, but I've tried it just going to a normal bar I always go to with leather pants and got hit on way way way more... maybe not for you, but for most guys it works AMAZINGLY

[Lockey_]

Yeah i know... i guess the fact that it works in this regard is the reason why it doesn't work for me

[Teaku94]

Maybe try not to flirt and have a real conversation instead.

[Bdsmaster]

I am not much of a romantic but I prefer taking the direct approach, talk to him, tell him you like him if it works out good and if not hard luck

[IAMNathanael]

Nothing. Everything is a repellent

[Iron_Man]

When she’s being true that works

[Daniel93]

It's All about eye contact and smiling for me

[Anonymous]

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