Girls, How do I get past hello?

Question

Girls please help me out here. How can I know that you like me? How can I get from hello to possibly a date? I see girls all the time, but I don't seem to know how to get beyond hello.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

In order to be able to communicate with people and in particular with girls, you must be pro-active and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in a way or another.

But you have to work on yourself first. That would include shyness and social anxiety because that is what I fear that your problem is.

You can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.

But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen. The most important is not to be afraid to fail. If you it does not work the first time, get back onto your feet and try again.

KarinMcDonald · Accepted Answer

Sue and What have excellent opinions. I would only add that when starting a conversation, don't just talk about yourself. Find out what she likes to do. Don't ask really personal questions. If she asks something about yourself, then go ahead and answer. I just get so bored when a guy drones on and on about himself. Be humble without being a door mat. And be polite!