Is it flirt when my friend that is a girl unexpectedly holds my hands interlockingly and slept on my shoulder when she barely responds to my messages?

[Anonymous]

Unexpectedly grabbed my hands, did so
more than once.

Held my arm in her lap once, holding my
hand with both of hers.

She slept on my shoulder without falling
asleep even though she was tired.

I know she is comfortable with me but is she just a good friend? Even as a good friend, why doesn't she respond very
much?

It’s also not like we see each other often, we live far apart and probably won’t see her for a few weeks or months.

[RohitGupta_2022]

It's nothing more than a good friend. As you suggested you got barley response of your message. May be she is afraid to lose you.

If you want to know that wheather she is interested in you or not.
1. Ask her, is she is single. If yes then may be see you as her next target. If not, you should control your emotions.
2. If she is single, you should also start touching her body like pull her chicks.
3. Find some personal space and do some romantic moves like rub her thighs sometimes.
4. Spank her ass. Grab her ass.

[Asker]

I can’t do that it would be weird and make her upset

[Asker]

Plus I’d be embarrassed

[Asker]

And pull her what

[random_girl95]

There are these type of girls who feel very comfortable around guys but don't see them romantically. They just see them as good friends. I think you are this case.

[Asker]

Okay thank you
Since you think she is just a good friend, why do you think she wouldn’t respond to my messages very much
It’s not like we see each other often so in between the times we see each other it’s our only way to talk

[random_girl95]

Maybe for her it's enough when you talk in real life and doesn't want to extend your conversation via messages.

[Asker]

Maybe
Actually though yesterday she responded and we messaged for about 30 minutes but still other than that not too good at responding